If the shoe was in the other foot eh, I got a little anecdote for you, this happened last year, at the school I work at.
There was this woman and this guy that started dated, I am close to both of them, we got here same time and we live in the same building.
The guy pursued her, and it lasted max 6 months. She'd go out almost every night, and pull up to my crib plastered, me and home playing some video games. Shit was routine.
The guy mentally checked out a while ago, they "broke up" like 5 times, finally she ended things for good, and he didn't care. She ended up bawling her eyes out for weeks, saying shit like I was the perfect gf, blah blah blah blah
After a while, I asked her why were you so sad, you guys we're never that close and it didn't last that long? She straight up said it's mainly cause he didn't care/hurt as much as me