At what age does a man expire?

𝕃𝕠𝕣𝕕 𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕀𝕙

𝕃𝕠𝕣𝕕 𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕀𝕙

38 | Hyderabad, India
Odious Delirium said:
Depends on what that means. Do you ever leave your house or are you out going and soical?

If you don't ever leave the house and you have nothing going for you then it will definitely be a lot harder because then you'll have to resort to doing it online and it's harder to establish an emotional investment on her part because she will probably judge you on your looks since everything is about first impression/looks online. Unless your trying to get an sspot/reddit girl then you have time to get her invested before you do a face reveal.
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Nah man not very social. And I don't do online it's not realistic enough for me

My face reveal will be disappointing aswell
Waa dhamaatay
 
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Ugbaad Geel

THRESH said:
Tell me more about the hargeisa women you are making me curious.
Are they well educated?
Are they waji macbuus or friendly?
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I've not had a lot time to speak to them tbh only met a few, you'll see a lot of nice beautiful light skin xaliimos that wear no make up, on the deen mashaallah. Hardly any girls back home are overweight or even chubby a lot them are slim.

education wise they study back home or go to neighbouring countries for Uni. Now that I think about it idk how many girls go to Uni here or to other African countries most Somali familes would rather fund there sons to go to Uni elsewhere to ethiopia, kenya, rwanda & malaysia etc. But a lot of xalimos are in school till 20-22 if they don't go uni.
 
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Celery

We finally beat Medicare 🎊 πŸŽ‰
80. And if you have lots of money never. But for women it’s 38
 
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Hmohamed54

Odious Delirium said:
I literally made the point that if they have a bad rep then that's them hitting the wall. in our community once a woman has promiscuity or lack of haaya tied to her then she has fully expired I agree with that but majority of somali women in the west are not spending there youth "chilling with Jamaican and cadaan guys" like you put it.

Plus most somali guys in the west are not wealthy by western standards they are mainly average hence why many go back home where an average western guy would be a lot more wealthier.

I'm not saying guys can't go back and marry xalimos from back home but it's the same principle you get better options as a man the more wealth you have and you stay having options as a woman aslong as your rep is good.

Somali women in somalia have to be kept in somalia if you want them to stay by your side since you basically are bribing them with money. There only in there with you because of the money. Plus there vixens and not as innocent as you may think but if you can deal with that and take the positives with the negatives then go for it. Imo western xalimos that are on deen are much better then the average xalimo back home. I have heard plenty of stories about how they really are and western abdis are delusional for romanticising them and putting them on this pedestal.

Somalia is soon gonna rise and this going back home with some savings is a temporary solution.
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you crazy. If you make even $20k a year in the west, your still considered rich in many parts of the world not even including Somalia. If you think Somalia is someday gonna be a rich oil state your crazy in the head. Who in the world can leave their wife and family in another country. If you cant trust her, don't marry her.
 
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Odious Delirium

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Hmohamed54 said:
you crazy. If you make even $20k a year in the west, your still considered rich in many parts of the world not even including Somalia. If you think Somalia is someday gonna be a rich oil state your crazy in the head. Who in the world can leave their wife and family in another country. If you cant trust her, don't marry her.
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I think somali isn't going be a failed state forever how is that crazy?
My point isn't about the somalis back home themselves it's the ignorance and pedastalising of somalis back home as if there any different to xalimos in the west. Plus if your whole objective was to bribe them into marrying you then I don't think you should trust someone you literally bribed to marry you. If you did it normally then that's fine. I'm addressing the delusional thought process of going back home with money and expecting them to actually love you 100% of the time.

I already stated that I would have no problem marrying from the west or from back home.
 
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Hmohamed54

Odious Delirium said:
I think somali isn't going be a failed state forever how is that crazy?
My point isn't about the somalis back home themselves it's the ignorance and pedastalising of somalis back home as if there any different to xalimos in the west. Plus if your whole objective was to bribe them into marrying you then I don't think you should trust someone you literally bribed to marry you. If you did it normally then that's fine. I'm addressing the delusional thought process of going back home with money and expecting them to actually love you 100% of the time.

I already stated that I would have no problem marrying from the west or from back home.
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Aint no girl in the world gonna marry you if you don't got money unless she's young and dumb. No such thing is true true love you gonna have to work and help your spouse raise a family. If you can provide full a decent middle class lifestyle on your own without her ever to worry about money again, whether she from the west or back home, that girl will never let go of you.

Somalia will always be somewhat poor. If you think somehow Somalia is gonna become a wealthy country, your delusional. It never was and never will be.
 
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Odious Delirium

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Hmohamed54 said:
Aint no girl in the world gonna marry you if you don't got money unless she's young and dumb. No such thing is true true love you gonna have to work and help your spouse raise a family. If you can provide full a decent middle class lifestyle on your own without her ever to worry about money again, whether she from the west or back home, that girl will never let go of you.

Somalia will always be somewhat poor. If you think somehow Somalia is gonna become a wealthy country, your delusional. It never was and never will be.
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Yes your making my point that I already made at me. I was arguing against the point of saying that back home xalimos are inherently better. There just easier and we don't know the future of somalia or the world for that matter living in the west itself might not be feasible forever and its not gonna remain that poor forever. So by default the amount of wealth you need will rise and it will become harder.

As for the state of somalia the whole state of wealthy middle eastern countries is a modern phenomenon they literally became rich over night that can happen anywhere at anytime.

Anyways why you so bothered aren't you married these aren't even concerns you need to worry about unless you want to marry multiple women
 
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Ugbaad Geel

Hmohamed54 said:
Aint no girl in the world gonna marry you if you don't got money unless she's young and dumb. No such thing is true true love you gonna have to work and help your spouse raise a family. If you can provide full a decent middle class lifestyle on your own without her ever to worry about money again, whether she from the west or back home, that girl will never let go of you.

Somalia will always be somewhat poor. If you think somehow Somalia is gonna become a wealthy country, your delusional. It never was and never will be.
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edo @Basra said it best "love is a product of doqoniimo and lust".

There's alot of wealthy people here in Somalia, wallahi I know someone not wanting to sell their small plot of land even after a $500k offer.

Mogadishu real estate must be even more popping than Hargesia. The country is poor but there is a massive inequality wealth gap here.
 
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Hmohamed54

Odious Delirium said:
Yes your making my point that I already made at me. I was arguing against the point of saying that back home xalimos are inherently better. There just easier and we don't know the future of somalia or the world for that matter living in the west itself might not be feasible forever and its not gonna remain that poor forever. So by default the amount of wealth you need will rise and it will become harder.

As for the state of somalia the whole state of wealthy middle eastern countries is a modern phenomenon they literally became rich over night that can happen anywhere at anytime.

Anyways why you so bothered aren't you married these aren't even concerns you need to worry about unless you want to marry multiple women
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Majority Middle East citizens are poor asf, including the saudi. Don’t let social media fool you. If Somalia one day does a miracle then wake me up from that dream.

As for marriage. It will always be easier for somali men to get married back home.
 
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Hmohamed54

Ugbaad Geel said:
edo @Basra said it best "love is a product of doqoniimo and lust".

There's alot of wealthy people here in Somalia, wallahi I know someone not wanting to sell their small plot of land even after a $500k offer.

Mogadishu real estate must be even more popping than Hargesia. The country is poor but there is a massive inequality wealth gap here.
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Yeah a massive gap. If you walk around enough you’ll see kid’s selling bread and water bottles on the streets. It’ll always be poor but not this bad inshallah.

I remember i was in turkey and the amount of kids that will jump on you and beg for money and candy is crazy. Happened to me many times.
 
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Kalsoon

I don’t believe in saying people are expired for reaching a certain age or life stage. Unless they have been pronounced deceased. I find it to be dehumanizing. Even though it’s tempting to say somethings just as men do, it wouldn’t be right. I’m not that heartless.

Different people value different things when it comes to mate selection. It’s a matter of preference.
 
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