Clarifying Remarks on Somali Girls Aint Feeling Us Thread

[Gambar]

This is fucking absolutely false, I know and have met plenty of MJ women who were not qabilist at all. This only applies to the Bermuda Triangle cult that brainwashes their children to hate everyone but love Ethiopia and BeerDoofar

How does that make someone a qabiilist? You have a lot riding on your shoulders as an MJ you have to make sure you marry up not down.

 

[Gambar]

Waa runtaa, I apologize, I don't normally use foul language. Just saw an opportunity to make a joke.

Beenaaleyahow, you're Isaaq somaha? I'm 100% certain you use filthy language. One hundraan barcen!

 

[Bohol]

Why are you calling us idoors chick, aren't u Isaq?

Cue the buzzword "in-group loyalty" :siilaanyolaugh:

Females don't count remember.The politically correct word is Lander chicks of Somalispot. :siilaanyolaugh::siilaanyosmile:

 

[merka]

The sexual frustration in this thread is too damn high

@Mohamud allow the banter fam. The only thing in common with these gender warriors is that they're single.

 

[Prince Abubu]

Beenaaleyahow, you're Isaaq somaha? I'm 100% certain you use filthy language. One hundraan barcen!

Isaaq maxaa ku baray adiga? Isaaq and MJ don't meet.

 

[ThreeTwentyOne]

I think fathers and brothers need to be actively involved in the process when their daughters and sisters are ready for marriage. I have seen no other group of Muslim men that are as hands off as Somali men when it comes to their women. I have an Afghani friend who once asked me "how come Somali men don't care?" and then I said "about what?" and he said "about anything." I pressed him further and he gave some examples, the biggest one being how we don't care about our girls. They go out when they want, come home when they want, date who they want, marry who they want, divorce at whim. It's a freaking free for all with no rules. Wallahi I had no answer. All I could tell him was "I don't know bro".

Somali dads and brothers need to be involved with the process from the beginning. Arranged marriages are good, but the girl should of course always have the choice to refuse. The girl should also have the right to meet a guy on her own, but then her dad should let her know that when she meets a guy she should immediately tell him and her brothers so they can vet the guy and see if he's suitable for her or if she's selling herself short. Men can pick up on things about other men that women can't. A dad or brother can tell if he's an unscrupulous player or irresponsible loser, but women may not be able to pick up on it. Also, when the guy has to meet the dad or brothers he's not gonna mess around and take advantage of the girl physically and bounce. If he's serious about marriage he'll be down to continue, if he's not then he'll disappear.

Of course family members should look out for their daughters to see if the man she is marrying is good, this is normal in Somalia, but the Somali family dynamic in the west does not usually include a father figure and another thing I have noticed is that the first born kid is almost always a girl. I think that mindset wouldn't go well with western Somalis. In general, I think a lot of the younger generation really just want to be independent and stay away from strict parents. I just think it's easier said than done.

 

[Genie]

I remember when I first started working at this corporation, this colleague of mine was chased around by a very hot waiter at one of the restaurants in the building but he continued to reject her purely due to her position, which baffled me at that time and I only understood why much later.

It's the same story of those in the hood that make it but NEVER come back to it! It's a catch 22 trap which the British understood very well as a no win situation! You go back to help, they will diss you for being an arrogant sell out, if you don't go back the same happens anyway.

I had my first experience of this working abroad were I was helping out some Somali refugees I met, buying them books and materials to help them learn programming and taking time out to teach them whilst taking them out regularly for brotherhood, but I come to learn that these people used to slander me day and night and even burned those books but told me someone stole them!

 

[Inquisitive_]

I honestly don't know, he was beggin me to meet up with him at paddington when I mentioned I hung around their in a previous comment. When I rejected he started with the weird abusive, BDSM fanfiction

Your very lucky because your a Somali women and I don't seek to humiliate you, I won't post the screenshot showing the full context and the bizarre fetish you posted just before that message.

Count yourself very lucky because a few years ago I wouldn't have cared and blasted you really bad and driven you to suicide.

I didn't even think your doqonimo stretched this far to attack a person that has dirt on you

Learn from this lesson for the future and don't let your intense jealousy blind you, I'll be the better person for now.

 

[Gambar]

Isaaq maxaa ku baray adiga? Isaaq and MJ don't meet.

Koley filthy language comes naturally to y'all.

 

[Bohol]

I know we're both Garxajis and all, but our real qabiil is Soomaali. It's the only one that should matter.

True but we have to instill loyalty in the lander females in SS. If they don't have loyalty to
the klan nor will they have it to the ethnic group (Somali). As the saying goes learn to walk
before running.

 

[jugjugwacwac]

In general, I think a lot of the younger generation really just want to be independent and stay away from strict parents. I just think it's easier said than done.

I understand that, but that's because Somali fathers don't develop the type of relationship with their daughters that would make the daughter want to involve her father in the courting process.

And all this independence and privacy the young generations covets is all and fine and dandy until shit hits the fan and they find themselves paired up with a loser or in the middle of a divorce. All of a sudden now they wanna involve daddy and cry on his lap.

 

[Prince Abubu]

Koley filthy language comes naturally to y'all.

Like I said, Isaaq xaggaad ku aragtey?

Also, judging from this forum alone, the most filthy mouthed people are usually MJs, particularly the females.

 

[Genie]

You were making some sense, but u had to ruin it by telling me not to over think this stuff. Sxb, I think for fun. It's what I enjoy doing. When I get off this forum tonight I'm probably gonna read about and ponder upon the moral bankruptcy of post-structuralist thought. Then maybe I'll bump some tunes and vibe out or watch a show on netflix. Then after that I might ponder about the creation of a new Somali xeer system that could end all clan skirmishes and wars in Somalia once and for all. This is my idea of a good time.

I like you already

 

[DiricLover]

I think fathers and brothers need to be actively involved in the process when their daughters and sisters are ready for marriage. I have seen no other group of Muslim men that are as hands off as Somali men when it comes to their women. I have an Afghani friend who once asked me "how come Somali men don't care?" and then I said "about what?" and he said "about anything." I pressed him further and he gave some examples, the biggest one being how we don't care about our girls. They go out when they want, come home when they want, date who they want, marry who they want, divorce at whim. It's a freaking free for all with no rules. Wallahi I had no answer. All I could tell him was "I don't know bro".

Somali dads and brothers need to be involved with the process from the beginning. Arranged marriages are good, but the girl should of course always have the choice to refuse. The girl should also have the right to meet a guy on her own, but then her dad should let her know that when she meets a guy she should immediately tell him and her brothers so they can vet the guy and see if he's suitable for her or if she's selling herself short. Men can pick up on things about other men that women can't. A dad or brother can tell if he's an unscrupulous player or irresponsible loser, but women may not be able to pick up on it. Also, when the guy has to meet the dad or brothers he's not gonna mess around and take advantage of the girl physically and bounce. If he's serious about marriage he'll be down to continue, if he's not then he'll disappear.

I agree with you that Somali fathers and brothers need to be involved more in process of marriage, they are somewhat carefree in that area. However, I do disagree that fathers/brothers don't care where they go and what time they come back. All the Somali girls/women I personally know always have to call their parents to let them know where they are and what time they have to be home by. They are definitely not lenient when it comes to that

 

[Gambar]

Like I said, Isaaq xaggaad ku aragtey?

Also, judging from this forum alone, the most filthy mouthed people are usually MJs, particularly the females.

Am I lying walaal? You guys are honest but blunt and often filthy in language. Waa amaan just take the damn braise baan ku idhi.

 

[jugjugwacwac]

I agree with you that Somali fathers and brothers need to be involved more in process of marriage, they are somewhat carefree in that area. However, I do disagree that fathers/brothers don't care where they go and what time they come back. All the Somali girls/women I personally know always have to call their parents to let them know where they are and what time they have to be home by. They are definitely not lenient when it comes to that

I am happy to hear that honestly. Are u from Canada btw?

 

[Prince Abubu]

Am I lying walaal? You guys are honest but blunt and often filthy in language. Waa amaan just take the damn braise baan ku idhi.

We are rough and straightforward with our speech, especially Reer Burco, but we aren't foul-mouthed. That's a stereotype.

 

[jugjugwacwac]

Am I lying walaal? You guys are honest but blunt and often filthy in language. Waa amaan just take the damn braise baan ku idhi.

This is true, I like the bluntness but don't like the filthy language part.

 

[jugjugwacwac]

Like I said, Isaaq xaggaad ku aragtey?

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Oo ma ogid miyaa? Inanta abti baynu u nahay ee sidaas ula soco.

 

[VixR]

Females don't count remember.The politically correct word is Lander chicks of Somalispot. :siilaanyolaugh::siilaanyosmile:

I'm ok with not counting. I'll count elsewhere in my own way.

The reason I support SL is bc being of my parents heritage and the understanding that predominance of qabil above all else in Somali culture makes you incompatible for the naive unification that has failed attempt that some still dream about, esp since its impossible to erase it bc its literally stamped into the long version of your primary identifier, your name, and further bolstered through myth. BC of this, I see SL gaining independence and the rest of the country Balkanizing. There is no other recourse that doesn't involve 'our' usual 'self-slaughter'.