Faraaxs! Marry a woman from back home!

Macalin dheerow

Macalin dheerow

The pessimistic attitute towards marriage is not good, marriage offers more good than bad. I understand divorces in the west, especially Usa can be hard on the men but its just 1 country. Men there need to campaign against it as its a legal and political issue.
 
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jabsveg276

Macalin dheerow said:
The pessimistic attitute towards marriage is not good, marriage offers more good than bad. I understand divorces in the west, especially Usa can be hard on the men but its just 1 country. Men there need to campaign against it as its a legal and political issue.
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Marriage and raising a family in the west just isn’t worth it/
 
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jabsveg276

KobeBryant said:
Lots of angry women in this thread. :whoa: Chill out and stay single nobody forcin marriage on you. Plenty of elderly women who never were married and have no kids who are happy. @Destiny @Amirah
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Don't forget @Angelina :mjlol:


Anyways, I'll probably marry a woman from Somalia who's into deen, culture and has humor and I'll probably raise my family in the UAE

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Kool-Aid

Kool-Aid

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If you are ganna marry someone from back home make sure that you also live there or move to more favourable countries. Do not bring them back to the US, Canada or UK.
 
Hali

Hali

Destiny said:
What a joke. Women have to baby males, appease their egos, and deal with their abuse all our lives, and we're the ones who benefit from marriage?
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You shouldn’t be doing any of that better of single if that’s the case.
 
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Bo$$man

There plenty of good Somali girls in the west. You guys seem to have this weird obsession of marrying someone back home to women you will never relate to. If you are the right circles you will come across them. I've heard many stories of guys getting cuked when they are in the west and their xalimos bashaal with the locals.

The person who you marry is what matters, not their location!
 
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Angelina

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Hot Ballah said:
again, you’re confusing these guy’s point. They’re not saying husbands work harder or do more stuff, they’re specifically talking about legal marriages and what goes down in court.

I don’t know why you’d assume they’re saying “don’t get a wife or a partner at all, you’ll just do all the work”, they’re saying “don’t let the government/state come into your business or sign a contract”.
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Apart from third world countries with no proper enforceable laws and protection for women, everywhere you go marriage is a contract. Islamically, it is a contract between a man and a woman and in proper Muslim countries, the court are very much involved.

I get guys being uncomfortable about alimony, but it seems to me, above all any form of accountability is an issue for them because Somalis rarely get into alimony disputes nor do we have enough finances on average for this to be a hot topic. In fact, we have the opposite problem. Women not recording their marriages and not getting their rights.

For the life of me, I have no idea why a supposed '17 year old' is thinking this why. Redpill and incel ideology is truly radicalising the youth. I mean, he's trolling madows on Lipstick alley. Not a normal kid in the slightest.
 
Wervelwind

Wervelwind

Wallahi Somali marriage is unfair to women. it's easy to find a woman who will cook and clean for me and she will do it because (no offence) women are weak to societal pressure/the norm.
 
Xaruun

Xaruun

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Mercury said:
if you think girls back home are angels you're gullible

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Bo$$man said:
There plenty of good Somali girls in the west. You guys seem to have this weird obsession of marrying someone back home to women you will never relate to. If you are the right circles you will come across them. I've heard many stories of guys getting cuked when they are in the west and their xalimos bashaal with the locals.

The person who you marry is what matters, not their location!
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Don’t get played bros, hoes are everywhere
 
vanilla

vanilla

i think with my heart
most xalimos in the west got good career..., they financially contribute, they cook and clean... they provide stable home and supportive family... marriage benefits men more than women :dzmxmmb:
 
empressjamila

empressjamila

yktv
Marriage caters to and benefits men. Bc as a woman not only do you bust your ass at work same way a man does to help provide for the household cause you need two incomes these days but you also have to take care of all the domestic duties, cook clean and take care of the kids while your husband is chilling & sitting on his ass in the next room. And then you’re still expected to provide intimacy at night even tho you’re tired and burnt out
 
Abdisamad

Abdisamad

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Amirah said:
Exactly, not to mention carrying babies for 9 months and breastfeeding them when they don’t even bare our family name or qabil. Rarely can man create a home for himself, but once married suddenly they have a home, warm meals, children to their name and intimacy at command, we essentially become their mom 2.0 with extra benefits but yeah sure we benefit more lol
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It's not all so rosy as you describe it.. We have to put up with all the buuq, nagging, silent treatment and financial burden of supporting you while you still complain :mjlol:
 
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