Are you in touch with your exes?

[Shamis]

I've only had one ex and we're good friends despite divorcing. Unlike other Somali dads he keeps the kids half the time at his house and buys me flowers and chocolates every now and again. It was my idea to divorce and sometimes I wonder if I did I the right thing. Right now I'm coming across so many saqajaans who just want to sleep me when I was married to a gentleman and it makes me wonder if it was worth it.

 

[Jodeci]

I've only had one ex and we're good friends despite divorcing. Unlike other Somali dads he keeps the kids half the time at his house and buys me flowers and chocolates every now and again. It was my idea to divorce and sometimes I wonder if I did I the right thing. Right now I'm coming across so many saqajaans who just want to sleep me when I was married to a gentleman and it makes me wonder if it was worth it.

You made the right choice for you and your kids if you felt it was best

 

[Merca]

Remember that an ex is an ex for a reason. I think you should just follow your heart and go for what seems right for you and your children.

 

[Shamis]

Thanks guys. Our relationship is better now than when we were married so that says a lot.

 

[World]

Why not get remarried ?

 

[Gambar]

Thanks guys. Our relationship is better now than when we were married so that says a lot.

Then you guys are better off.

 

[supz]

Nah. Seemed like you had a more "serious serious" relationship. I act like I don't know my ex if i see her.

 

[The Cushitic One]

No no no

@Shamis why do you have Male as your gender?

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

No. Theres a reason why he's my ex.

 

[VixR]

Short answer: Yes.

 

[supz]

@Shamis its really weird for a guy to give an ex flowers and chocolates. He probably has oneitis poor lad.

 

[Shamis]

@Shamis its really weird for a guy to give an ex flowers and chocolates. He probably has oneitis poor lad.

What's oneitis? We have 3 kids together so he respects me because that and we were together for a long time. I told him it's time he started looking for someone new.

 

[xisaabiye]

I've only had one ex and we're good friends despite divorcing. Unlike other Somali dads he keeps the kids half the time at his house and buys me flowers and chocolates every now and again. It was my idea to divorce and sometimes I wonder if I did I the right thing. Right now I'm coming across so many saqajaans who just want to sleep me when I was married to a gentleman and it makes me wonder if it was worth it.

Flowers & chocolate is really weird post divorce, that dudes a unicorn

 

[lone]

Ghosted my ex the second I left h.s
Blocked everything

 

[Shamis]

Why not get remarried ?

I'm trying but I only come across arseholes who only want to sleep with me. They think all divorcees want rebound sex.

 

[Shamis]

Flowers & chocolate is really weird post divorce, that dudes a unicorn

I buy him things too, I even helped him decorate his flat. We still love each other but now as friends and coparents.

 

[Jodeci]

I'm trying but I only come across arseholes who only want to sleep with me. They think all divorcees want rebound sex.

because some men think divorcee women have low self worth and value, women should never fall prey to that.

 

[anonimo]

Is this for real? I thought you said you were happily married in another thread? Which Shamis did you decide to become when you logged on this time?

Acudhka, this takes trolling to another level. I should know.

 

[Shamis]

because some men think divorcee women have low self worth and value, women should never fall prey to that.

Yeah the latest one was a guy who didn't even go out with once before he asked to sleep with me. He said let's go to a shiisha cafe and I said I don't do shiisha but I'll drink coffee. Then he says what are we doing after shiisha and said we'll say our goodbyes. Then he said aren't you going to invite me over to your house? I was disgusted to say the least.

 

[Shamis]

Is this for real? I thought you said you were happily married in another thread? Which Shamis did you decide to become when you logged on this time?

Acudhka, this takes trolling to another level. I should know.

I was happily married when I first joined but not since I came from hiatus.