Are you willing to send money to your father, his 2nd wife, and her kids in Somalia?
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Of course he must pay back for uni and I will help him but he gotta do the most tho. to be fair he wouldn’t even need me to pay for the uni debt once he finds a good job.
are you sure? women are vicious when they dislike someone
I would’ve agreed on my sisters and cousins but my hooyo is too miskeen wallahi. One time I accidentally raised my voice I started seeing tears and it was one of the worst moments of my life
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loooooooool!
Me saying no, is actually helping him in the long run. He’ll be forced to do HIS job. When he does that, he won’t have to bare any sins. But if he doesn’t do his job AND puts me in a bad spot and now I’m providing for some niggas that ain’t mine, then he’s carry double sins.
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I knowYeah and he should fulfill his duty unless he wants to be crippled on the day of judgment. I didn’t tell you to have a second family.
They really do be thinking that. Some of the people over there don't even want to work, once they get a stable income being sent from the westIf my father asks then yeah but I am not providing for a woman and her children.. who told her to marry a broke man who is asking for money from his own children in the west to support her and the children??? People back home think we live like a billionaire with gold everywhere and shitThe time they realise you are financially stable it's over for you, they'll be calling you to send them a Range Rover
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Your mother is too miskeen. I would have whooped your ass with a hangerOf course he must pay back for uni and I will help him but he gotta do the most tho. to be fair he wouldn’t even need me to pay for the uni debt once he finds a good job.
He’s misinterperting the hadith. The money belongs to the child but he has financial responsibility over the parents. The parents doesn’t own the money. If your parent is poor and you a rich then you are obligated to spend on them. If the parent tries to take something necessary from the child like his house or car, then he absolutely can’t. Children are obligated to take care of their parents if the parents can’t take care of themselves. That doesn’t mean they own your checkbook.
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Exactly looool, I don't understand what goes on in their headI know
They really do be thinking that. Some of the people over there don't even want to work, once they get a stable income being sent from the west
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Daleel? I’ve never heard about a persons money belonging to their parents. Yes, you’re meant to give them money if they ask.
No, no you don’t. Its your needs first, but that’s just needs. For example, you buy a car because you need it for transportation. But your dad doesn’t have a car and he needs it too. It’s your car, not your dads. But if you have the money to get your dad a car too, then you should. Your parents needs aren’t placed above yours but really 99% of us will do everything we can to take care of our parents.
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That’s a misinterpreted Hadith.
One of the things which indicate that it does not mean possession is the fact that the son’s children, wife and mother can inherit from him. If his wealth were the property of his father, no one would be able to take his property except the father.
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Because it was not proven. When Allaah decreed that a father could inherit from his son, He made him (the father) like other heirs. He may even have a smaller share than many other heirs, which proves that the son is the owner of his own wealth, not the father.
That’s a misinterpreted Hadith.
One of the things which indicate that it does not mean possession is the fact that the son’s children, wife and mother can inherit from him. If his wealth were the property of his father, no one would be able to take his property except the father.
Al-Shaafa'i said:
Because it was not proven. When Allaah decreed that a father could inherit from his son, He made him (the father) like other heirs. He may even have a smaller share than many other heirs, which proves that the son is the owner of his own wealth, not the father.
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Really depends, if they really need it then yes of course, those kids are my siblings, but I’d be annoyed. Why marry if you’re struggling and need your kids to fund their step mother? You’re putting your kids in a difficult position because we have to look after our own mother, the father and now an additional individual who has no rights on us. Also, it will just cause resentment from your own mother. Even if she’s accepted that marriage, it will leave a bitter taste in any woman’s mouth as to how irresponsible their husband is, along with any jealousy they’re battling. I mean come on, polygamous marriages would be so much easier if men were able to look after all the wives and kids involved. I doubt it would even be a controversial topic, if Somalis did it that way.
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How did I misrepresented the hadith in the context of the question presented and the answer I gave
The dad is back in somalia asking for money. what does claiming houses and bankruptcy got anything to do with anything I said???
I'm talking in the context of a sum of money he's asking for to be sent to him
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Either way, it’s a misinterpreted Hadith supposedly and I knew of the bat it didn’t make sense because as a person, you’re wife, mother, kids ect inherit. Your father doesn’t have a monopoly on your wealth whatsoever.How did I misrepresented the hadith in the context of the question presented and the answer I gave
The dad is back in somalia asking for money. what does claiming houses and bankruptcy got anything to do with anything I said???
I'm talking in the context of a sum of money he's asking for to be sent to him
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