Does anyone else not have a relationship with their dad even though he’s physically present

Separating from your family and moving to a country where the culture is different, you don't speak the local language well, and you also have to provide for your local and distant family can have a negative impact on your mental health. Working aabos from back home aren't outgoing but they're mentally healthy and the kids and parents have emotional support as everyone is surrounded by relatives from both sides.
The happiest fobs I met are those who have their siblings, parents and cousins living in the same country. Living as an alien in a totally different cultures causes many mental problems.
Instead of criticizing your father, you should count your blessings as you have everything to live a happier life.

Would you say that those happy fobs are better fathers as they have a support system, or are they no different?
 
My father's always been a proactive parent and is caring, to be honest I've never had much experiences with Somalis but the few Somali families I've met also had proactive fathers even if they were separated from the mothers

I didn't know Somali father's had a stereotype of being deadbeat dads or emotionally absent until I came on SSpot, though I also never heard of Qabils either.
 

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