Faaraxs who got rizz, is it easier to shukaansi an ajnabi or a somali girl?

[Angelina]

There are too many hadiths in Islam and some of them don't make sense, this one must be one of those.. But anyway thank God we have DNA testing technology today.

That is where faith comes into play and not even bothering with things that don’t concern you. Not everything is going to make sense to you as a laymen. Allah knows I too struggled with that, but ultimately as Muslims we hear and obey. Also what makes some topics confusing is the sheer amount of different opinions of different scholars and some Hadiths being weaker or stronger, so some things aren’t set in stone.

 

[Hamzza]

An individual level yes, but socially on a wide scale it’s the same hence why both men and women have the exact same punishment in the Dunya. If it wasn’t the same, women’s adultery would be punished more like in other cultures. That isn’t the same in the Islam. I know you do get some scholars like Ibn Qadama or the other Hanbali scholar can’t remember his name. I think I’m getting them confused.

Also, even the point you made about lineage, the kids belong to the husband either way. The adulterer Zani man gets nothing. The kids will be seen as belonging to the marriage bed.

I do see where you’re coming from but let’s be real all that you’ve listed cannot happen if there wasn’t a man behind it enabling this ruin.

Alhamdulilah we agree on most things. Random female fornicating is no worse than a random male fornicating. But this was from a wife and husband family pov, so the men or the women coming from outside is besides the point.

My point was that the man has to raise and provide for a child who is not from his blood knowingly or unknowingly. This is trouble brought by the wife committing Zina.

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

That is where faith comes into play and not even bothering with things that don’t concern you. Not everything is going to make sense to you as a laymen. Allah knows I too struggled with that, but ultimately as Muslims we hear and obey. Also what makes some topics confusing is the sheer amount of different opinions of different scholars and some Hadiths being weaker or stronger, so some things aren’t set in stone.

Blimey, lady Angie is mellowing!

 

[Wervelwind]

Why are you feeling guilty? A lot of women want to be chatted up, they just want to seem hard to get. I get a feeling that you've gone through something called arrested development, I'm a certified arm chair psychologist of the shaqo la'aan institution

It just feels weird for me to do it if the girl looks clearly Somali