Can the mother loose custody of child after Remarriage?

[Yaraye]

I heard that, in islam, mothers who get remarried can lose custody of child and the child goes to the father? Is this true?

 

[Odious Delirium]

I heard that, in islam, mothers who get remarried can lose custody of child and the child goes to the father? Is this true?

a small child will stay in the custody of there mother but after a certain age the father has a right to the child but once they reach the age where they can decide for themselves its up to the child to choice which parent it wants to stay with. most kids will choice there mother unless the mother is abnormal.

in general a mother has more rights over the child but once another guy comes into the picture she loses that privilege.

regardless a father that wants to be in the child's life will give the child a better upbringing then a single mother statistically speaking and having another guy around you kids isn't it. a lot of these guys are predators and a lot of women are weak and allow it to happen because they don't wanna lose the guy they remarry to.
there is a reason they lose that privilege Alhamdulillah.

women who bring non relative males into there houses around there kids make the abuse of their kids both 11 times more likely when compared to when they live with both there biological parents.

remarried/single mothers are perpetrators and bystanders to the sexual abuse of there kids

 

[Khaem]

a small child will stay in the custody of there mother but after a certain age the father has a right to the child but once they reach the age where they can decide for themselves its up to the child to choice which parent it wants to stay with. most kids will choice there mother unless the mother is abnormal.

in general a mother has more rights over the child but once another guy comes into the picture she loses that privilege.

regardless a father that wants to be in the child's life will give the child a better upbringing then a single mother statistically speaking and having another guy around you kids isn't it. a lot of these guys are predators and a lot of women are weak and allow it to happen because they don't wanna lose the guy they remarry to.
there is a reason they lose that privilege Alhamdulillah.

women who bring non relative males into there houses around there kids make the abuse of their kids both 11 times more likely when compared to when they live with both there biological parents.

remarried/single mothers are perpetrators and bystanders to the sexual abuse of there kids

Heard of too many stories of people saying they got abused as a child by a man their single mother brought into the house.

 

[Nin123]

I heard that, in islam, mothers who get remarried can lose custody of child and the child goes to the father? Is this true?

Allhamdullah thank you Allah just imagine another man taking your kid and the kid calling him daddy.

 

[Khaem]

Allhamdullah thank you Allah just imagine another man taking your kid and the kid calling him daddy.

I'd return to God if that happend. Someone is gonna get shot if I see my kid calling another man aabo

 

[Odious Delirium]

Heard of too many stories of people saying they got abused as a child by a man their single mother brought into the house.

lets think about it logically most guys openly state they don't wanna be with single mother or divorcees in general. there is a world wide stigma that comes with it and makes them unattractive to men more so if they have kids. not saying this is right but its the way it is in general.

a high percentage of guys in general are predators the only reason they don't act on it is in fear of the law and the best way to get away with it is from inside the house where they are trusted no one will find out and they can silence the victim. a guy going for a single mom is extremely sus because the possibility of him doing it because he want to go after the kids is ever present. at that point give the kids over to there father if he is a present guy don't let the divorce get in the way of the relationship your kids have with there father. especially when they are young and dependent. when they are older it doesn't matter as much

 

[Nin123]

lets think about it logically most guys openly state they don't wanna be with single mother or divorcees in general. there is a world wide stigma that comes with it and makes them unattractive to men more so if they have kids. not saying this is right but its the way it is in general.

a high percentage of guys in general are predators the only reason they don't act on it is in fear of the law and the best way to get away with it is from inside the house where they are trusted no one will find out and they can silence the victim. a guy going for a single mom is extremely sus because the possibility of him doing it because he want to go after the kids is ever present. at that point give the kids over to there father if he is a present guy don't let the divorce get in the way of the relationship your kids have with there father. especially when they are young and dependent. when they are older it doesn't matter as much

Or the single mother can date or marry single father with kids. He highly unlikely to do anything sus with her kids.

 

[Dooyo]

I think that's for the better. Stepparents, male or female, can be pretty evil if they want to. But way more harm can be done by a stepfather as compared to a stepmother.

 

[Odious Delirium]

Or the single mother can date or marry single father with kids. He highly unlikely to do anything sus with her kids.

that is true but the threat level according to stats is still the same it doesn't matter whether the guy got kids or not and generally that type of guy isn't sus since he is marrying someone with kids because they are more likely to be ok with marrying him as opposed to someone without kids and vice versa. if he didn't have any kids that guy wouldn't marry a single mom neither would the average woman marry a single dad if they had no kids of there own.

 

[Nin123]

I think that's for the better. Stepparents, male or female, can be pretty evil if they want to. But way more harm can be done by a stepfather as compared to a stepmother.

Nah only step mother is evil just look at all the books and movies portraying step mother as evil, it is not random or coincidence it’s for reason. Step dad are in love with woman so much they will treat her kids as his own children.

 

[Khaem]

I think that's for the better. Stepparents, male or female, can be pretty evil if they want to. But way more harm can be done by a stepfather as compared to a stepmother.

The mother will sit back and watch the abuse for the sake of keeping her new man. Whilst the father would give a beating to the step mother if she tried anything.

 

[Khaem]

Nah only step mother is evil just look at all the books and movies portraying step mother as evil, it is not random or coincidence it’s for reason. Step dad are in love with woman so much they will treat her kids as his own children.

Guys won't ever see another niggas child as his own. Some would ofc, but the vast majority are only in it for the woman and the pssy. As soon as the relationship ends he's out and the child won't ever see him again. Lots of kids are stuck in limbo making connections with a man only for him to disappear and a new man comes along and repeat because their mum is a sluut

 

[Dooyo]

The mother will sit back and watch the abuse for the sake of keeping her new man. Whilst the father would give a beating to the step mother if she tried anything.

Eh.. not always. Personally, I know of a family where as soon as the mother found out her husband was entering into her sleeping daughters' rooms at night (apparently he hadn't yet sexually assaulted the girls yet ), she immediately kicked him out and got divorced the next day.

I've also heard stories from children who grew up with terrible stepmothers who mistreated them daily, and their fathers did nothing to stop it. It all just depends on how good of a parent the person is.

However, harm from a stepfather is always greater, so kids are better off staying with a loving father incase their mom gets remarried.

Nah only step mother is evil just look at all the books and movies portraying step mother as evil, it is not random or coincidence it’s for reason. Step dad are in love with woman so much they will treat her kids as his own children.

It's a case by case scenario. If the kids have a loving father willingly to care for them 24/7, he should take them.

 

[El Nino]

Traditionally in our culture if divorce happened the children would be raised by the father and his family.

 

[Nin123]

Traditionally in our culture if divorce happened the children would be raised by the father and his family.

I agree with you on this one it’s better the father side took the kids.

 

[Bundasliga]

I heard that, in islam, mothers who get remarried can lose custody of child and the child goes to the father? Is this true?

Yes ,its true . Why is this controversial?
This should be common knowledge & should be practiced more in the Muslim community also then divorce rates would maybe decline & it would prevent abuse/molestation by step parents .

 

[Angelina]

a small child will stay in the custody of there mother but after a certain age the father has a right to the child but once they reach the age where they can decide for themselves its up to the child to choice which parent it wants to stay with. most kids will choice there mother unless the mother is abnormal.

in general a mother has more rights over the child but once another guy comes into the picture she loses that privilege.

regardless a father that wants to be in the child's life will give the child a better upbringing then a single mother statistically speaking and having another guy around you kids isn't it. a lot of these guys are predators and a lot of women are weak and allow it to happen because they don't wanna lose the guy they remarry to.
there is a reason they lose that privilege Alhamdulillah.

women who bring non relative males into there houses around there kids make the abuse of their kids both 11 times more likely when compared to when they live with both there biological parents.

remarried/single mothers are perpetrators and bystanders to the sexual abuse of there kids

Statistically step mothers are also to abusive kids and fathers tend to remarry before mothers.

According to the 4 madhabs kids go to the grandmother anyway, if alive.

 

[Angelina]

Yes ,its true . Why is this controversial?
This should be common knowledge & should be practiced more in the Muslim community also then divorce rates would maybe decline & it would prevent abuse/molestation by step parents .

Step mothers abuse and molest kids. Fathers too remarry as well.

Best bet is the grandparents which is the traditional view of madhabs.

 

[Odious Delirium]

Statistically step mothers are also to abusive kids and fathers tend to remarry before mothers.

According to the 4 madhabs kids go to the grandmother anyway, if alive.

Statistically everything is possible so not much of a point lets stay consistent here. If I said that sort of thing in every discussion we have it would be disingenuous to say because one side always does it more. So you can't just say women do it to as a cop out.

Statistically step mothers are at like 6% when it comes to total overall abuse of children. Step fathers do the rest and this topic is about custody between the two parent and mothers losing there right when remarrying. Of course grandparents are the best option but we are not talking about that and they don't come under the 11 times more likely stat because they are relatives.
The stat applies to non relatives.

 

[Bundasliga]

Step mothers abuse and molest kids. Fathers too remarry as well.

Best bet is the grandparents which is the traditional view of madhabs.

I know thats why I said step parents .
Step mothers don't molest near as much as step fathers. This is not up to debate.

If the father is a good man & god fearing then the custody should go to him if she remarries.