Authobillah qowma Luud? What does that have to do with anything? When did I talk about the alphabet community bisinka!
Well, if you haven’t watched you can’t comment. Sometimes in life, it’s good to let go of certain views and just take in what others think and then analyse it. If you agree okay, if you still don’t? Okay. But simply listening instead of always thinking your right might stop you from being an incel. I think you seem to have a defeatist mentality have told yourself you’re right instead of listening. Even when the guys advise you, you’re always opposed so this point doesn’t have much to do with the content, I’m talking about your general attitude to life.
Chill I was joking
, and regarding the video, I think that men that were raised in such a way that didn't involve domestic tasks, would not feel the desire to reciprocate effort in the said manner. They'd relegate themselves to the role of provider and feel that it would suffice, that might be a reason why resentment could be built up for women in such a dynamic..You want my honest opinion, haye here it is.
Or maybe women have a habit of thinking not talking about what they want is enough and simply doing certain for things for him and automatically expecting it back? Instead of saying, hey, I want XYZ? I don’t know in female friendships, if I do something for someone, they’d usually return the flavor. It’s what you could argue a female form of manipulation that is understood by women. I do something nice for you, and a woman would automatically do it back, that’s between women.Chill I was joking
This was the point I was making yesterday that if you give silent treatment and don't communicate what you want your not gonna get it because we ain't mind readers.
Yeah, I don't tend to tally favour as a man and I'm not inclined to think that my mates do either, this might be an actual gendered thing.
I was talking about it in terms of the getting to know stage. Jav I’m married. I can’t do the distancing treatment. I blow my husbands phone and tell him I how I feel with no care in the world. I have no shame. I live with the man for goodness sake, but you can’t act like that in the getting to know you stage especially when a man is lowkey taking you for granted. Step back and assess and if he continues, clearly he doesn’t care. Also, within a marriage there are times when you do kinda have to step back if you’ve repeatedly told them.
That’s what I mean. I was on TikTok and as she was speaking, it hit me. It’s probably the source of the relationship problems of a lot of women. I’m not talking about bad men, I’m talking about good ones or normal ones who are oblivious. Example, a man would buy you a gift, he’s not doing it thinking he too should get a get a gift after or expecting it. Actually he might want want a fantastic cooked meal ect. But in female friendships, if a friend got me a gift, I automatically get her one next time and I know deep down she expects it.
That's my take on the video I'm basically saying I agree.
Well technically you shouldn't be expecting things in return.
Shut up you pathetic incel
The logic of women is a simple one. Treat people how they treat you. Example, if it’s my friend gets me an Eid Gift, it’s a bit rude of me not to get her one next time. She went out of way to think about me, at the very least I should be able to think about her without having to be told. The thing is women are naturally more thoughtful, I mean most women are future mothers so it’s biological for us to think a lot more about how others feel.
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