Do not marry a Loser ever!!

[Gambar]

I cant believe there are some men out there who literally aren't shit. How do you sit around being a bum knowing you have a family to take care of.

Somali women deal with too much wallah. They have the patience of a saint.

"Iska samiir" is what they are told most of the time so they just stay with them.

 

[Abdalla]

complaining not having money to give you for doing groceries

You sound like a high maintenance wife

 

[Bohol]

> pay 13k mehr
> Get shit for asking her to make some afur

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No wonder their marriage is falling apart

kkkkk this shuts down the topic.

 

[Reign]

"Iska samiir" is what they are told most of the time so they just stay with them.

Lol or even worse if they have children they are shamed with single motherhood so have no choice but to stick around with an idiot.

Akhas wallahi how do you let a loser share your bed.

 

[Gambar]

Lol or even worse if they have children they are shamed with single motherhood so have no choice but to stick around with an idiot.

Akhas wallahi how do you let a loser share your bed.

That's why the next generation of Somali women shouldn't accept this behavior and should shame them. When the term "ciyaal mama" was made it wasn't referring to girls. My graduating class this year had 20 Somali girls, 0 boys. And they came from families where their brothers weren't doing anything with their lives, waking up at 3pm, playing 2k all day. If their families accept this behavior and don't say anything, they won't change. They don't even see a problem with this behavior. These are the same bums complaining about "mehr". It's projecting, they can't afford a $500 mehr because they have nothing to their name, they live on their moms tab. Yaab!

 

[Reign]

That's why the next generation of Somali women shouldn't accept this behavior and should shame them. When the term "ciyaal mama" was made it wasn't referring to girls. My graduating class this year had 20 Somali girls, 0 boys. And they came from families where their brothers weren't doing anything with their lives, waking up at 3pm, playing 2k all day. If their families accept this behavior and don't say anything, they won't change. They don't even see a problem with this behavior. These are the same bums complaining about "mehr". It's projecting, they can't afford a $500 mehr because they have nothing to their name, they live on their moms tab. Yaab!

Lol their hooyo helps them pay their meher and wedding waxkale iskaba dhaf. I blame the girls also. Nowadays it's become a trend to get married and they settle for these losers. Some of these xalimos are in shisha cafes looking for husbands. They deserve each other tbh.

 

[Strawberryshuffle]

Yet u initially decided to simply hate on Men.
Even though u knew it goes both way.

I say u owe as an apology yareey.

i will make a post especially for you later

 

[Strawberryshuffle]

You sound like a high maintenance wife

Naaah I'm pretty laid back. However, I dont believe slacking around will get you anywhere in life.

 

[Strawberryshuffle]

Yet u initially decided to simply hate on Men.
Even though u knew it goes both way.

I say u owe as an apology yareey.

https://www.somalispot.com/threads/do-not-marry-this-type-of-woman.26120/

 

[Strawberryshuffle]

Stuck with one?

Naah my husband is very ambitious, problem is hes too good for his job and unable to see that.

 

[Jubba_Man]

So you're basically saying the women should be gold-diggers.

 

[Bernie Madoff]

So you're basically saying the women should be gold-diggers.

Its only these internet xalimos mannnnnn

 

[Rorschach]

Most of you seem to want the more traditional masculine breadwinner type. The question is are you willing to compliment him by assuming the more traditional feminine position? Unless you want your cake and eat it too that is.

Ambitious men tend to be very authoritative.

 

[emptyheartsflow]

Don't know why these girls are demanding ambition and tenacity from guys while they're nurses and social workers themselves. People tend to date within their social circles, and circles of function. You're not going to meet some CEO with your line work, try online dating perhaps.
And if you can't find a guy with merely a degree then God help us all.

 

[Ubax45_]

Only on a Somali forum would not marrying a loser be met with so much resistance, a lot of losers were offended by this post.

 

[MemesNullifyMyPain]

Fellow Somali females, whatever you do in live don't ever marry a loser.

When I say loser I don't mean a poor farax with great ambitions. NOO the loser is the one without any ambitions whatsoever. may he be a cadaan revert, a somali faraax or whatever. Men with zero ambitions be it religious or work related are going to make you miserable. just imagine him sitting on the couch every evening not going to taraweeh. demanding you cook iftar for his friends and complaining not having money to give you for doing groceries. You can't talk ambition into a guy. You want him to go study the deen with the big guys. but he wants to sit on his ass. you want him to climb higher at his work.However, he lets fools surpass him. Watch out for this type of person

wtf what do u have against me

 

[Rorschach]

@VixR

 

[SecretAgent]

Great advice
I "dated" this cadaan guy and i dumped his sorry ass because he was a loser and now hes stalking me

Ive learned a lot from this, also im glad i discovered real quick he was a loser (even though it was a nice guy)

Now i know i have to wait for someone like me, instead of rushing into a "relationship" with the first guy who's "serious" with u

Was he circumcised doesn't matter if he's a loser.

 

[Zumar]

Was he circumcised doesn't matter if he's a loser.

Actually we have never talked about this but he was converted to islam later in his life so i doubt that he was circumcised

Anyhow im glad its over and done what was i thinking, ever being with an cadaan guy?

 

[Kia12]

Alhamdullilah, I'm married to a god fearing Tunisian man.