Calaami
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And they all end within two years akhi kkktf you talking about? everytime i go on snapchat/tiktok/instagram stories i see like minimum 8 different Somali weddings be it UK/US/Canada/Europe etc?
Epidemic of single Somali women
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With this attitude, you are lucky to find someone to marry you much less consider you as a second wife.
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- Limited Social interactions among Somalis
- Secular mindset - Monetary and Edcutional priorities over traditional reasons to marry
- Lack of established safe norms/venues to create opportunities for young people to meet greater numbers of other somalis.
These are few I can think of now to be the reasons. Somalia provides better opportunties for marriage. It is difficult in the west. Perhaps arranged marriages might ease some of the burden.
- Secular mindset - Monetary and Edcutional priorities over traditional reasons to marry
- Lack of established safe norms/venues to create opportunities for young people to meet greater numbers of other somalis.
These are few I can think of now to be the reasons. Somalia provides better opportunties for marriage. It is difficult in the west. Perhaps arranged marriages might ease some of the burden.
Alhamdulilah that is a blessing. Marrying a nacas like you would be a curse. Men like you are better off never entering the marriage pool because you’d be damned to find women with a different mindset, good thing incel men like you are a minority that nobody wants. Inshallah you’ll have your 4 wives in Metaverse.
Stopped reading at "30 year old single Somali woman" 
They're a nightmare for the most part sxb, and have this weird jaded view of the world. Not to mention the insane demands they make, which is good for them, but otherwise completely bat-shit crazy.
There are a few gems, but the vast majority will make your blood pressure rise to dangerous levels.
They're a nightmare for the most part sxb, and have this weird jaded view of the world. Not to mention the insane demands they make, which is good for them, but otherwise completely bat-shit crazy.
There are a few gems, but the vast majority will make your blood pressure rise to dangerous levels.
Interesting I thought entitled people usually get humbled by the world around that ageStopped reading at "30 year old single Somali woman"
They're a nightmare for the most part sxb, and have this weird jaded view of the world. Not to mention the insane demands they make, which is good for them, but otherwise completely bat-shit crazy.
There are a few gems, but the vast majority will make your blood pressure rise to dangerous levels.
Everything I'm saying is anecdotal, so take it with a grain of salt. But most people, irrespective of gender, turn into bitter jaded cunts at that age. They aren't where they envisioned themselves as being, so the walls start to close in. Particularly with Muslim women since they've had to deal with Hooyo and the other eedos giving them shit about marriage for a good decade by that point. 30+ single people, regardless of gender, are tricky fuckers to nagivate in a relationship.
Again, anecdotal, but the ones I've interacted with have this weird "shit or get off the pot, don't waste my time" attitude. And I get it, because the clock's ticking but it just comes across as very off putting and negative to be around
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Calaami
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Typical leftist excuses. Madows have inferior degenerate culture
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Garaad Awal
Former African
Go get your testosterone levels checked
Why?
Everything I'm saying is anecdotal, so take it with a grain of salt. But most people, irrespective of gender, turn into bitter jaded cunts at that age. They aren't where they envisioned themselves as being, so the walls start to close in. Particularly with Muslim women since they've had to deal with Hooyo and the other eedos giving them shit about marriage for a good decade by that point. 30+ single people, regardless of gender, are tricky fuckers to nagivate in a relationship.
Again, anecdotal, but the ones I've interacted with have this weird "shit or get off the pot, don't waste my time" attitude. And I get it, because the clock's ticking but it just comes across as very off putting and negative to be around
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I knew it didn't work out. You need not worry saxib. We can be a shoulder to cry on.I'll add you to our single and content guest list.
We are having a buuq free soiree.Disclaimer: you aren't going to find your wife or husband here. This isn't a matrimonial event. Take a deep breath and enjoy this season of life. Things could always be worse. At least you aren't commiserating in the ever expanding single dads club. Saddling your ciyaal on your parents because childcare is expensive or afraid to leave them in the custody of strangers. Forced to co-parent with a toxic and disgruntled exe. Required to have multiple hearings in family court. Accused of being a deadbeat father. The list goes on. I have my dancing shoes. As an aside, a healthy relationship is wonderful but a toxic one is worse than being single. Please congratulate yourself for averting disaster.
I mean they marry the first person that smiles at them….. after like two weeks.
Will never understand the Muslim courting process
they are all horny, trust me when u have to be celibate for 15 years its not easy to think clearly about marriage when all you can think about is something you have been starved off for so long.
its the fault of the elders in society for not teaching children properly
Qeel, You have a foul mouth for a female. Get a hobby and a job.
Nowadays teenagers and young adults abstain from sex across cultures. It is the trend. Your idea of not having sex anytime you feel like leading to wrong decisions about marriage doesn't deserve an aiota of respect.
Sleep around and see if it will help with your future marriage.
Calaami
Garaadka Guud ee Beesha Calaamka
It doesn’t make much sense at all. They operate on two extremes. Either they marry the first person they see, as you’ve said (they do this because things like the wedding itself are of more importance to them than the reality of marriage itself) or they leave no room for growth within the marriage and expect you to have every single thing together at the start when they might have nothing together themselves.
Realism is a pill we have to swallow at times.
you missed the entire point of my post and you are also out of touch o reality, I am young myself and talk to young brothers all the time, despite what you might think, all of them are starving, men are created with a high level of desire, and we are not taught how to control it, therefore as a consequence we end up making decisions on getting married, when we want to and who, largely due to how horny we are unfortunately, especially due to the fact we are not having any sexual relief, it can make a person extremely thirsty for the opposite gender, and therefore wrong marriage choices.
I try to give my advice to brothers on how to control their desires and when picking anyone for marriage or even if they should get married rn, bc clearly in our society we have a problem with sexual deprivation and we have to get married late due to societal reasons so its a big problem.
