Educated Somali Men marrying from back home

[Gibiin-Udug]

Let's be honest the ones who go to Somalia to marry are either losers or fat, balding, short men. Either way good riddance. Successful western xalimos need a successful man who is also financially handsome, yes I've said financially handsome. Deal with it!!!

 

[Garaad Darawiish]

Let's be honest the ones who go to Somalia to marry are either losers or fat, balding, short men. Either way good riddance. Successful western xalimos need a successful man who is also financially handsome, yes I've said financially handsome. Deal with it!!!

no wonder why ur ass is 34 and still not married


Not only r u a qabiilist, expired and second-hand but ur also annoying.#singlelifeforever

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

no wonder why ur ass is 34 and still not married


Not only r u a qabiilist, expired and second-hand but ur also annoying.#singlelifeforever

34? That's rich coming from you mr I'm in my 50s and never have been married but one day I will marry a xalimo from back home.



Secondly did I hit a nerve? No western Somali woman wants a useless man, there's nothing worse than a useless man with no money, balding, shorty, smelly and Ashy Abdi. I feel sorry for you.

 

[Garaad Darawiish]

34? That's rich coming from you mr I'm in my 50s and never have been married but one day I will marry a xalimo from back home.



Secondly did I hit a nerve? No western Somali woman wants a useless man, there's nothing worse than a useless man with no money, balding, shorty, smelly and Ashy Abdi. I feel sorry for you.

lol whateverr ms 34yr old. ur expired period!

How about vice-versa? educated xalimos




Your "credentials" don't attract Somali men! Just because you feel that you are successful, independent, professional and educated doesn’t mean that’s you are attractive to Somali men, or even datable for that matter. It it is your EXTERIOR that gets a Somali man's attention (smile, look, personality, non-y attitude, confidence and overall attractiveness) and your INTERIOR (your love for Allah, family, friends, being honest, supportive, respectful, emotionally stable, goal-oriented) that keeps a Somali man coming back for more.

Thats why you see most highly educated and sucessful Somali men in the western diaspora do not marry equally educated westernized Somali women. Most marry either from back home, middle east or marry some humble religious family oriented woman regardless of her educational attainment. Some go the extra mile and marry out to ajnabis. These are dudes who are doctors, engineers,professionals and many of them have jobs at companies like microsoft, google etc. You rarely see them marry from the western diaspora.

Hence why today you see a lot of Xalimo's complaining. ''I got my degree, education why is it so hard to find an educated Somali man''. ''Why do educated Somali men marry uneducated women''.

It's because Somali men are not looking for the so called strong, independent, ''i don't need a man, i can take care of myself'' westernized Somali woman who would ask for a divorce just so she can focus on her career(self) and only wants to compete with him.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

lol whateverr ms 34yr old. ur expired period!

How about vice-versa? educated xalimos




Your "credentials" don't attract Somali men! Just because you feel that you are successful, independent, professional and educated doesn’t mean that’s you are attractive to Somali men, or even datable for that matter. It it is your EXTERIOR that gets a Somali man's attention (smile, look, personality, non-y attitude, confidence and overall attractiveness) and your INTERIOR (your love for Allah, family, friends, being honest, supportive, respectful, emotionally stable, goal-oriented) that keeps a Somali man coming back for more.

Thats why you see most highly educated and sucessful Somali men in the western diaspora do not marry equally educated westernized Somali women. Most marry either from back home, middle east or marry some humble religious family oriented woman regardless of her educational attainment. Some go the extra mile and marry out to ajnabis. These are dudes who are doctors, engineers,professionals and many of them have jobs at companies like microsoft, google etc. You rarely see them marry from the western diaspora.

Hence why today you see a lot of Xalimo's complaining. ''I got my degree, education why is it so hard to find an educated Somali man''. ''Why do educated Somali men marry uneducated women''.

It's because Somali men are not looking for the so called strong, independent, ''i don't need a man, i can take care of myself'' westernized Somali woman who would ask for a divorce just so she can focus on her career(self) and only wants to compete with him.

Yep I definitely hit a nerve, HA HA!

Okay you curdled, rotten expired milk.


Secondly do you have your own thoughts? You keep trashing the website with quotes from other website.


Like I've said, nothing worse than an aging, short, fat, broke ashy Abdi.

 

[kamadare]

Great prognosis there: I however was curious to see the latest coined term for a female from Diaspora, going back to marry in Somalia: especially the northerners.
They'd be like "
"Aariyahee , Qawdhanoow.Dee maanta anaaa inoo qaadaya. Ilayn
Fiisa nool oo soconaysaan helaye"

 

[Garaad Darawiish]

Yep I definitely hit a nerve, HA HA!

Okay you curdled, rotten expired milk.


Secondly do you have your own thoughts? You keep trashing the website with quotes from other website.


Like I've said, nothing worse than an aging, short, fat, broke ashy Abdi.[/QUOTE/]

34, SINGLE,BOW-LEGGED,QABIILIST


A turn off for any man who looks at u

 

[Zumar]

I dont think i would ever marry a somali guy from back home
I had a whole other education and life, he wouldnt understand things who are pretty much normal to me and i dont want the same relationship my mom used to have, where she doesnt have rights, only can be a housewife and thats it..

But i also would never marry a somali guy from the west who isnt educated and had a criminal history and jail etc

I hate to say this, but then the only remaining option for us educated good somali girls, is to marry other muslim guys with other nationalities.....

How do you feel about that?

 

[Garaad Darawiish]

I dont think i would ever marry a somali guy from back home
I had a whole other education and life, he wouldnt understand things who are pretty much normal to me and i dont want the same relationship my mom used to have, where she doesnt have rights, only can be a housewife and thats it..

But i also would never marry a somali guy from the west who isnt educated and had a criminal history and jail etc

I hate to say this, but then the only remaining option for us educated good somali girls, is to marry other muslim guys with other nationalities.....

How do you feel about that?

Go for it! just dont come crying back to faaraxs after that ajnaabi ur desired and glorified so much dips on u. By then, u will be a 30 yr old expired ting and no faarax would look at you( not even the one s from back home). Then again, its ur life, ur rules and ur choice. I for one is set to marry a xalimo from somalia inshallah

 

[VixR]

Too many, i agree. But is it most? I think we'd notice if it was most

I wouldn't wanna say most, I don't wanna discredit the ones who don't, but the pickings can be really slim if you want someone who's clean and available and isn't practically your brother.

So their are 2 somalis guys in ur town and they both happen to be crooks. Does this make it fair to judge somali guys ( their millions of us in the diaspora) as not 'nice'. Unless, you go out and socialise with somalis who live in towns where the somali male population isnt 2 ppl, then u have no premise whatsoever to label us as 'not nice'. The same can be applied with the xalimos who are bickering 24/7 on twittter. It wouldnt be a air generalisation for me to come out and label all xalimos as 'sell-outs' or 'embarassing' solely on the actions of a few ratchet ones.

I didn't pick the worst, I just picked the most recent. Somali men are not 'nice', generally speaking, you just like to think you are, and it says enough that young and supposedly educated men on here always like to use acid-throwing as a comparison point for how nice they really are.

The premise of your whole thread is blaming Somali women for your own choices, for being thugs, bc we supposely like thugs lol ceebey ta'aal. It's not like that's really surprising. Unfortunately, it's a common male trait to turn to blaming women at his lowest point. The truth is, to the Somali woman back home, you're already validated by virtue of your otherness, your passport out of misery. It makes sense that it's where you turn to, and as for your own gains for doing so, the article does a very good job of outlining the types of men who do so and their reasons for their choices. I think it's a viable option. Go for it.

 

[Zumar]

Go for it! just dont come crying back to faaraxs after that ajnaabi ur desired and glorified so much dips on u. By then, u will be a 30 yr old expired ting and no faarax would look at you( not even the one s from back home). Then again, its ur life, ur rules and ur choice. I for one is set to marry a xalimo from somalia inshallah

Go for it? I dont even want to go for it lol but if i dont have another option, what should i do then?

Im educated, im muslim, i love my family and i lovo to have a family one day
If all the equal somali guys here dont want me but look abroad, thats their choice good for them..but i wont do the same thing
And if the remaining guys are not worth me, than i wont do that too

So only option is to marry other muslim nationalities...

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

I hit a nerve to the point you forgot how to use quote.


You're in my prayers Somali version of Peter griffin.

 

[Garaad Darawiish]

I wouldn't wanna say most, I don't wanna discredit the ones who don't, but the pickings can be really slim if you want someone who's clean and available and isn't practically your brother.

I didn't pick the worst, I just picked the most recent. Somali men are not 'nice', generally speaking, you just like to think you are, and it says enough that young and supposedly educated men on here always like to use acid-throwing as a comparison point for how nice they really are.

The premise of your whole thread is blaming Somali women for your own choices, for being thugs, bc we supposely like thugs lol ceebey ta'aal. It's not like that's really surprising. Unfortunately, it's a common male trait to turn to blaming women at his lowest point. The truth is, to the Somali woman back home, you're already validated by virtue of your otherness, your passport out of misery. It makes sense that it's where you turn to, and as for your own gains for doing so, the article does a very good job of outlining the types of men who do so and their reasons for their choices. I think it's a viable option. Go for it.

i will

 

[Garaad Darawiish]

Go for it? I dont even want to go for it lol but if i dont have another option, what should i do then?

Im educated, im muslim, i love my family and i lovo to have a family one day
If all the equal somali guys here dont want me but look abroad, thats their choice good for them..but i wont do the same thing
And if the remaining guys are not worth me, than i wont do that too

So only option is to marry other muslim nationalities...

yes, i encourage u to marry other males cuz we kno u crave them soo much. just dont come back crying. Their are a plethora of educated somali men in the diaspora and here u are tellin
g me its hard to find one of them. I call bs.

 

[VixR]

I dont think i would ever marry a somali guy from back home
I had a whole other education and life, he wouldnt understand things who are pretty much normal to me and i dont want the same relationship my mom used to have, where she doesnt have rights, only can be a housewife and thats it..

But i also would never marry a somali guy from the west who isnt educated and had a criminal history and jail etc

I hate to say this, but then the only remaining option for us educated good somali girls, is to marry other muslim guys with other nationalities.....

How do you feel about that?

Trying to imagine even talking to a Somali guy back home..

That's like FOBer than FOB w/o the benefit of even being a FOB

 

[Apollo]

Usually it is the lowlifes of the West who do it, but occasionally you also have successful types who go that route because they want a semi-slave as a wife.

 

[madamelioness]

Marry whoever you want, from wherever you like, but don't blame your life choices on others.

 

[Nightline Kid]

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I'm just gonna stay celibate

 

[Garaad Darawiish]

Usually it is the lowlifes of the West who do it, but occasionally you also have successful types who go that route because they want a semi-slave as a wife.

Its called traditional wife who hasnt been indoctrinated with the godless, SJW, feminazi bull crap fed to the xalimos in the west.

 

[Garaad Darawiish]

Marry whoever you want, from wherever you like, but don't blame your life choices on others.

ayyeyoH