Somali gender dynamics are dysfunctional/broken, a guy and a gal can have a crush on one another, but none will make that move, sometimes this will even result in passive-aggressive behaviours from both parties.
We need a revamp.
Just like madhoows looooooooooooooool
If madhooows like u they are passive and str8 up aggressive to u. I found out the hard way- after calling managers for all those years when i am at a business place lol