Children

[SOULSEARCHING]

Didn't you talk about this before your marriage?

What if you did ?

 

[Nilotufian]

How many do you want?

 

[land owner]

@SOULSEARCHING Inshallah you will have kids and you’ll share beautiful memories like how they’ll touch your stuff with their sticky candy fingers

 

[Macalin M]

I’m getting a dna test so I can see if I’m worthy!

 

[Basra]

Say you get married and your husband wants children but you haven't told him you are not ready because of your childhood memories, absent father and abusive mother you got trauma from?

Is that a valid reason not to have children? Say your husband is getting angry and inpatient is that fear to him? Or is your mental health important?

husband be like

 

[Nostalgia]

This is something you have to discuss about before marriage so that you know you are on the same page. If he wants 10 kids and you're good with just 2, obviously problems will occur. When you have found a potential ask lots of questions. Ask if he wants to wait a bit before having kids or asap.

 

[Macalin M]

husband be like

He looks like a very strong man! Someone with power!