Ever get blocked by your significant other ?

[Sophisticate]

I've never blocked anyone. I simply refrain from contact. This is out of respect for space and because I don't like to have a one-foot-in, one-foot-out mentality (that's unhealthy). I am hard to get to know (this is by design).

I only talk to one at a time. And its rare to get there. I'm also not inclined to 'claim' anyone who isn't married to me. I find that talk is cheap. Anything anyone says to me is ethereal and is very forgettable. The only thing that has traction is when words consistently match actions. Pay close attention when you get to know a guy. And you'll come to realize patterns don't lie.

To respond to your post, you have no rights over a woman you aren't married to. So, to call her yours when no ink has been drawn and dried makes no sense.​

 

[onthecloud]

If you want to marry a Somali woman, consider getting some suitable matches from your parents. You will get more serious and better quality ones

 

[Sophisticate]

If you want to marry a Somali woman, consider getting some suitable matches from your parents. You will get more serious and better quality ones

The reverse also applies. I should add do not underestimate the power of intel from your family. Also, avoid marrying someone they disapprove of.

 

[World]

am i missing something? what did u do to her?

 

[Audrey Hepburn]

am i missing something? what did u do to her?

I suspect he said something dumb, it doesn't seem from this thread, (Talking to a girl and just found she drank once before) he has any real respect for her. @Geeljire lotus, you two aren't a good match either way.

 

[onthecloud]

The reverse also applies. I should add do not underestimate the power of intel from your family. Also, avoid marrying someone they disapprove of.

Somali parents are always correct about this subject.

 

[DangerBadan]

You were blocked because you wasted 8 months of her time. You were not serious about her. 8 months is a long time to not show commitment or make plans for the future. How many do you talk to? You sound like a player.

 

[The alchemist]

If you did not wild out or anything, then forget her. If you did something fucked up, contact the woman and apologize, and then proceed to forget her. Having a union with a woman that carries final decisions based on emotional reactions without an attempt at communication is unwise.

Her actions say you are very low in her value arrangement. She is the type to jump ship if the road gets rocky. One thing you are guaranteed is that life gets rocky at times, and you can't have such people around - especially not a female. Put the cloud of emotions to the side and make a rational choice.

 

[Angelina]

You’ve clearly done something to trigger a response like that from her. Tbh, from seeing your last thread about your relationship, I highly doubt you were a good match. Example; who creates threads about being unsure about someone they’ve been talking to for 8 months? Do yourself and her a favor and leave her alone.

I personally do not think you’re In the right frame of mind to date anyone for the time being. Work on yourself….please.

 

[Dharbash]

Men what would you do if your girl blocked you ? Try to reach out ?

ladies why do you block your man ?

Email her pretending to be her parcel delivery notice. But the catch is your presence is the present.

 

[The alchemist]

Email her pretending to be her parcel delivery notice. But the catch is your presence is the present.
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In a twisted reality, what if you're giving a crazy guy a good idea? Yo, haha

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

An old saying springs to mind 'suul dhabaale waa hadal, haddana waa si gooniya'.

I say find out. Improvise!

Most young men in their 20s, let alone teens, are hapless, have not the faintest idea as to [a] natural, if biting element of the female formation, however women do gyrations for a brief period in the month, some more so than others, and in doing so, most, and not all are not quite the same person. In my first encounter of this phenomenon, I had a lovely lady friend, with the right ingredients of being a potential partner, and in one eve, whilst discussing the state of the universe, in passing, I touched upon metaphysics and the concept of method, where unaware of the ensuing faux pas, I referenced Prof. S Hawking's Area theorem, and by extension inferring life being coincidental, and there potentially being no hereafter (of course, I do not believe that, but of course one must never say that to an Eastern lass, as I learnt). She went awfully quiet at the time, and shortly after my departure, I received a bit of a scolding to the effect that I was a depraved heretic, a gadfly dissenter, and she would never speak to me again. Fast forward: A few days later, I made my way to her campus, of course I discovered, in my earlier days, I could charm even the most arduous damsel in distress, and most importantly to give the ladies space is their time of sullen state, and natural tenderness. I was not privy to the fact at the time, yet suspected, for that was entirely out of character; long story short, she fessed up as to the root cause of her terseness, and I in turn made note of it for future reference, and nothing of it.

A lady would be giddy, foot-loose and fancy free, and the most rational for a moment, and switch rather swiftly to the opposite in no time - sharp objects are to be kept away from their reach. Now, this is where most young men fall on their face to oblivion, and [this] might be a case of that, albeit OP did not divulge, and we may never know, for the OP is non the wiser as to the inner goings of the female psyche. I remain grateful to my grandfather for the insight.

Blimey, I am beginning to sound like our professed Casanova @Kane

 

[Geeljire lotus]

Well it’s been 4 days I don’t think she’s gonna reach out. Not the way I wanted 7 months to end, I was literally saving up money to marry this girl. Crazy how someone can go from caring about you to not even having the decency to end thing’s properly. I think just going ghost and blocking someone like that is a vile shitty thing to do. Dodged a bullet I guess and I’m just gonna charge it to the game.

 

[El Nino]

Well it’s been 4 days I don’t think she’s gonna reach out. Not the way I wanted 7 months to end, I was literally saving up money to marry this girl. Crazy how someone can go from caring about you to not even having the decency to end thing’s properly. I think just going ghost and blocking someone like that is a vile shitty thing to do. Dodged a bullet I guess and I’m just gonna charge it to the game.

7 months, damn. Aint gone lie, I would wait for little bit, just to see if she reaches out. 7 months is a long time.

 

[Ozymandias]

Well it’s been 4 days I don’t think she’s gonna reach out. Not the way I wanted 7 months to end, I was literally saving up money to marry this girl. Crazy how someone can go from caring about you to not even having the decency to end thing’s properly. I think just going ghost and blocking someone like that is a vile shitty thing to do. Dodged a bullet I guess and I’m just gonna charge it to the game.

Meh it is what it is bro, dont worry about it. Go on a solo vacation with that money and have a good time

 

[Mustaqbal]

Well it’s been 4 days I don’t think she’s gonna reach out. Not the way I wanted 7 months to end, I was literally saving up money to marry this girl. Crazy how someone can go from caring about you to not even having the decency to end thing’s properly. I think just going ghost and blocking someone like that is a vile shitty thing to do. Dodged a bullet I guess and I’m just gonna charge it to the game.

You're anonymous, its online...please tell us the truth...what did you do? Runta sheeg no way a chick is going to block you for no reason.

 

[empressjamila]

Well it’s been 4 days I don’t think she’s gonna reach out. Not the way I wanted 7 months to end, I was literally saving up money to marry this girl. Crazy how someone can go from caring about you to not even having the decency to end thing’s properly. I think just going ghost and blocking someone like that is a vile shitty thing to do. Dodged a bullet I guess and I’m just gonna charge it to the game.

She doesn’t really owe you anything lmao you aren’t married to her or even engaged.

Sure it would have been nice of her to tell you she’s no longer interested. But she doesn’t really have to. And you wouldn’t have to either if you decided you wanted to end things. That’s the nature of these types of relationships

 

[empressjamila]

Did you see the thread he made about her? He's really not shit to be talking about the girl he supposedly "likes" like that.

Facts, he obv wasn’t feeling her like that anymore after learning that she drank before and it seemed like he was on the verge of ending things anyway. He’s just mad that she took it upon herself to end the relationship before he got the chance to lol. A bruised ego is all this is

 

[Khaem]

How is she your "significant other" if she blocked you and you can't locate her?

It's the state of the western man walaal.
Westerners will literally marry people they hate just to not feel alone. Promiscuity is the western lifestyle. f*ck and date every person you come across just to look cool and waste your money and young years instead of building your life & career and actually having something to your name other than credit card debt

 

[Dharbash]

Well it’s been 4 days I don’t think she’s gonna reach out. Not the way I wanted 7 months to end, I was literally saving up money to marry this girl. Crazy how someone can go from caring about you to not even having the decency to end thing’s properly. I think just going ghost and blocking someone like that is a vile shitty thing to do. Dodged a bullet I guess and I’m just gonna charge it to the game.

Yes

You were about to marry a woman that drinks? Set some standards for yourself bro, this is a sign from Allah, move on to greener pastures.