Ever get blocked by your significant other ?

[Geeljire lotus]

She doesn’t really owe you anything lmao you aren’t married to her or even engaged.

Sure it would have been nice of her to tell you she’s no longer interested. But she doesn’t really have to. And you wouldn’t have to either if you decided you wanted to end things. That’s the nature of these types of relationships

We were literally planning on getting married and I was saving up money for it.

 

[Geeljire lotus]

Facts, he obv wasn’t feeling her like that anymore after learning that she drank before and it seemed like he was on the verge of ending things anyway. He’s just mad that she took it upon herself to end the relationship before he got the chance to lol. A bruised ego is all this is

I wasn’t going to leave her, yeah it absolutely shocked me that she drank before but honestly she repented and that was enough for me. I was already too committed when I found out. But I do think maybe she thought I was going to break up with her, nothing to do with ego I really cared about this girl

 

[Angelina]

I wasn’t going to leave her, yeah it absolutely shocked me that she drank before but honestly she repented and that was enough for me. I was already too committed when I found out. But I do think maybe she thought I was going to break up with her, nothing to do with ego I really cared about this girl

Well then, call her and find out why. If you truly cared about her, then call her.

 

[galhareeri]

Well then, call her and find out why. If you truly cared about her, then call her.

There is no loint he needs to move on a lot of fish in the water buddy. Remember that

 

[Ozymandias]

Sxb get your gabadh back, I'm rooting for you 🫡, the game hasn't been lost yet

 

[Kane]

An old saying springs to mind 'suul dhabaale waa hadal, haddana waa si gooniya'.

I say find out. Improvise!

Most young men in their 20s, let alone teens, are hapless, have not the faintest idea as to [a] natural, if biting element of the female formation, however women do gyrations for a brief period in the month, some more so than others, and in doing so, most, and not all are not quite the same person. In my first encounter of this phenomenon, I had a lovely lady friend, with the right ingredients of being a potential partner, and in one eve, whilst discussing the state of the universe, in passing, I touched upon metaphysics and the concept of method, where unaware of the ensuing faux pas, I referenced Prof. S Hawking's Area theorem, and by extension inferring life being coincidental, and there potentially being no hereafter (of course, I do not believe that, but of course one must never say that to an Eastern lass, as I learnt). She went awfully quiet at the time, and shortly after my departure, I received a bit of a scolding to the effect that I was a depraved heretic, a gadfly dissenter, and she would never speak to me again. Fast forward: A few days later, I made my way to her campus, of course I discovered, in my earlier days, I could charm even the most arduous damsel in distress, and most importantly to give the ladies space is their time of sullen state, and natural tenderness. I was not privy to the fact at the time, yet suspected, for that was entirely out of character; long story short, she fessed up as to the root cause of her terseness, and I in turn made note of it for future reference, and nothing of it.

A lady would be giddy, foot-loose and fancy free, and the most rational for a moment, and switch rather swiftly to the opposite in no time - sharp objects are to be kept away from their reach. Now, this is where most young men fall on their face to oblivion, and [this] might be a case of that, albeit OP did not divulge, and we may never know, for the OP is non the wiser as to the inner goings of the female psyche. I remain grateful to my grandfather for the insight.

Blimey, I am beginning to sound like our professed Casanova @Kane

An entire essay about pms symptoms naah that could never be me Doc.

A woman whether on the cycle or not, knows the boundaries of her man or lack thereof.

This man is hiding the real reason he got blocked, in fear of maybe being judged and I understand.

 

[Kalsoon]

Don’t call her. If she would block you this quick, how will she be in an actual marriage when there are disagreements? You should marry someone who can communicate properly. I also think she didn’t like you as much as you liked her. You were willing to look past things you didn’t like but she’s not willing to give you a chance when she sees something she doesn’t like.

 

[Angelina]

An entire essay about pms symptoms naah that could never be me Doc.

A woman whether on the cycle or not, knows the boundaries of her man or lack thereof.

This man is hiding the real reason he got blocked, in fear of maybe being judged and I understand.

@Kalsoon

I agree with you, but sometimes some women can feel really upset and emotionally rejected by a guy that they become impulsive and then just blockkk. I have seen situations in which a woman genuinely loved/cared about a man but blocked him as she felt that he just wasn’t understanding her or trying to rectify issues that upset her. In many cases getting blocked can be a cry of attention to illustrate that they can no longer put up with his behavior. It’s childish though as once a person drives you to that point, then maybe they’re just not the one.

Op I believe is hiding a lot. I reckon they had a few relationship issues and the girl he was talking to probably told him how she felt but he probably didn’t take her seriously or showed her he cared enough to address it.
Some men I’ve noticed tend to block out women’s concerns and it becomes a case of talking to a brick wall, but once their partner snaps, they act shocked.

 

[Kalsoon]

@Kalsoon

I agree with you, but sometimes some women can feel really upset and emotionally rejected by a guy that they become impulsive and then just blockkk. I have seen situations in which a woman genuinely loved/cared about a man but blocked him as she felt that he just wasn’t understanding her or trying to rectify issues that upset her. In many cases getting blocked can be a cry of attention to illustrate that they can no longer put up with his behavior. It’s childish though as once a person drives you to that point, then maybe they’re just not the one.

Op I believe is hiding a lot. I reckon they had a few relationship issues and the girl he was talking to probably told him how she felt but he probably didn’t take her seriously or showed her he cared enough to address it.
Some men I’ve noticed tend to block out women’s concerns and it becomes a case of talking to a brick wall, but once their partner snaps, they act shocked.

Her snapping is an indication she isn't able to regulate her emotions properly. Personally, I feel it's manipulative to use blocking as a way to get more attention from a man. They're not married and she's already got this guy confused and bewildered by her behavior. If you genuinely love someone or care for them, you make an effort to work things out. You don't run when things get hard.

 

[Angelina]

Her snapping is an indication she isn't able to regulate her emotions properly. Personally, I feel it's manipulative to use blocking as a way to get more attention from a man

It is, and I do think it’s childish. But anger can get the better of someone especially if they might have had on going issues and she felt that he wasn’t taking her seriously. That’s why I believe that as a woman if you’ve reached that level, then leave.

. They're not married and she's already got this guy confused and bewildered by her behavior. If you genuinely love someone or care for them, you make an effort to work things out. You don't run when things get hard.

Talking to some men is like talking to a brick wall. I’ve seen situations in which a girl will tell a man she really loves that XYZ is bothering her and then he’ll continue to do it. That’s why I want the OP to open up and tell us if they had disagreements. A woman blocking a man she’s been speaking to for months out of blue isn’t common unless she’s got someone on the side, and if so that’s messed up.

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

An entire essay about pms symptoms naah that could never be me Doc.

A woman whether on the cycle or not, knows the boundaries of her man or lack thereof.

This man is hiding the real reason he got blocked, in fear of maybe being judged and I understand.

Oh just wanted to draw you in for your insight!

 

[Riya.]

Email her if it’s real

 

[Khaem]

We were literally planning on getting married and I was saving up money for it.

Save it for someone else.
Remember until you put a ring on it she's not your significant other. Just a girl you chat to. She ditched you like that so save you money for another girl who Inshallah will be of better quality.

 

[barbiedreamzz]

It's the state of the western man walaal.
Westerners will literally marry people they hate just to not feel alone. Promiscuity is the western lifestyle. f*ck and date every person you come across just to look cool and waste your money and young years instead of building your life & career and actually having something to your name other than credit card debt

This such a retarded take, many westerns do invest in the person they're going to marry hence why they often marry late or are longer engaged by focusing on their finance, career and house they'll someday own first. The entire "the west is doomed" "promiscuousiry is everywhere" narrative has been going on since the 70s. Many of my friends older siblings all are in healthy relationship with suitable partners and are thinking of owning homes, If the West truly were bunch of moronic sex addict they would have never had the prosperity they do now.

 

[Gacmeey]

If the West truly were bunch of moronic sex addict they would have never had the prosperity they do now.

They are living off the sweat of their forefathers. Rome wasn’t burned in a day. The fall of civilisations is small and gradual. The west’s hedonistic ways has only been around some 50-60 odd years. Give it sometime, no society this hedonistic will survive in the long run

 

[Khaem]

This such a retarded take, many westerns do invest in the person they're going to marry hence why they often marry late or are longer engaged by focusing on their finance, career and house they'll someday own first. The entire "the west is doomed" "promiscuousiry is everywhere" narrative has been going on since the 70s. Many of my friends older siblings all are in healthy relationship with suitable partners and are thinking of owning homes, If the West truly were bunch of moronic sex addict they would have never had the prosperity they do now.

They are losing that prosperity because they have become moronic sex addicts.
They live off the work of their ancestors.

When they were building the west to he the strongest civisation we all know they had quite opposite views that you and fellow Gaals would consider "backwards muslim laws".
It's being going around the 70s, ironically when the western golden age ended and their societies and dominance begun breaking.

Westerners on average do not invest in the person they are dating. The west is the last place out of any society for places where people have marriage on their mind and invest in famalies.
How are you saying they are longer engaged? 50% of marriages in the west end in divorce, most do not even make it to marriage and the ones that do are finished half the time.

The Catholic society of Latin America, the orthodox eastern Europeans, Islamic Africa & middle east, Confucious China and the Hindu/Muslims of India + more all have strong family and are rising to over take the western world.