Some atheists are disrespectful but it is not disrespecting your religion by quoting directly from it and highlighting what the implication of those citations are such as sex slavery jf. Quran 23: 6, domestic violence jf. Quran 4: 34, women's inferiority jf. Quran 2: 282.
In-fact it is honoring you as rational human that we would like to have this debate with you and come to an understanding of sort even if we disagree, but we also understand that rationally it is impossible to defend many of these concepts.
The best way you shut us down is with a good rational argument, not hiding from difficult dilemmas, questions and debates.