She may not potentially care well at the moment anyways but her parents will only be willing to let her go if you have some sort of ambition. it doesn't matter how much you make when I say Broke I mean not being able to make enough to provided for her.
Damn that's hard. Yes I sm broke can't even provide for myself
In the long run she'll just divorce after all most relationships collapse because of financial issues.

Really? I live in my own little bubble I never noticed. Are they all poor?
 
Damn that's hard. Yes I sm broke can't even provide for myself


Really? I live in my own little bubble I never noticed. Are they all poor?


You can get married anytime sxb, the girls back home are better looking than the ones in the west, they don't cake themselves up everyday its just pure natural beauty.

your wife in the west is going to be a housewife anyway for the better part of 10 years once you have your second child whether you're a 50/50 man or not doesn't matter.
 
Damn that's hard. Yes I sm broke can't even provide for myself


Really? I live in my own little bubble I never noticed. Are they all poor?
Men are born at the wall or expired and add value to there lives to get better chances. some are born with better odds then others and many can coast on different qualities like how attractive they are or how much money they got or even piety.

women eventually hit it but it differs from woman to woman. A lot of guy cope with this wall apparently being at women's 30s as If they suddenly transform into crackling witches after they reach there 30th birthday πŸ’€

Women only hit this supposed wall because of the choices they make a non promiscuous woman won't really hit the wall until she starts to look like a grandma and that can be anywhere from there 40s to there 60s+

Most women hit the wall because they have messed themselves up mentally by being promiscuous and no one want to take them seriously not because they hit the "wall" when a woman gets a negative rep is when she hits the wall.

Aslong as your not hideous and below a 3 in terms of looks you should be fine.
 
You can get married anytime sxb, the girls back home are better looking than the ones in the west, they don't cake themselves up everyday its just pure natural beauty.

your wife in the west is going to be a housewife anyway for the better part of 10 years once you have your second child whether you're a 50/50 man or not doesn't matter.

I have no preference amongst xaliimos, wether westerner or from somalia

50/50 is not even in the conversation between me and a woman. If she brings that up I'm walking out immediately
 
Men are born at the wall or expired and add value to there lives to get better chances. some are born with better odds then others and many can coast on different qualities like how attractive they are or how much money they got or even piety.

women eventually hit it but it differs from woman to woman. A lot of guy cope with this wall apparently being at women's 30s as If they suddenly transform into crackling witches after they reach there 30th birthday πŸ’€

Women only hit this supposed wall because of the choices they make a non promiscuous woman won't really hit the wall until she starts to look like a grandma and that can be anywhere from there 40s to there 60s+

Most women hit the wall because they have messed themselves up mentally by being promiscuous and no one want to take them seriously not because they hit the "wall" when a woman gets a negative rep is when she hits the wall.

Aslong as your not hideous and below a 3 in terms of looks you should be fine.

Sadly I think I'm a 2/10 so my chances are 0

Life socks man. I should probably continue living my jobless life
 
Sadly I think I'm a 2/10 so my chances are 0

Life socks man. I should probably continue living my jobless life
I doubt it but if you are a 2 then work on socialising/improving your body and health in general by working out and stuff like that and work on getting money. Most girls will fold if your a nice well mannered guy and got money. You need to get a woman emotionally invested in you and you'll have her.

Just learn how to talk to/treat a woman and you'll still be fine.
 
I doubt it but if you are a 2 then work on socialising/improving your body and health in general by working out and stuff like that and work on getting money. Most girls will fold if your a nice well mannered guy and got money. You need to get a woman emotionally invested in you and you'll have her.

Just learn how to talk to/treat a woman and you'll still be fine.

I look like that guy from lord of the rings
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Well if I do follow your advice and somehow manage to get a girl how do I keep her?
Won't she leave me once she realizes I am a boring individual?
 
bro as long as you got qualifications you're calm and if you do you can expand your skill set with online courses/paid certified qualifications then onto entry level jobs and progress from there, its no big deal bro.


And wallahi i'm not kidding when I said the girls back home are beautiful. I remember working at amazon over the summer back when I was a student. There must have been 30 somali girls working there but only 2-3 were attractive. I'm here in Hargesia and it feels like every 10 seconds I see an attractive xalimo. Next year I'm going down south to mogadishu maybe sooner lol.
 
bro as long as you got qualifications you're calm and if you do you can expand your skill set with online courses/paid certified qualifications then onto entry level jobs and progress from there, its no big deal bro.


And wallahi i'm not kidding when I said the girl back home are beautiful. I remember working at amazon over the summer back when I was a student. There must have been 30 somali girls working there but only 2-3 were attractive. I'm here in Hargesia and it feels like every 10 seconds I see an attractive xalimo. Next year I'm going down south to mogadishu maybe sooner lol.

Tell me more about the hargeisa women you are making me curious.
Are they well educated?
Are they waji macbuus or friendly?
 
I look like that guy from lord of the rings
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Well if I do follow your advice and somehow manage to get a girl how do I keep her?
Won't she leave me once she realizes I am a boring individual?
Well that's the whole point of working on yourself. develop a personality and learn to love yourself and focus on yourself/ambitions/hobbies etc then go shukansi women for marriage.

I was abroad travelling in Europe this summer and was meeting my relatives in different countries so I would stay over at there house anyways some of my cousins great guys but in terms of looks where 2 and where broke and still had halimos in there dms. These guys where just going off confidence/personality and charisma alone.

As an abdi it's almost impossible to fail
 
Well that's part of the working on yourself. develop a personality and learn to love yourself and focus on yourself/ambitions/hobbies etc then go shukansi women for marriage.

I was abroad travelling in Europe and was meeting my relatives in different countries so I would stay over at there house anyways fiest time meeting some of my cousins great guys but some of them in terms of looks where 2 and where broke and still had halimos in there dms. These guys where just going off confidence/personality and charisma alone.

As an abdi it's almost impossible to fail
Too much work I prefer my simple life
There are many xaliimos pretty sure someone will settle for me
 
Too much work I prefer my simple life
There are many xaliimos pretty sure someone will settle for me
Depends on what that means. Do you ever leave your house or are you out going and soical?

If you don't ever leave the house and you have nothing going for you then it will definitely be a lot harder because then you'll have to resort to doing it online and it's harder to establish an emotional investment on her part because she will probably judge you on your looks since everything is about first impression/looks online. Unless your trying to get an sspot/reddit girl then you have time to get her invested before you do a face reveal.
 

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