Deadbeat mothers

[Cognitivedissonance]

in the west single mothers are praised and put on a pedestal as if they're infallible. This woman raises some very interesting points about child support system and taking some of these reckless women to task. Saying there's so many contraceptive & methods of abortion if a woman does decide to get pregnant and the man doesn't want nothing to do with the child then she should have the responsibility solely on her shoulders by raising the child on her own.

Do you think if a girl decides to keep a child and the father doesn't want nothing to do with the child then she should be forced to care for that child by herself without any financial help by the father?

 

[waraabe]

I think it's worse for the kid if they have a deadbeat mother compared to a deadbeat father

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

I think it's worse for the kid if they have a deadbeat mother compared to a deadbeat father

Why? Are you saying a woman can do what a man can do but a man can't do what a woman does?

I believe a mother & a father are as equally important.

 

[waraabe]

Why? Are you saying a woman can do what a man can do but a man can't do what a woman does?

I believe a mother & a father are as equally important.

I think the mother is more important hence it is said that jannah lies under your mothers feet

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

In the west fathers are ostracised in general if you're a mother then you automatically you're a good mum in western society.

A man in the west can't just have children and be considered by the wider society as being a good father but it seems like all a women needs to do is have a baby and she'll be seen as being a good mother.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

I think the mother is more important hence it is said that jannah lies under your mothers feet

Yes a mother comes before a father tree times before a father in the eyes of Allah but when it comes to instilling moral principles and raising that girl or a boy to be an upright decent human being then the mother and fathers role is equally as important.

There's things that a man can teach a child that a woman can't and likewise too with the woman.

 

[Reign]

This is why you shouldn't have a child out of wedlock or at least if you're not in a stable relationship where you both want children. Don't have a child with a man that doesn't want any PERIOD.

 

[government]

Women in the West have way too much power in the West they always have the custody of the kid, they can end a man's career by false rape allegations, women also don't get charged with pedophilia as much as men etc…etc

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

This is why you shouldn't have a child out of wedlock or at least if you're not in a stable relationship where you both want children. Don't have a child with a man that doesn't want any PERIOD.

I've known girls who've used guys as a sperm bank just so that they could move out of Hooyo's house and get a free house and money from their sugar daddy (the government) & if that guy ain't compliant then bacda madow :siilaanyolaugh:

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Women in the West have way too much power in the West they always have the custody of the kid, they can end a man's career by false rape allegations, women also don't get charged with pedophilia as much as men etc…etc

It's a sad state of affairs the system is a beast pitting women & men against eachother when we were meant to be a team they have us competing when we suppose to complete eachother like Adam & eve

 

[Reign]

I've known girls who've used guys as a sperm bank just so that they could move out of Hooyo's house and get a free house and money from their sugar daddy (the government) :siilaanyolaugh:

Somali? I've never heard of Somali girls having a child out of wedlock and proudly admitting it. The cases where I have they were either rushed to marriage with the father or rushed to Somalia and then back so their parents can make up an imaginary husband in Somalia that got her pregnant just to cover their shame.

I've seen a lot of girls getting pregnant just to trap the guy into marrying them though. Very desperate

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Somali? I've never heard of Somali girls having a child out of wedlock and proudly admitting it. The cases where I have they were either rushed to marriage with the father or rushed to Somalia and then back so their parents can make up an imaginary husband in Somalia that got her pregnant just to cover their shame.

I've seen a lot of girls getting pregnant just to trap the guy into marrying them though. Very desperate

You don't know of any xalimos and faraxs who got married cause the girl got pregnant


Ok

 

[government]

It's a sad state of affairs the system is a beast pitting women & men against eachother when we were meant to be a team they have us competing when we suppose to complete eachother like Adam & eve

That's what happens when you convince a group (women) that they're oppressed by the patriarchy they keep pushing and pushing to get more rights until they start to infringe on the rights of other people.

 

[Reign]

You don't know of any xalimos and faraxs who got married cause the girl got pregnant


Ok

I have, but they don't admit it and claim they got pregnant after marriage. You make it seem as if they get pregnant just so they can move out and proudly admit they have an illegitimate child.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

That's what happens when you convince a group (women) that they're oppressed by the patriarchy they keep pushing and pushing to get more rights until they start to infringe on the rights of other people.

I get the incentives that's been put there by the government for women but what they fail to realise is the damage they're causing to their kids.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

I have, but they don't admit it and claim they got pregnant after marriage. You make it seem as if they get pregnant just so they can move out and proudly admit they have an illegitimate child.

Nah b you misunderstood they don't brag about it but personally I've known guys who had to marry the girl cause she fell pregnant.

 

[Ubax45_]

In the west fathers are ostracised in general if you're a mother then you automatically you're a good mum in western society.

A man in the west can't just have children and be considered by the wider society as being a good father but it seems like all a women needs to do is have a baby and she'll be seen as being a good mother.

That's not true mother's are constantly told their not good enough. A man who does the minimum is considered a good father for simply being physically present, a man spending time with his kids is given positive feedback for "babysitting".

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

That's not true mother's are constantly told their not good enough. A man who does the minimum is considered a good father for simply being physically present, a man spending time with his kids is given positive feedback for "babysitting".

In what world do you live in? Certainly not planet earth.

 

[TooMacaan]

That woman is a big time simp.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

That woman is a big time simp.

Why? Are you a man or a woman