Deadbeat mothers

[Codeine]

that accent, what is it?

 

[Codeine]

5 minutes into it and the only thing of substance she said was just because someone is a mother does not necessarily mean they're a good mother. Sounds like she's just catering to her patreons

 

[TooMacaan]

Why? Are you a man or a woman

Are you from the UK or Canada?

 

[fox]

This is what puts me off Somali girls in London. Most of them are materialistic and would neglect their kids. I got a rule, a algorithim i use to sieve out the real women from the plastic empty hollow shells:

1. Does she have ambition?
2. Social media presence?
3. Her friends?
4. Her Imaan?
5. Her dhaqan?

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Are you from the UK or Canada?

Blud stick to the topic my g Canada iyo uk kada waas

 

[Codeine]

Do you agree with her that child support should be abolished @Cognitivedissonance

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

This is what puts me off Somali girls in London. Most of them are materialistic and would neglect their kids. I got a rule, a algorithim i use to sieve out the real women from the plastic empty hollow shells:

1. Does she have ambition?
2. Social media presence?
3. Her friends?
4. Her Imaan?
5. Her dhaqan?

I don't know of any xalimos who neglected their kids cadaan chick Indian chick madow chicks yes but never a xalimo even if she's a she still clings on to the child in one hand & the d on the other.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Do you agree with her that child support should be abolished @Cognitivedissonance

Am I obliged to answer any of your questions

 

[VixR]

This lady wants praise/browny points.

 

[Burhan]

It's a sad state of affairs the system is a beast pitting women & men against eachother when we were meant to be a team they have us competing when we suppose to complete eachother like Adam & eve

There is Adam and Steve nowadays. The whole humanity is fucked up lately.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

This lady wants praise/browny points.

Waa rageedi wallahi

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

There is Adam and Steve nowadays. The whole humanity is fucked up lately.

This ain't about sodom and Gomorrah mofo stick to the topic

 

[VixR]

Waa rageedi wallahi

It was so obvious, she didn't even hide that she was praise-fishing.

"I spend time with my kids and cook them dinner, praise me. "

She's right in that father's don't get as much recognition as mothers, but wrong that they have do much in order to get it. There's more recognition for mothers, but it comes with more expectations.

 

[TooMacaan]

Blud stick to the topic my g Canada iyo uk kada waas

Tbh, I wouldn't know where to start...too many personal opinions on this whole gender war bs.
Also, it's not that I don't think this topic is an important issue but the person you chose is the worst representative/messenger for it.
She's obviously hardcore simping in order to pander to hurt men, hateful men, or disenfranchised men. She's not helping the situation at all though (neither helping overall society or the troubled men looking for answers) she's only adding fuel to the fire.

Her audience are probably 90% male (possibly more) and everything is a full on echo chamber; the so called "advice" she gives women are falling on deaf ears. The fact that her audience are majority male (whom mostly feel marginalized) also gives her an incentive to cater to their views (pretty sure her videos are monetized [but in addition to money-- online fame, male validation, & male attention]). Notice how there are no reasonable suggestions on how to improve gender relations?

By telling men what they WANT to hear rather than what they NEED to hear (both sides)...she sets up a very unhealthy/unrealistic standard for couples to maintain...which will only breed entitlement and soon after, resentment in the men who heed her advice or opinions.
I've seen a couple of her videos before and she hasn't mentioned one original idea as well; her perspective is not unique and has been covered by others time and time again.

 

[Ubax45_]

I made an incorrect statement, my bad.

No worries, it happens to everyone.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

It was so obvious, she didn't even hide that she was praise-fishing.

"I spend time with my kids and cook them dinner, praise me. "

She's right in that father's don't get as much recognition as mothers, but wrong that they have do much in order to get it. There's more recognition for mothers, but it comes with more expectations.

She's an excellent mother vix allow the hating there's nothing wrong with constructive criticism how many mothers do you know in this day and age who know how to cook I'm not talking about microwave cooking neither you'd be hard pressed to find a young mother who's actually skilled in the culinary arts so this woman has every right to brag about cooking for her kids.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Tbh, I wouldn't know where to start...too many personal opinions on this whole gender war bs.
Also, it's not that I don't think this topic is an important issue but the person you chose is the worst representative/messenger for it.
She's obviously hardcore simping in order to pander to hurt men, hateful men, or disenfranchised men. She's not helping the situation at all though (neither helping overall society or the troubled men looking for answers) she's only adding fuel to the fire.

Her audience are probably 90% male (possibly more) and everything is a full on echo chamber; the so called "advice" she gives women are falling on deaf ears. The fact that her audience are majority male (whom mostly feel marginalized) also gives her an incentive to cater to their views (pretty sure her videos are monetized [but in addition to money-- online fame, male validation, & male attention]). Notice how there are no reasonable suggestions on how to improve gender relations?

By telling men what they WANT to hear rather than what they NEED to hear (both sides)...she sets up a very unhealthy/unrealistic standard for couples to maintain...which will only breed entitlement and soon after, resentment in the men who heed her advice or opinions.
I've seen a couple of her videos before and she hasn't mentioned one original idea as well; her perspective is not unique and has been covered by others time and time again.

I I vehemently disagree with your bias views I'm guessing you're a chick anyway she's talking about the system which is unfair and favours mothers over father but you won't admit it cause of your blatant bias.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

No worries, it happens to everyone.

If I said it I meant it I bite my tongue for no one

 

[TooMacaan]

I I vehemently disagree with your bias views I'm guessing you're a chick anyway she's talking about the system which is unfair and favours mothers over father but you won't admit it cause of your blatant bias.

Did you not read any part of my post??? How it is biased...I was literally as neutral as possible?! I already admitted that I think the topic is an important issue so there's no argument there. My main point is that she is the worst messenger for it, her channel is pandering to a certain audience and not improving the actual real life issues, and she fails to look at the whole picture because she rather get high fives instead. That's the truth.

As for the system and how it unfairly treats men, there are TONS of people who have covered this issue much much better than this lady without all that extra rubbish she adds in.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Did you not read any part of my post??? How it is biased...I was literally as neutral as possible?! I already admitted that I think the topic is an important issue so there's no argument there. My main point is that she is the worst messenger for it, her channel is pandering to a certain audience and not improving the actual real life issues, and she fails to look at the whole picture because she rather get high fives instead. That's the truth.

As for the system and how it unfairly treats men, there are TONS of people who have covered this issue much much better than this lady without all that extra rubbish she adds in.

Let's agree to disagree.