Bad cook a deal breaker?

[Angelina]

I didn't say a woman has to pay the bills and keep the home, nor did I say men shouldn't help their wives. I said women that don't want to cook shouldn't get married, and I stick by it. Loaded statement, and you can disagree with that if you want. In my view, if your wife doesn't keep the home it's like living with one of your niggas.. . Split the bills, split the chores, and keep the seat up. The prospects of that are undesirable to me and clearly enough other or most men.
50/50 is a myth and you know this. Someone has to be the primary homemaker regardless of whether they contribute all or nothing financially.

You are inherently not equipped for this conversation w/ a Somali male as a Xalimo. Everything has to be interpreted from the most malicious and exploitative angle.

Self-hater? I don't know. I'm just keeping it real with you. I ain't never seen a nigga with that level of wealth shop around in Kenya or a wedding in the hood for a wife. Why shouldn't I marry a Xalimo? I don't see any Slavs that aren't gaalo my way.

@Molotoff are you gonna set me up with a slav angel?

You cannot expect the perks of a traditional wife, if you do not do most of the providing. It is simple as that. If you don't want to feel like you're living with a nigga, then be a man and make sure most of the bills are on you. No woman is going to feel like she's with a man if she has to look after you financially as well as physically. After a while, it does get exploitative and our deen recognizes that, which is why one of the easiest way a woman can get divorced in islam is lack of provisions. What does that tell you?

Anyways, i'm done with this topic. Cooking is a lifeskill that both men and women should know. Eating out isn't healthy.

Definitely a self-hater. You associate Xalimos with the hood looool. Please don't.

 

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You cannot expect the perks of a traditional wife, if you do not do most of the providing. It is simple as that. If you don't want to feel like you're living with a nigga, then be a man and make sure most of the bills are on you. No woman is going to feel like she's with a man if she has to look after you financially as well as physically. After a while, it does get exploitative and our deen recognizes that, which is why one of the easiest way a woman can get divorced in islam is lack of provisions. What does that tell you?

Anyways, i'm done with this topic. Cooking is a lifeskill that both men and women should know. Eating out isn't healthy.

Definitely a self-hater. You associate Xalimos with the hood looool. Please don't.

Nothing I said disagrees with your first paragraph though.

It's not rocket science. Either party has to be the primary home keeper, whether they work 90 hours a week or none at all. And most men straight up don't want to take that role on which is why women end up filling it in reality. Whether they're cadaan or Somali, Muslim or gaalo, brain surgeons or unemployed.