Malcolm X
The price of freedom is death
I have too much free time, so here's a list of questions for your enjoyment. Feel free to suggest something.
Deen:
1. Are you a Muslim?
2. Do you pray?
3. Which is your favourite surah in Qur'an and why?
4. If you disagree with me on something about Islam. What will you do?
5. Have you ever participated in zina before?
6. What is your favourite topic in Islam?
7. Do you have female/male friends? Do you think its halal to have opposite gender friends?
8. What's your biggest annoyances with Muslims?
9. Should we limit computer/TV usage with our children?
10. Why are ISIS bad? (Good test on knowledge of Islam)?
11. What methodology do you ascribe to?
Work:
1. Do you have a degree? If so, what degree?
2. Do you want to work?
3. Are you happy with being a housewife?
4. If you work, are you happy paying some of your salary to family? (In Islam, any money a woman earns is theirs. Any money a man earns belongs to the family)
5. If I lost a job, what will you do?
6. Are you happy with me travelling for business meetings?
7. If I get 1 month holiday per year, how do you want it to be planned? All in the summer or spread out? Etc.
8. If working, who cooks the meals when we get to home?
9. Who looks after the children?
Family:
1. How do often should we visit our parents?
2. Will you be happy to visit our parents regularly?
3. Will you be happy to leave our kids with our parents?
4. If my parents makes you angry, what will you do?
5. If we come from different regions of Somalia/land or whatever, are you happy visiting my region?
6. What's the max for sending the money back home?
7. Are you fine with paying significant money to our immediate family if something happens?
9. Can our parents live with us when they get old?
10. If they go back home instead of moving in with us, are you happy if we visit them yearly and pay more money for living expenses?
Financials:
1. Joint or single accounts?
2. If we're spending too much, what area we should reduce/cut first?
3. Are we allowed to be in debt?
4. Do you have any debts? What about uni loan debts?
5. How do we buy/rent a house?
6. How do you feel about Islamic mortgages?
7. Who gets to manage the money?
8. Do you think credit cards (0% cards only) are okay?
9. Can I look at your bank statement before marrying?
10. If we're buying something expensive and we disagree whether it necessary or not. How do we solve this problem?
11. We all have hobbies. How much budget should we have for them?
12. Budget for kids? How much should they get? Luxuries?
Children:
1. How many children should we have?
2. Are you okay with adoption?
Lifestyle:
1. Where should we live?
2. Are we happy with moving out to another country?
3. Are you okay with living in white area?
Deen:
1. Are you a Muslim?
2. Do you pray?
3. Which is your favourite surah in Qur'an and why?
4. If you disagree with me on something about Islam. What will you do?
5. Have you ever participated in zina before?
6. What is your favourite topic in Islam?
7. Do you have female/male friends? Do you think its halal to have opposite gender friends?
8. What's your biggest annoyances with Muslims?
9. Should we limit computer/TV usage with our children?
10. Why are ISIS bad? (Good test on knowledge of Islam)?
11. What methodology do you ascribe to?
Work:
1. Do you have a degree? If so, what degree?
2. Do you want to work?
3. Are you happy with being a housewife?
4. If you work, are you happy paying some of your salary to family? (In Islam, any money a woman earns is theirs. Any money a man earns belongs to the family)
5. If I lost a job, what will you do?
6. Are you happy with me travelling for business meetings?
7. If I get 1 month holiday per year, how do you want it to be planned? All in the summer or spread out? Etc.
8. If working, who cooks the meals when we get to home?
9. Who looks after the children?
Family:
1. How do often should we visit our parents?
2. Will you be happy to visit our parents regularly?
3. Will you be happy to leave our kids with our parents?
4. If my parents makes you angry, what will you do?
5. If we come from different regions of Somalia/land or whatever, are you happy visiting my region?
6. What's the max for sending the money back home?
7. Are you fine with paying significant money to our immediate family if something happens?
9. Can our parents live with us when they get old?
10. If they go back home instead of moving in with us, are you happy if we visit them yearly and pay more money for living expenses?
Financials:
1. Joint or single accounts?
2. If we're spending too much, what area we should reduce/cut first?
3. Are we allowed to be in debt?
4. Do you have any debts? What about uni loan debts?
5. How do we buy/rent a house?
6. How do you feel about Islamic mortgages?
7. Who gets to manage the money?
8. Do you think credit cards (0% cards only) are okay?
9. Can I look at your bank statement before marrying?
10. If we're buying something expensive and we disagree whether it necessary or not. How do we solve this problem?
11. We all have hobbies. How much budget should we have for them?
12. Budget for kids? How much should they get? Luxuries?
Children:
1. How many children should we have?
2. Are you okay with adoption?
Lifestyle:
1. Where should we live?
2. Are we happy with moving out to another country?
3. Are you okay with living in white area?
