This certain Ashy Abdi hates women, espicially Somali women, he despises Somali women to the point he said he dreams about bathing in their blood. What you guys don't know about this Ashy Abdi is he was actually in love with a xalimo at one point, to the point he would give his life to save her, they dated for couple of years and he proposed. He loved her with his body, mind and soul. He spoiled her with gifts, kisses and cuddles. But the xalimo felt like she was missing something, A manly man. This particular Faraax is tall, light skinned and feminine. He acts like a , talks like a and cries like a little . The xalimo hated that about him. She didn't know how to break up with him, so she started seeing another man. The other man was not Somali, she felt like a woman again. While the ass Faraax spoiled her with money and gifts the other man treated her like a man should treat his woman.
Who's at fault?
I will be honest walahi. let me see, so she cheated on him before she broke up with him?
well, thats major fault. thats the biggest betrayal and amounts to a crime imo. she killed his self-esteem and self-worth, hes looking this tinted glasses on all xaliimos hence his attitude. he lost confidence and life purpose, if he couldnt succeed in keeping the love of his, his suicidal thoughts is justified.
thats the first fault.
Her second fault is, she didnt voice her displeasure and discontent with him. relationships are built on trust and communication, thats the foundation. she could have said "Yo gacaliye you are feminine lets get u into gym, you are very light skin for a guy lets get some tan, you are spendin alot of money on me lets save it for a rainy day and you also complain alot lets get u some manly tough selfhelp stoic books and how to deal with life crisis as a an adult man etc"
(dont believe women hate gettin showered with benjamins. but whateves)
she could have saved the relationship, his sanity but alas shes typical woman, very shallow and materialistic. she throw her somali faarax under the bus cuz he wasnt her ideal man. whats wrong with building the man for yourself, make him the guy you want. imagine the pride she will feel when he morphs into her "dream guy"!.
wheres the "every great man theres a gream woman behind"?
If yall still wondering, yes im dead srs. that female ruined a mans life.
verdict: ES AINT LOYAL.
advice to sspot young faarahs: BDSM is the new romance, master it and yall will be set for life.
bdsm teaches you that women are physically, mentally vulnerable. it gives u an insight in how to be manly enough for women. draw boundaries of relationships. it teaches you how women want to be tamed and put into their rightful place. bdsm instills you inate ability to project personality trait of a protector, master, teacher, lover and provider. the traits women want in a father, husband, a guy friend and as brother.
bdsm also helps women realize their position js society. it teaches them how important their feminine is and how it helps them find a place in this world. it gives them a power over the man to control his feeling - submit to him he will be whatever you want but try to dominate him and all the balance of the relationship is lost and he will be different man, he will be hostile and his inner instinct will kick in to defend this dominatrice in you, because you are no longer a female, you became an alien and you post risk to his evolutionary existence.
Lets pray for the brother that he finds peace and stumbls on bdsm. amen!