Family back home asking for $

I'm sorry but cut them off our people are lazy because we send money back home I could understand sending them a lump some of money to start a business but to continue to live off of somebody lets me know you are lazy.
 
Mashallah @canab

Helping out our less fortunate relatives back home is a noble thing to do. After all, charity begins at home.
@canab Indeed, charity. Yet one must not speak of it, where what one hand gives the other knows not of. In Islam:
  • 'Worship none, but Allah. Treat with kindness your parents and kindred, and orphans and those in need; speak fair to people; be steadfast in prayer; and practice regular charity'.
    • 'Allah will deprive usury of all blessing, but will give increase for deeds of charity. For He loves not creatures ungrateful and wicked'.
  • 'Those who believe, and do deeds of righteousness, and establish regular prayers and regular charity, will have their reward with their Lord. On them shall be no fear, nor shall they grieve'.
Another approach that my family has taken is to pool together a large sum of money and send it to each family to start their own business. We remind them that anything can happen to us, such as death, and it's better for them to be independent and find a way to make a living on their own.
Sound advice. An old Chinese proverb: 'Give a man a fish, he is fed for a day; teach a man to fish, he'll feed oneself for a life time'.
 
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I'm sorry but cut them off our people are lazy because we send money back home I could understand sending them a lump some of money to start a business but to continue to live off of somebody lets me know you are lazy.
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@canab Indeed, charity. Yet one must not speak of it, where what one hand gives the other knows not of. In Islam:
  • 'Worship none, but Allah. Treat with kindness your parents and kindred, and orphans and those in need; speak fair to people; be steadfast in prayer; and practice regular charity'.
    • 'Allah will deprive usury of all blessing, but will give increase for deeds of charity. For He loves not creatures ungrateful and wicked'.
  • 'Those who believe, and do deeds of righteousness, and establish regular prayers and regular charity, will have their reward with their Lord. On them shall be no fear, nor shall they grieve'.
it's an anon forum not that deep
 
let your nuts hang a lil and put your foot down. Say no n if they bring any sort of riffraff your way. Go back home n air the entire village out. GRRRRRRRRRRRR But on a real note, know these niggas don't love you fr n only want your money. Cut the deadweight n elevate
factsssss I'm definitely going to cut them off if they don't want to work imma let my kintir hang fr
 

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Zaad service. She’s from Somaliland, another L dodged :whew:
 

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I'm not from somaliland he's from my in laws side and you're about 40 and a VIP on here idk whats a bigger L

Naayaa stop acting like you’re young, you’re feeding an entire African tribe. You are in group chats with booty scratching tribesmen. I was amongst the first with a VIP tag. I hold the record with largest ratings on a single post, I have two hall of fame threads, I was the first with a featured thread on the main page. Ask about me naayaa
 
Naayaa stop acting like you’re young, you’re feeding an entire African tribe. You are in group chats with booty scratching tribesmen. I was amongst the first with a VIP tag. I hold the record with largest ratings on a single post, I have two hall of fame threads, I was the first with a featured thread on the main page. Ask about me naayaa
I'm 20 years younger than you abti I am young and not you flexing your somali spot status ceeb badanaa
 
Naayaa stop acting like you’re young, you’re feeding an entire African tribe. You are in group chats with booty scratching tribesmen. I was amongst the first with a VIP tag. I hold the record with largest ratings on a single post, I have two hall of fame threads, I was the first with a featured thread on the main page. Ask about me naayaa
what happened to the afghan refugee you were dating
 

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