I grew up with a particular xalimo. We went to the same nursery, primary, middle and high school. After high school we went to two different universities. I always saw her as a sister, nothing more. But in the past year the cordial vibe we shared took a different tone. From our siblings talking about how we should get married to her liking all my IG posts within a few minutes of me posting, to giving me hugs whenever she sees me.
A couple of weeks ago a Abdi from out of town came to ask for her hand in marriage - he went about it the right way, is a genuine brother - is handsome and educated, and offers up a decent mehr. And I'm geniunely happy for the sister. So much so that I sent her flowers via my sister congratulating her on her engagement and hoping her marriage is a blessed one. But after my sister returned that evening however, she had a very confused look on her face. When I confronted her on what was bothering her, she said that the xalimo told her to tell me its not too late to still marry her. I tried to laugh it off but neither me nor my sister could understand why such jokes would be made.
So I ask you all, am I looking too deeply into this or do you think this girl actually likes me? She hasn't spoken to me directly about any feelings she has for me.
A couple of weeks ago a Abdi from out of town came to ask for her hand in marriage - he went about it the right way, is a genuine brother - is handsome and educated, and offers up a decent mehr. And I'm geniunely happy for the sister. So much so that I sent her flowers via my sister congratulating her on her engagement and hoping her marriage is a blessed one. But after my sister returned that evening however, she had a very confused look on her face. When I confronted her on what was bothering her, she said that the xalimo told her to tell me its not too late to still marry her. I tried to laugh it off but neither me nor my sister could understand why such jokes would be made.
So I ask you all, am I looking too deeply into this or do you think this girl actually likes me? She hasn't spoken to me directly about any feelings she has for me.