Dating multiple tings

[Yahya]

Lately i've been feeling bad about doing this. But how can you really stick to one thing at my age. I feel bad dating girls and then having to dump them cus they're not wifey material. As a consequence i've resorted to just using tinder for casual sex and dating only those that match my personality. I don't see myself getting married till 27-28 and i can't help myself but i always feel like a piece of shit having to dump nice girls just because i couldn't see the relationship lasting. I once dated some girls from different cities so they'd never see each other or find out, used different phones etc.

I've always been honest tho and straight up told them when i realised things were not going to last.

 

[Tav]

There’s nothing to feel bad about. It’s a market and investing too much time into one person can be a recipe for disaster. It’s chill long as you’re upfront about it and not wasting anyone’s time. Better for them to be dumped than led on

 

[Factz]

And I tho @Shmurda was worse

 

[Bronco]

There’s nothing to feel bad about. It’s a market and investing too much time into one person can be a recipe for disaster. It’s chill long as you’re upfront about it and not wasting anyone’s time. Better for them to be dumped than led on

Echoing this, kind of. I'm careful with my words so I won't say too much, but investing in one person from the get go is bad for you. Even when people are looking for marriage, you're better off talking to multiple girls because it keeps you level headed and won't force you to emotionally invest before there is something to invest in.

I don't know about you lot, but ghosting/getting ghosted or killing off a dead convo is much easier when you're literally talking to another girl. Like that shit doesn't matter at all because my attention is divided.

 

[Yahya]

And I tho @Shmurda was worse

Bro i like a lot of things, man needs variety. I promised my father i'd get serious in my late 20's tho.

Marriage is much safer tho, cus if that condom breaks your kid is stuck with some gaal ting. I know lots of guys that ended up like that.

 

[Juke]

It's normal and you shouldn't feel bad if you didn't promise you're exclusively committed to her cheeks.

 

[Yahya]

Echoing this, kind of. I'm careful with my words so I won't say too much, but investing in one person from the get go is bad for you. Even when people are looking for marriage, you're better off talking to multiple girls because it keeps you level headed and won't force you to emotionally invest before there is something to invest in.

I don't know about you lot, but ghosting/getting ghosted or killing off a dead convo is much easier when you're literally talking to another girl. Like that shit doesn't matter at all because my attention is divided.

Trust me if your hitting it right, you won't get ghosted.

The problem then becomes clingyness.

 

[Karim]

You should keep your sins to yourself instead of publicizing it for the world to see.

 

[المهندس]

I thought this nigga was a sheikh but he's talking about " clapping cheeks" in public

audhubillah

 

[Shmurda]

And I tho @Shmurda was worse

I knew this nigga was saqajaan on the low low

@Yahya tinder is cheat code if you're above 5/10 you'll eat good everyday whenever u want

 

[Mahacagalla]

Echoing this, kind of. I'm careful with my words so I won't say too much, but investing in one person from the get go is bad for you. Even when people are looking for marriage, you're better off talking to multiple girls because it keeps you level headed and won't force you to emotionally invest before there is something to invest in.

I don't know about you lot, but ghosting/getting ghosted or killing off a dead convo is much easier when you're literally talking to another girl. Like that shit doesn't matter at all because my attention is divided.

I use to think this too, but everything has a risk if you always have a backup plan you won’t ever commit to anyone or get closer to them.

 

[Alexander The Great]

I knew this nigga was saqajaan on the low low

@Yahya tinder is cheat code if you're above 5/10 you'll eat good everyday whenever u want

Bro you gotta be a proper model to smash and dash on tinder the ratio is like 70/30

You think average niggas even get a whiff of pussy on tinder.

 

[Shmurda]

Bro you gotta be a proper model to smash and dash on tinder the ratio is like 70/30

You think average niggas even get a whiff of pussy on tinder.

U might be right cuz few years back I could go on tinder and smash easy but nowadays they make u pay and shit