Do you know any Somalis that has a step father that isnt Somali?

cunug3aad

cunug3aad

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Sigmundd

Sigmundd

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correct said:
I've heard of a story from Birmingham that a Somali lady with a full Somali child from her previous marriage who went and married a ajnabi guy who went on to repeatedly the child. This story was quite big and even big Sheikh from Birmingham called Abu Khadija got involved to stop it going to police/courts.
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What happened???? what was the ethnicity of the man?
 
mr.overeasy

mr.overeasy

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Sigmundd said:
If he treats the children good there's nothing wrong with calling him "dad"
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Its haram, the Prophet (SAW) was the best to the boy he took care of but the Quran made it clear there is a difference between guardian and father.

Zayd ibn Haritha was called Zayd ibn Muhammad before the verses were revealed.

You can take care of a kid, and that is praiseworthy, but their father is their father.

You can have an adoptive mother though if she breastfeeds, that counts just as a birth mother does.
 
mr.overeasy

mr.overeasy

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Unicorn said:
Never seen it. The few somali girls married to ajanabi never had kids with somali guys
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Its because if someone chooses to race mix, which is halal, but if they do they typically have particular tastes which is why they didn't inmarry to their own people.

If a somali woman marries an ajnabi she probably isn't that attracted to somali men, its illogical that she would hop from a somali man to an ajnabi because if she liked somalis she would stick with them.

It could happen the other way around though, like if a somali woman married a pakistani, got abused, then married a somali man.
 
mr.overeasy

mr.overeasy

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Shidanem said:
Imagine some Somali kid calling a his White Step-dad, who stepped up, "Abo".

I'm sorry, that's just revolting.
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Unless the dad was never in the picture it makes no sense either, I could never stand for my kid calling some other dude dad.

If I got a divorce and she wants to remarry that is her right obviously, but my kid isn't cosying up to her new guy, and I don't expect them to do that for my new wife in that scenario either.

Its basic respect to the actual parent.
 
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