Do you plan on making your marriage legal. If not explain why

[Gooney112]

So it’s all baseless lies?

Am I really that way off vix....you aint the only one with the gift to read others

 

[Geeljire lotus]

I don’t want government involved or to lose my money so

 

[yaanyuur]

The man has everything to lose so i wouldn't do it. The only benefit is cheaper health/car insurance, less taxes, and the spouse making medical decisions for you. Not much benefit telling the government

 

[TekNiKo]

TekNiKo

What facts? You are willing a Somali Muslim child to go through starvation and torture if that is advantageous to your clan and is that how you "recognise your creator"?. Where is the "rizq' for these children? The most painful death is via starvation and millions of these children died because of starvation. Contraception is haram, yeah but cruel death is halal. It's based on blind faith and not on facts.

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You are on my ignore list.

 

[AussieHustler]

You are on my ignore list.

TekNiKo

lol, thanks.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Lets ask the women @xalimathe6 @Fels @XawoTako @sigmund @shabellegal @RICH @RichEnoughForGucci

I will also ask our trans individual @Reiko

I think she is married already @Basra

@Steamdevolopment is gay marriage legal where you live? Hopefully u can get married without having dealing with a hassle

Habarta bufkeed is a trans, you .


We went to the court room after our nikaah and then we had a big wedding. No 2nd wife for him..

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

You are on my ignore list.

Can you ignore mods?

Let me try..

 

[VixR]

Am I really that way off vix....you aint the only one with the gift to read others

I’m curious, what are you reading into it? Am I telling lies?? Exaggerating?

 

[VixR]

Am I really that way off vix....you aint the only one with the gift to read others

Fam, for me, it’s just matter of fact. Why are you invested in my saying a marriage for its sake will end in misery? A lot of them are like that! Our outlook on marriage is definitely one of the problems. It’s so pressured, even for men, that they’re willing to marry a stranger for superficial things. What if I’m a complete psycho that will kill them in their sleep?

 

[Gooney112]

I’m curious, what are you reading into it? Am I telling lies?? Exaggerating?

Not lying....its your truth based on biased..i agree with many points you make. Its just your analyse of some of the problems are bit off. Across the world there is marriage problems and more and more of them end in divorce. Yes people dont work hard enough and a lot of people have this romantic picture of marriage and when reality kicks in they bounce. You just isolate issues everyone is facing to Somalis and make the rest of the world dont have these issues. Again nothing personal so dont take offence. You are one of the people i enjoy talking to in here

 

[Jake from State Farm]

Habarta bufkeed is a trans, you .


We went to the court room after our nikaah and then we had a big wedding. No 2nd wife for him..

Question was a big wedding worth it? When I think about it I would only want a small one with just my friends and family and cool co workers.

I don’t even like Somali music that much so throwing a party at a dancehall with just somali music doesn’t entertain me

 

[Gojo Satoru]

I only plan on getting married once so if I divorce my husband you best believe I'm collecting a fat check from this nigga

 

[shabellegal]

Lets ask the women @xalimathe6 @Fels @XawoTako @sigmund @shabellegal @RICH @RichEnoughForGucci

I will also ask our trans individual @Reiko

I think she is married already @Basra

@Steamdevolopment is gay marriage legal where you live? Hopefully u can get married without having dealing with a hassle

Of course.

Marriage comes with tax benefits and other things living in the West.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Question was a big wedding worth it? When I think about it I would only want a small one with just my friends and family and cool co workers.

I don’t even like Somali music that much so throwing a party at a dancehall with just somali music doesn’t entertain me

It will be worth it if you got that schmoney!


We played Somali music for the older folks, ratchet music for the younger folks, RnB for the folks in love.

Buranbur for the ladies, I almost jumped in my own wedding when they mentioned my lineage.

 

[Zahra]

i learned that people don’t get their marriages registered with the government in the Somali community months ago. Didn’t understand why they didn’t(I’m American raised so western views on a lot of things)


I always assumed making your marriage legal was all apart of the process of getting married. It seems people aren’t doing that.

I was thinking of asking this same question. Well I was going to ask how many people just would have a Nikah or have a nikah and legally get married also

 

[Zahra]

I only plan on getting married once so if I divorce my husband you best believe I'm collecting a fat check from this nigga

Horrible

 

[Zahra]

i learned that people don’t get their marriages registered with the government in the Somali community months ago. Didn’t understand why they didn’t(I’m American raised so western views on a lot of things)


I always assumed making your marriage legal was all apart of the process of getting married. It seems people aren’t doing that.

My husband and I are officially married. Papers!

 

[Gojo Satoru]

Horrible

Horrible what? If I'm getting divorced it's probably because he did something really bad like cheating or harming me or our children.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

Horrible what? If I'm getting divorced it's probably because he did something really bad like cheating or harming me or our children.

Of course.

Marriage comes with tax benefits and other things living in the West.

Y’all the reason niggas want to sign pre nups just saying.

I ain’t marrying no broke female that’s going to depend on me.

 

[Lostbox]

I have no clue. Nowadays people all seem to be getting divorced but at the same time my parents are still together 30 years later with a healthy relationship.