I am not sure how everybody mourns but people are saying that her and Kobe had a 'business' relationship and she isn't as hurt as loving wife should be. Since his death she hasn't even defended him after those white degenerates slandered his name. They are saying she is only grieving the loss of her daughter. And when you look at her instagram post some of her remembrance of Kobe is really weird and childish like "miss you boo boo" Maybe I am being insensitive. But him passing away has really hurt me