Faraaxs has no compassion for the divestors.

[Dagdag]

Bro what suptises is why does these woman go and complain to their former husband ethnic group .
Its big question

I think its racism, people should consider inlaws when marrying. marriage is merging of two families. i doubt the husband ethnic group cares for mixed african kids

 

[Abdisamad]

That's very sad and horrible to mock a hoyoo in such a sad situation.. Wallahi her inkaar might hit them.

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

Fob brothers have become cold if this was ten years ago they would’ve helped her i guess social media has had an effect on our society

 

[Angelina]

Fob brothers have become cold if this was ten years ago they would’ve helped her i guess social media has had an effect on our society

Fob women hardly marry out. Cold for what? They’re not cold though are they when they’re raising blood money for a murderer in their tribe are they? GTFOH

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

Fob women hardly marry out. Cold for what? They’re not cold though are they when they’re raising blood money for a murderer in their tribe are they?

I’m Just giving my observation on this topic

 

[Abdisamad]

@Angelina

In the video there's no information about how we can help, do you know how she can be helped? I don't mind contributing to a fund to help her .. This is such a sad story and has no place in a stupid social media gender wars.

 

[DoctorSambaac]

The xaasidnimo is disgusting. Imagine taunting someone when they’re down? Her husband died and she’s poor and she’s being mocked because she was married to a man that wasn’t Somali?

You know what, us Somali women with money from the West should come together and help these women. Sadly many of men are cruel jealous sociopaths who will punish a woman when she’s down just because she didn’t follow the script and marry them. The requirement of their charity is based on being with them. They lack humanity and will watch a Muslim starve for daring to go for someone that isn’t them. They don’t know her back story, nothing. There was a similar story of another older fob lady who had kids with an ajnabi and it turns out her father was the one who married her off! Yet when the man left she was being attacked by unhinged Abdis. Such cursed men!

I agree with you that the time of callin for help in the name of Somali for the divestors is long gone, They’ll have way better chance of help if they ask from Xalimos rather than the community they left.

Fob women hardly marry out. Cold for what? They’re not cold though are they when they’re raising blood money for a murderer in their tribe are they? GTFOH

Both genders do that.

Fob brothers have become cold if this was ten years ago they would’ve helped her i guess social media has had an effect on our society

Ye its quite a sticky situation neither of this women might be the infamous ones who come on socialmedia and insult Faraaxs but because of that loud group they’ve all gotten grouped together.

 

[Angelina]

I’m Just giving my observation on this topic

Sorry by bad, woke up on the wrong side of bed and seeing an old fob lady who is clearly struggling struggling and is probably incredibly poor being mocked this way seems satanic to me. It’s one thing if it’s a UK Somali girl who marries an ajnabi goes though something. But back home poverty is life or death. Her inkaar and the inkaar of the others is enough to finish those people.

 

[DoctorSambaac]

I think its racism, people should consider inlaws when marrying. marriage is merging of two families. i doubt the husband ethnic group cares for mixed african kids

Were all muslims why wouldnt the people she marry care about her kids? if true. Dont they consider it before?

 

[Angelina]

@Angelina

In the video there's no information about how we can help, do you know how she can be helped? I don't mind contributing to a fund to help her .. This is such a sad story and has no place in a stupid social media gender wars.

Wallahi this is sad. This isn’t a UK or American Somali girl crying on the net about her rubbish marriage. In that situation, not that I agree if they mock it, it’s whatever. But this is a poor OLD woman and poverty back home is a case of life and death. It’s not a joke.

I don’t know as well. If someone find a link or a charity, send it. I’d feel this way about any mother. She could be Arab, Black or whatever, let’s not mock people when they’re at their weakest.

Abdisamad, I really love your kindness and you’ll get far in life InshaAllah! When you’re compassionate, even those that don’t know you will make dua for you!

 

[Abdisamad]

Wallahi this is sad. This isn’t a UK or American Somali girl crying on the net about her rubbish marriage. In that situation, not that I agree if they mock it, it’s whatever. But this is a poor OLD woman and poverty back home is a case of life and death. It’s not a joke.

I don’t know as well. If someone find a link or a charity, send it. I’d feel this way about any mother. She could be Arab, Black or whatever, let’s not mock people when they’re at their weakest.

Abdisamad, I really love your kindness and you’ll get far in life InshaAllah! When you’re compassionate, even those that don’t know you will make dua for you!

Wallahi her story hit me hard, the fools making fun of the hooyo should try to be in her shoes, raising all 4 kids alone and their poor fathers gone.. As far as I remember Pakistanis are our Muslim brothers so why so much hate?.. I really hope someone finds out the details on how we can contribute to her fund I'll send her some money Insha'Allah.

 

[Dagdag]

Were all muslims why wouldnt the people she marry care about her kids? if true. Dont they consider it before?

yes muslims shouldn't be racist. the religion is perfect but people are flawed. Even in our own community we have cases of racism against other blacks and africans the worst is clan based racism and saying certain tribes untouchable. some foreginer inlaws will accept the child and union others wont its gamble. I'm not big on cousin marriage but one of the pros is how issues like this can be resolved easier. it makes tight knit family unit even tighter

 

[reer]

yes muslims shouldn't be racist. the religion is perfect but people are flawed. Even in our own community we have cases of racism against other blacks and africans the worst is clan based racism and saying certain tribes untouchable. some foreginer inlaws will accept the child and union others wont its gamble. I'm not big on cousin marriage but one of the pros is how issues like this can be resolved easier. it makes tight knit family unit even tighter

where are the kids adeero and eedooyin?

 

[galhareeri]

I think its racism, people should consider inlaws when marrying. marriage is merging of two families. i doubt the husband ethnic group cares for mixed african kids

Ok than why should we somalis

 

[galhareeri]

So if that girl didn’t have kids and she was struggling and from your clan, you’d help. But now that she has kids you don’t approve of, you won’t help? But you’ll pay the blood money of a murderous man in your tribe?

You’re punishing her and condemning her and her innocent kids to starvation because a Somali man like you didn’t have kids with her. Your help is based on only helping women who are linked to men like you and it’s nothing to do with helping a struggling woman and her children for the sake of Allah. It’s all about the Somali man and that’s the only people you truly have compassion for. It’s evil and narcissistic which is why Somali women need to create women only charities because at the end of the day, it’s becoming obvious Somali men’s help is based on only helping themselves.

During the post war, it was a lot of women who raised money for their family and tribes and women in Somali dhaqan give Qaraan. Somali women are the backbones of tribes and are the rallying forces. It’s about time many wake up and understand that a murdering relative will be funded before they are if they’re not associated with a Farax.

Excatly why should invest in child who is not somali he wont benefit us in long run

 

[reer]

Sorry by bad, woke up on the wrong side of bed and seeing an old fob lady who is clearly struggling struggling and is probably incredibly poor being mocked this way seems satanic to me. It’s one thing if it’s a UK Somali girl who marries an ajnabi goes though something. But back home poverty is life or death. Her inkaar and the inkaar of the others is enough to finish those people.

if a farax give your gabadh to a south asian you are 90% wrong. irresponsible. they have a toxic in law culture the mother in law treats the wife like crap. not to mention being averse to their own fellow asians who are darker. Ilaahay gabadha ha caawiyo. where are the kids adeers? smh. i blame spineless faraxs.

 

[Angelina]

@galhareeri

Yes but paying the diya of a murderer or a r4p!st is of benefit to you? This is why I can’t take your argument seriously. When you take the money of Somali women but only help them when they’re associated with a Somali man, that’s a sickeness. Youll
Help the most deprived of men even at the expense of your own women and now you want to talk about ‘benefits’.

Most of you lot hardly benefit from tribalism anyway and it’s why your country is backward and most of our people are poor and shell shocked after years of fighting.

If you as Somali men knew what benefitted you, your women wouldn’t be starving in refugee camps, have amisom soldiers r-wording your women the list continues. We wouldn’t be all outside of our nation fearing Khaarxis due to flipping tribalism whenever we come back. I’m so disillusioned with Somalinimo I don’t know where to start.

I’m going low here, but you lot need the truth. Such backwards people and the state of our people are testimony to this. Inkaar waaya.

As Somalis, you lot don’t benefit anyone but the worst amongst you lot, so don’t speak to me about ‘benefit’.

 

[galhareeri]

@galhareeri

Yes but paying the diya of a murderer or a r4p!st is of benefit to you? This is why I can’t take your argument seriously. When you take the money of Somali women but only help them when they’re associated with a Somali man, that’s a sickeness. Youll
Help the most deprived of men even at the expense of your own women and now you want to talk about ‘benefits’.

Most of you lot hardly benefit from tribalism anyway and it’s why your country is backward and most of our people are poor and shell shocked after years of fighting.

If you as Somali men knew what benefitted you, your women wouldn’t be starving in refugee camps, have amisom soldiers r-wording your women the list continues. We wouldn’t be all outside of our nation fearing Khaarxis due to flipping tribalism whenever we come back. I’m so disillusioned with Somalinimo I don’t know where to start.

I’m going low here, but you lot need the truth. Such backwards people and the state of our people are testimony to this. Inkaar waaya.

As Somalis, you lot don’t benefit anyone but the worst amongst you lot, so don’t speak to me about ‘benefit’.

U sat refugee camp .
I dont any one from my clan in refugee camp imo.
As we are talking about clans and told i wil help if she was from my clan as in yes but only if her husband is somali
Also womam from my flan aint refugee remember i dont come from weak clan it is thoughs clans displaced by others in 1991 who came refugee pur clan never left zmar even other clans like hiraab fought to wipe us out so technicaly our women didnt become refugee thats is atleast benefit they got from our men.
Today refugees are mainly hawiye. Come to xamar 99% idps are eelay and jar**r imo sk technical refugee isues doesnot deal with me imo

 

[galhareeri]

@galhareeri

Yes but paying the diya of a murderer or a r4p!st is of benefit to you? This is why I can’t take your argument seriously. When you take the money of Somali women but only help them when they’re associated with a Somali man, that’s a sickeness. Youll
Help the most deprived of men even at the expense of your own women and now you want to talk about ‘benefits’.

Most of you lot hardly benefit from tribalism anyway and it’s why your country is backward and most of our people are poor and shell shocked after years of fighting.

If you as Somali men knew what benefitted you, your women wouldn’t be starving in refugee camps, have amisom soldiers r-wording your women the list continues. We wouldn’t be all outside of our nation fearing Khaarxis due to flipping tribalism whenever we come back. I’m so disillusioned with Somalinimo I don’t know where to start.

I’m going low here, but you lot need the truth. Such backwards people and the state of our people are testimony to this. Inkaar waaya.

As Somalis, you lot don’t benefit anyone but the worst amongst you lot, so don’t speak to me about ‘benefit’.

U said paying diya of murderer .
Ino our clan we have xeer every clan is diferent our clan pays diya if its MAG only.do u know mag means in somali acident death not intential death so dont generalise clans

 

[Kisame]

Ok than why should we somali

What's the whole point of being part of a clan if you can't ask them for help??? Usually with cases like this in the US the xalimo usually always gets help from her family.