Hello,
Hey everyone, this is my first time posting. Iām not sure if Iām in the right thread, but I need advice on how to move on from thisājust the aftermath, I guess.
Since 2021, Iāve been dealing with chronic stomach issues. After a couple of years of going in and out of the hospital, including a choking incident that required an ambulance, we finally figured out it was H. pylori. I also had a lot of throat issues alongside my stomach problems.
I took the antibiotics and felt better, but a few months later, I got really sick and had to take a leave of absence from work. Around that time, my relationship with my childhood friend started to change. Her uncle passed away, and I couldnāt be there for her for the janaza because I was too unwell myself.
I couldnāt go to the janaza, but I called her and sent a message to all three sisters to offer my condolences. Her sister kept telling me to be there for her, that she needed me, but I couldnāt be there because I was sick. I later got admitted to the hospital and was there for eight days due to excessive vomiting and nauseaāI couldnāt keep food down or eat.
During this time, I was told that she started talking about me, saying she was done with our friendship because Iām āvery selfishā and that she didnāt want to talk to me anymore. I found this extremely upsetting because how could I be selfish when I was seriously ill myself?
On a side note, her brother was subletting my apartment because the rent was cheap. An incident happened with the electricityāI dropped the ball because I was sick and missed two payments, so it got disconnected. While I was working on getting it reconnected, he was impatient and pressured me, even though I had just gotten out of the hospital.
I am not speaking to my sisterāI havenāt spoken to her in years. They called my sister to reach me and wanted access to my account, but I said no. I didnāt want to give my personal information to people who donāt like me.
Long story short, my mutual friends all cut me off in addition to this. When he exhibited extremely hostile behavior, I decided to tell him he needed to move out and that I no longer wanted him staying in my apartmentāI wanted nothing to do with him.
The hardest part is how they portray me as selfish, and that my other mutual friends donāt want to be friends with me anymoreāall while I was seriously sick.
Has something like this ever happened to anyone? How do you overcome it?
Hey everyone, this is my first time posting. Iām not sure if Iām in the right thread, but I need advice on how to move on from thisājust the aftermath, I guess.
Since 2021, Iāve been dealing with chronic stomach issues. After a couple of years of going in and out of the hospital, including a choking incident that required an ambulance, we finally figured out it was H. pylori. I also had a lot of throat issues alongside my stomach problems.
I took the antibiotics and felt better, but a few months later, I got really sick and had to take a leave of absence from work. Around that time, my relationship with my childhood friend started to change. Her uncle passed away, and I couldnāt be there for her for the janaza because I was too unwell myself.
I couldnāt go to the janaza, but I called her and sent a message to all three sisters to offer my condolences. Her sister kept telling me to be there for her, that she needed me, but I couldnāt be there because I was sick. I later got admitted to the hospital and was there for eight days due to excessive vomiting and nauseaāI couldnāt keep food down or eat.
During this time, I was told that she started talking about me, saying she was done with our friendship because Iām āvery selfishā and that she didnāt want to talk to me anymore. I found this extremely upsetting because how could I be selfish when I was seriously ill myself?
On a side note, her brother was subletting my apartment because the rent was cheap. An incident happened with the electricityāI dropped the ball because I was sick and missed two payments, so it got disconnected. While I was working on getting it reconnected, he was impatient and pressured me, even though I had just gotten out of the hospital.
I am not speaking to my sisterāI havenāt spoken to her in years. They called my sister to reach me and wanted access to my account, but I said no. I didnāt want to give my personal information to people who donāt like me.
Long story short, my mutual friends all cut me off in addition to this. When he exhibited extremely hostile behavior, I decided to tell him he needed to move out and that I no longer wanted him staying in my apartmentāI wanted nothing to do with him.
The hardest part is how they portray me as selfish, and that my other mutual friends donāt want to be friends with me anymoreāall while I was seriously sick.
Has something like this ever happened to anyone? How do you overcome it?
