Do you plan on making your marriage legal. If not explain why

You making it legal

  • Yes

    Votes: 12 52.2%
  • No

    Votes: 11 47.8%

  • Total voters
    23
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I myself see courthouse as more practical than a full-blown, money-wasting display (but then I’m not the type that dreamed about weddings). The majority of white people weddings I’ve been to have been very reasonable, cheap, and cut to the chase (didn’t run for hours).

It’s not the ease of the ceremony that’s the problem, its it’s weight. It holds no weight, even if kids are involved. They (White ppl) really fight for the relationship before they split. They go to counseling. They try. On the other hand, Somali women are all but destined to be single mothers, pretty much from the get go.

VixR

How about this;


Or this;



When it comes to the institution of marriage, I follow the school of @Starscream. It is great and dandy if they were self-sufficient and don't want government peeking into their family's privacy, but what do Somali mothers with children tell the welfare office about the fathers of their children? A one night-stand conceptions? Why don't register with the authorities and not lie?
 
Don’t tell me you haven’t noticed the epidemic of record-short marriages and single mothers everywhere. It’s like they marry to f*ck, and then pop the requisite kid or a few, and then the gig is up.

Can you even take this people serious anymore ?, it's like a running gag now especially since all they do is talk about being landheere/langaab it's a competition between them who can hump like a rabbit and get as many kids/assets cos that's what they see children as, Somali mindset is like more children= bigger retirement fund pension, there is no planning for kids their tuition and their future.

No it is get a cheap wedding with these lot preferably under 5k that they pay half now and half later :ftw9nwa: get hitched and thats that. biggest effort they put forwards to anything really after that its whatever let God sort them out
 
@Jerome in the house 100% yes.

Islamic law encourages women who were domestically abused to go back to their husband, give access to the children and doesn’t consider that the child will need maintance allowance.

If you’re a woman and you only get an Islamic mariage

Congratulations you played yourself :yousmart:
naaya stop lying about Islamic laws. people do that because of cultural reasons not because Islam
 
Sure, they start families, but do they cultivate them? This even plagues a lot of ppl from our parents’ generation, forget kids our age that are repeating the process. Some of us were lucky enough to have two parents, others lost them to war and strife, but too many of them are just victims to a flimsy idea of family. I don’t know what it is.

Even you yourself said you turned down a marriage to a woman in your clan bc you expect your first marriage would fail, and you didn’t want the pieces to fall so close. Some ppl really go into marriages planning to fail. It’s not your fault though. Condolences to your first wife since you’re already planning for her to be one of who knows how many failures (no offense)
I said that about a cousin......not clan member and I was partly joking. The difference between you and me is I say a lot of things in joking matter. I wouldnt enter a marriage if I thought it would fail. And if it did dont feel too sorry for her she was married to me lol. You are shitting on somali marriages and building white peoples marriages up. Like I said they are far more likely to cheat than divorce...how is that better? Also you keep avoiding my question hmm
 
feen

Sxb, she has a point, there are a Somali couple going through the Islamic Shariah Law process of divorce in the videos I posted above.
Aussie

Now you guys are attacking the institution of marriage in Islam. You guys are coming for everything i see. Why would you as a man support a system that are screwing millions of good fathers? No real man would
 
feen

Sxb, she has a point, there are a Somali couple going through the Islamic Shariah Law process of divorce in the videos I posted above.
i know you are gaal so hate Islam all you want but don't lie about because you know for a fact that we don't have have sharia law leaders in most of the Somali communities and most of Somali don't involve sheikh into their marital problems mostly parents act as intermediate not sheikh or scholars.
 

VixR

Veritas
@AussieHustler Nothing’s holding them accountable. It’s sad that that’s what it comes down to.
Aussie

Now you guys are attacking the institution of marriage in Islam. You guys are coming for everything i see. Why would you as a man support a system that are screwing millions of good fathers? No real man would
Why is the system supporting the families of these real men who are good fathers that are being screwed?
Can you even take this people serious anymore ?, it's like a running gag now especially since all they do is talk about being landheere/langaab it's a competition between them who can hump like a rabbit and get as many kids/assets cos that's what they see children as, Somali mindset is like more children= bigger retirement fund pension, there is no planning for kids their tuition and their future.

No it is get a cheap wedding with these lot preferably under 5k that they pay half now and half later :ftw9nwa: get hitched and thats that. biggest effort they put forwards to anything really after that its whatever let God sort them out
A lot of that has to do with socioeconomics, but what I don’t understand is why they’re not trying to get out from under the hole. But no, we bury ourselves, with more kids, more marriages, instead of investing in what you have and producing quality
 
VixR

A know it all attitude is not cute at all. You dont take others view on board and when corrected you never admit you wrong. You also has great way of avoiding questions you know the answer will make you look bad. No offence btw
 

VixR

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VixR

A know it all attitude is not cute at all. You dont take others view on board and when corrected you never admit you wrong. You also has great way of avoiding questions you know the answer will make you look bad. No offence btw
I’m not answering your weird questions. I already expressed what I think about your ideas of my “self hate”. You really want me to fight you on the point. Well, I won’t, so you’re free to think what you will.
 
I’m not answering your weird questions. I already expressed what I think about your ideas of my “self hate”. You really want me to fight you on the point. Well, I won’t.
You already have tbh. Which is why I cant take some of your views serious as you are not objective
 
Aussie

Now you guys are attacking the institution of marriage in Islam. You guys are coming for everything i see. Why would you as a man support a system that are screwing millions of good fathers? No real man would

Gooney

First, congratulations on your wedding and 'may the years ahead be filled with lasting joy.' What's the name of my dumaashi.

Sxb, chill, no one is attacking anything. For the most part, divorce is a messy process and as you could see from the videos above, the secular laws are fairer and far easier to the Muslim woman to divorce her husband when the husband becomes abusive. That's all.

VixR

The whole thread is based on one tweet and we don't even hear the other side of the story and when you post factual videos of divorce taking place under Islamic Law, ………….. fill in the blanks..
 

VixR

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You already have tbh. Which is why I cant take some of your views serious as you are not objective
Tell yourself whatever you like. Pointing out the obvious on here is tantamount to self hate, but you fail to address the actual demeaning comments towards Somalis on here that are made by other users bc I’m the gaal. It’s clear to me you’re fixated on my beliefs seeing as you keep bringing it up.
 

VixR

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Can you imagine me saying this, Gooney? This is one of the folks you should be asking your questions, if I can redirect you...oh wait he’s not gaal?
They came in the 90s a few bulls were sent forth to scout for a place to settle, but the initial migration of cows and calves wasn’t much perhaps 100/200 mating pairs and their calves arrived... this initial herd grew into 20,000 by 2005 and by 2018 over 80,000 in this country this invasive specifies breed like rabbits without natural selection(yearly droughts) that kill perhaps 20-30% of calves keeping the population down but without this their population seems to grow at ungodly rates and will never stop. The Somalian are an invasive species and should be wiped out
 

TekNiKo

Loyal To The One True Caliph (Hafidahullah)
God teaches us in the Quran to jot fear poverty in regards to your children.

Islam teaches us each child has his own rizq assigned to him.

Contraception is haram in Islam.
Planned Parenthoof is haram, you are attempting to play God.

These are facts.

Stop arguing with gaals who dont even recognize their creator
 
Tell yourself whatever you like. Pointing out the obvious on here is tantamount to self hate, but you fail to address the actual demeaning comments towards Somalis on here that are made by other users bc I’m the gaal. It’s clear to me you’re fixated on my beliefs seeing as you keep bringing it up.
The reason I call you out and I do call others out is you more than any blames everything on Somalis. You say only negative stuff about somalis and you bend the truth to keep attacking somalis. You said somalis instigate and attack blacks all the time and they react to it. When you were told how wrong you are, you dismiss others. In the thread about the chef you attacked everyone and kept defending the chef who said horrible things about somalis. I know its off topic. But you consistently attack somalis in a very demeaning and with superior attitude. Even this thread you said ending up barefoot, pregnant and divorcing in a matter of years to the occupation of single mother with no help.

So yeah im not gonna lie I do believe you hate somalis and is a self hater:manny:
 

TekNiKo

Loyal To The One True Caliph (Hafidahullah)
God teaches us in the Quran to not fear poverty in regards to your children.

Islam teaches us each child has his own rizq assigned to him.

Contraception is haram in Islam.
Planned Parenthoof is haram, you are attempting to play God.

These are facts.

Stop arguing with gaals who dont even recognize their creator
 

VixR

Veritas
The reason I call you out and I do call others out is you more than any blames everything on Somalis. You say only negative stuff about somalis and you bend the truth to keep attacking somalis. You said somalis instigate and attack blacks all the time and they react to it. When you were told how wrong you are, you dismiss others. In the thread about the chef you attacked everyone and kept defending the chef who said horrible things about somalis. I know its off topic. But you consistently attack somalis in a very demeaning and with superior attitude. Even this thread you said ending up barefoot, pregnant and divorcing in a matter of years to the occupation of single mother with no help.

So yeah im not gonna lie I do believe you hate somalis and is a self hater:manny:
So it’s all baseless lies?
 
God teaches us in the Quran to jot fear poverty in regards to your children.

Islam teaches us each child has his own rizq assigned to him.

Contraception is haram in Islam.
Planned Parenthoof is haram, you are attempting to play God.

These are facts.

Stop arguing with gaals who dont even recognize their creator

TekNiKo

What facts? You are willing a Somali Muslim child to go through starvation and torture if that is advantageous to your clan and is that how you "recognise your creator"?. Where is the "rizq' for these children? The most painful death is via starvation and millions of these children died because of starvation. Contraception is haram, yeah but cruel death is halal. It's based on blind faith and not on facts.

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