Dating two guys at the same time

[Halimo-2018]

I use to think dating more than guy was evil to the guys. Until I got burned. I was into one guy for so long telling him I was dating other dudes too so he wouldn't think I was clingy. When he ended things I thought I would be ok only to realize I was more into him than he was into me. Date as many as you can if you date only one you will end up being too clingy when he leaves you'll be twice as hurt. As long as you're not sleeping with them get to know and date many then pick one to marry as the somali saying goes a women dates 1k and chooses one. This is healthy for our mental health as women. Good luck gurl.

 

[Sumaaya]

I use to think dating more than guy was evil to the guys. Until I got burned. I was into one guy for so long telling him I was dating other dudes too so he wouldn't think I was clingy. When he ended things I thought I would be ok only to realize I was more into him than he was into me. Date as many as you can if you date only one you will end up being too clingy when he leaves you'll be twice as hurt. As long as you're not sleeping with them get to know and date many then pick one to marry as the somali saying goes a women dates 1k and chooses one. This is healthy for our mental health as women. Good luck gurl.

Men like @Karim will get emotional about this

 

[Nafiso Qalanjo]

Since you dont want to be a traditional wife why not get #1? He makes you happy, and you dont seem like the type to settle down so both of you guys can work to pay the bills. If he lacks brains than you be the brains in the relationship

 

[gbrlax3]

Since you dont want to be a traditional wife why not get #1? He makes you happy, and you dont seem like the type to settle down so both of you guys can work to pay the bills. If he lacks brains than you be the brains in the relationship

when we say we want traditional wife we do not mean house slave. just a woman who is free from work that's all. guys can take care of the finances that's how it always been that's part of the culture

 

[Nafiso Qalanjo]

when we say we want traditional wife we do not mean house slave. just a woman who is free from work that's all. guys can take care of the finances that's how it always been that's part of the culture

I know but the OP said she didnt want to settle down, so thats why I wrote that.

 

[gbrlax3]

I know but the OP said she didnt want to settle down, so thats why I wrote that.

oh ok

 

[Saredo]

I use to think dating more than guy was evil to the guys. Until I got burned. I was into one guy for so long telling him I was dating other dudes too so he wouldn't think I was clingy. When he ended things I thought I would be ok only to realize I was more into him than he was into me. Date as many as you can if you date only one you will end up being too clingy when he leaves you'll be twice as hurt. As long as you're not sleeping with them get to know and date many then pick one to marry as the somali saying goes a women dates 1k and chooses one. This is healthy for our mental health as women. Good luck gurl.

This is a Somali saying ? Interesting

 

[Sumaaya]

This is a Somali saying ? Interesting

Dumarku kun bay la sheekaystan, kow na way ka guursadan lol

 

[Halimo-2018]

This is a Somali saying ? Interesting

Its a famous one too

 

[Saredo]

Dumarku kun bay la sheekaystan, kow na way ka guursadan lol

I didn’t know . Thank you ladies @Sumaaya @Halimo-2018 .

 

[Boogie]

Poor guy doesnt know he is being leaded on


Bronny is so wise they don't give a f*ck about a nigga

 

[Zahra]

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If Mr. Metrosexual makes you VERY HAPPY as you said, he has a job and he's attractive then whats the problem?? So what if he doesn't have a degree, that doesn't make him less educated, plenty of people have a degree and their still airheads or their not even using their degree. How can you say "I CAN NOT MARRY A MAN WHO ISNT ESTABLISHED"! Haven't you heard of growing together. Helping one another build a better life for each other. You need to wake up girl! If Mr. Conservative seems to have it ALL the way you say BUT would put you in a position that would make you become someone your not or someone you don't want to be then he isn't the one. Money isn't everything. Money comes and goes. He could lose his business, injure himself really bad and not be able to work and then there goes the lifestyle that you married him for out the window. The other guy doesn't seem to have any bad qualities based on your short description, the only issue you seem to have with Mr. Metrosexual is that he isn't stacked with money . Think smart. Don't let money guide you.

 

[gbrlax3]

If Mr. Metrosexual makes you VERY HAPPY as you said, he has a job and he's attractive then whats the problem?? So what if he doesn't have a degree, that doesn't make him less educated, plenty of people have a degree and their still airheads or their not even using their degree. How can you say "I CAN NOT MARRY A MAN WHO ISNT ESTABLISHED"! Haven't you heard of growing together. Helping one another build a better life for each other. You need to wake up girl! If Mr. Conservative seems to have it ALL the way you say BUT would put you in a position that would make you become someone your not or someone you don't want to be then he isn't the one. Money isn't everything. Money comes and goes. He could lose his business, injure himself really bad and not be able to work and then there goes the lifestyle that you married him for out the window. The other guy doesn't seem to have any bad qualities based on your short description, the only issue you seem to have with Mr. Metrosexual is that he isn't stacked with money . Think smart. Don't let money guide you.

Mr @Xaruun needs to see this post and realize its not about da money only

 

[Emily]

If Mr. Metrosexual makes you VERY HAPPY as you said, he has a job and he's attractive then whats the problem?? So what if he doesn't have a degree, that doesn't make him less educated, plenty of people have a degree and their still airheads or their not even using their degree. How can you say "I CAN NOT MARRY A MAN WHO ISNT ESTABLISHED"! Haven't you heard of growing together. Helping one another build a better life for each other. You need to wake up girl! If Mr. Conservative seems to have it ALL the way you say BUT would put you in a position that would make you become someone your not or someone you don't want to be then he isn't the one. Money isn't everything. Money comes and goes. He could lose his business, injure himself really bad and not be able to work and then there goes the lifestyle that you married him for out the window. The other guy doesn't seem to have any bad qualities based on your short description, the only issue you seem to have with Mr. Metrosexual is that he isn't stacked with money . Think smart. Don't let money guide you.

I want a provider , not a man to struggle with or build with. I want to live like the housewives house of Orange County. My father provided a luxury life, my mother worked but saved her money and spent daddy’s money . We lived in the best house in a gated neighborhood, went to private school, and were able to afford a lot of things. My mother is in her 50s but looks ten years younger because she had the time to care of herself and never stressed about money unlike the women she went to school with who married for love and tried to build underachieving men . Mr metrosexual make me happy momentarily but I don’t think he would make me happy for a life time .

 

[Emily]

Since you dont want to be a traditional wife why not get #1? He makes you happy, and you dont seem like the type to settle down so both of you guys can work to pay the bills. If he lacks brains than you be the brains in the relationship

Girl I don’t want to pay bills. I am a hypergamous girl . I don’t see myself settling down with a dusty man

 

[Emily]

Guys I don’t mind being a traditional wife as long as he treats me like the queen I am. I can change for a good man. Mr metrosexual is a good man too but I won’t live in a comfortable life with him . Guys I think I am falling for mr conservative, we seem to have the same values, ok I am kidding, we are totally the opposite but we can get along fine

I will update this thread in the spring or summer.

 

[gbrlax3]

Girl I don’t want to pay bills. I am a hypergamous girl . I don’t see myself settling down with a dusty man

a guy that loves you will provide. that's a show of love btw

 

[ReerVanCadde]

You do you. This whole topic reeks of attention seeking.

 

[Emily]

You do you. This whole topic reeks of attention seeking.

You do know you can ignore the whole the topic

 

[Boogie]

You do know you can ignore the whole the topic

Why do you lead people on u bad