Are we bound to marry ajnabis?

[Desert Flower]

I don't mind if people marry out. That's perfectly fine. What i don't like seeing is people who ran away from their people get together with ajnabis that are lower than them in most departments. Like if they stayed in the community they wouldn't want to settle with someone who they think is lower than them, but when it comes to ajnabis. That goes out the window. Basically, i hate self-hating freaks.

I believe it was @Mozart who said something along the lines of how Somalis that marry out often marry those who aren't amazing (i.e. the "bums" of other ethnicities). It stems from a naïveté on how relationships work. It takes time, patience and financial security for a relationship to be smooth. I'm not sure why so many Somali women accept the bare minimum. Why are they so hard-headed? Why do they lack self-preservation? If you choose to marry out, at least marry someone who is upstanding and will be an asset to your life.

 

[Saredo]

#Abdiexit

We all know that you’re the leader of this movement

 

[Juke]

We all know that you’re the leader of this movement

Mon cherie waxan qaba saddex boos at the moment

Just let me know

 

[greyhound stone]

We all know that you’re the leader of this movement

Its amazing what the problem

 

[Geeljire lotus]

I think a segment of Somalis will remain in the west. There will always be a pocket of those that don't mix who wish to establish themselves and refuse assimilation. I tend to like the Somali aesthetic and believe its hard to acquire outside of Horner groups. I want my children to be proud enough in themselves and give something back to their motherland as members of the 3rd generation I'A. Its easier being a mono-ethnic individual. Zero questions about your origins, less identity confusion and not forced to choose a side or have your loyalties regularly questioned. Once you mix there is rarely a marrying back into your Somali ethnic group (especially for those identifying more with the non-Somali parent) so I don't see it as a net benefit for me or my blood relatives. No hate if you think otherwise.

Well said

 

[Juliet]

It’s interesting wallahi what Somalis will look like in the future. The men marry out to Arabs and whites the females marry out to blacks.

Ewwww hell no

 

[Destiny]

I think a lot of us will marry ajnabis or our kids will. It’s bound to happen. I’m open to it because I’ve always liked nonSomali men. Somali men not as much since I didn’t grow up around them.

 

[Juliet]

Warya the game was laid out by my forefathers. You're disrespecting the culture. My children have the prerogative of being Somali. I don't want to hear about genetics. Being Somali is about name, not genetic.

Paternal lineage meant clans, not assimilating complete ajnabis. Our ancestors weren’t expecting half beckys, ling lings, shaniquas or rosalinas to claim them. Stop trying to bend the rules whether its from a somali man or woman, 50% doesn't cut it

 

[cawaale]

From all the girls I’ve dated, 2 were xabashi, 1 nigerian, and 1 somali. The Somali one lasted the shortest. She was unemployed and kept calling me every day to meet up so I ended it. I would most likely marry a xalimo but if I settled for an ajnabi it would likely be a lightskinned xabashi.

 

[libaac]

From all the girls I’ve dated, 2 were xabashi, 1 nigerian, and 1 somali. The Somali one lasted the shortest. She was unemployed and kept calling me every day to meet up so I ended it. I would most likely marry a xalimo but if I settled for an ajanabi it would most likely be a lightskinned xabashi.

you wanna disrespect our ancestors with a 5'7 raw meat eating xabashi son

 

[SOMALI GENERAL]

Warya the game was laid out by my forefathers. You're disrespecting the culture. My children have the prerogative of being Somali. I don't want to hear about genetics. Being Somali is about name, not genetic.

God bless the Patriarchy.

 

[cawaale]

you wanna disrespect our ancestors with a 5'7 raw meat eating xabashi son

One of them was a xabashi with Israeli citizenship. I would’ve had a 5’7 raw meat eating xabashi jewish son.

 

[Hali]

We are forced to marry each other because there are no long term benefits to marrying out.

 

[Destiny]

Unfortunately what you’re saying is true. And both sides are to be blame. But since in our culture the offspring takes the father’s qabil, I suggest we exile all of the Halimos to their Ajnabi partners countries so we populate with our Ajnabi girls. Who’s not with me?

Yeah right, like we’d let you keep us out. Our mixed kids will come over and they’ll start a new clan, and you lamagoodles won’t do shit about it. 20 years from now you’ll see half Koreans owning shops in Mogadishu.

 

[libaac]

One of them was a xabashi with Israeli citizenship. I would’ve had a 5’7 raw meat eating xabashi jewish son.

that wouldve instantly revoked your somalinimo if you had a kid with her. i didnt think it could get worse laakin it was a raw meat eating jew

 

[greyhound stone]

that wouldve instantly revoked your somalinimo if you had a kid with her. i didnt think it could get worse laakin it was a raw meat eating jew

Habashis are 2nd cousins what the problem

 

[greyhound stone]

Paternal lineage meant clans, not assimilating complete ajnabis. Our ancestors weren’t expecting half beckys, ling lings, shaniquas or rosalinas to claim them. Stop trying to bend the rules whether its from a somali man or woman, 50% doesn't cut it

We will have somali kids no matter if Becky or shanquias gave birth to them as they would have our lineage

 

[cawaale]

Habashis are 2nd cousins what the problem

He’s a gen z teenager that only knows memes. He doesn’t realise how elite ehtiopian food is, when it’s cooked.

 

[greyhound stone]

Yeah right, like we’d let you keep us out. Our mixed kids will come over and they’ll start a new clan, and you lamagoodles won’t do shit about it. 20 years from now you’ll see half Koreans owning shops in Mogadishu.

Hell no they can't come somalia lineage passports will be needed for entry when I become president. If u don't belong to an existing clan you can't enter. I will be the greatest leader in somali history our country will become heaven for our kids. Halimos half breeds will be deported

 

[greyhound stone]

He’s a gen z teenager that only knows memes. He doesn’t realise how elite ehtiopian food is, when it’s cooked.

Alhamdulilah