@Abdalla there heaps of things u need to look for that's if she past the ho check though. From what i've seen 10% of people are at peace with themselves, 90% aint. That's a diamond if u can get one of those cause u dont need drama in your home, it where u relax. By drama I don't mean just the type who scream, the type who lives up to an image of society, the ones who just do what everyone else is doing and if u ask what have u got from it she say nothing but keep doing it anyway, their are the types who buy stuff constantly cause they distracting themselves from finding peace within themselves or dont know how to and dont wanna ask for help either.
There many types. But she gotta be at peace with herself and her behavior will tell u if she is or not. Then if you think the same or hold the same views thats a bonus but not mandatory because u can hold same views but she could be not at peace inside and it's gonna be a nitemare. The truth is sxb u wanna find someone who IS LIVING not EXISTING and those who are existing you will see all those symptoms focusing on others, buying shit like drug addict, living up to images, satisfying others, redoing shit over and over again even though she never got nothing from it. Find those who are ALIVEEEEEEEEEEE first and foremost not existing. Being alive is YOU HAVE MEANING IN YOUR LIFE and if they cant answer that, dont go anywhere near them even if u click on every personality level and views. U can have a partner who is totally different to you in views but has meaning and peace to her life you can grow that peace together in different ways but your stable at least and not just merely existing