Are there actually a lot of Somali households without fathers?

Discussion in 'General' started by babooshke, Feb 14, 2020.

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  1. P4$t0

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    Same.:francis:

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  2. Glizzo da Goat

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    Sadly, yes bro that means we’re reer you know what:mjcry:
     
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  3. Desert Flower

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    You are an extremely emotional poster if a qashin has you in your feelings. It’s not a false narrative but one based in reality. You are being willfully ignorant and you know it.

    Once again, who said that Somali girls hate their fathers? I, nor anyone else did not say that. You are projecting. Either come with facts, or stfu because you sound stupid.
     
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  4. Glizzo da Goat

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    How am I emotional? It’s true that most Somali fathers are great men with morals who also raise their kids to be good muslims and productive members of society, If you deny that then your extremely delusional.

    I’m not projecting shit, have you ever seen a Somali boy complaining about his parents online for sympathy points from ajnabis? We all know who does shit like that. Everything I said was factual, stop tarnishing Somali fathers because of a few, like I said we don’t have the ‘Tyrone Syndrome’
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  6. Desert Flower

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    We can agree to disagree. You’re basing things on anecdotal evidence while mine is based on facts. Fact is most dads are not in the home. And if they are, they are emotionally absent, or are additional burdens to the household. The Somali community is messed up because people like you choose to ignore the realities of what’s wrong, and sweep things under the rug.

    But it’s okay, I’ll let you have a go at your fantasy.
     
  7. Glizzo da Goat

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    Abaayo you saying ‘most Somali fathers aren’t in the home and if they are, they’re emotionally absent or are additional burdens on the household”- takes all legitimacy from your argument. Look at the poll mind you me and @P4$t0 voted no on accident as well, literally proves your claim to be false.

    The simple truth is that most Somali fathers are doing their job, your using a minority to judge a majority, that’s flawed from a logical stand point.
     
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  8. Dibleyy

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    It’s a fathers job to discipline his children you jackass, Somali moms can’t control young boys, and if they decide to join gangs and get raped in prison that’s not Somali women’s fault. Somali moms are out here working jobs and taking care of the house while the older fathers (not this generation alhamdulilah) is inside the house chewing khat. Y’all really try and blame Somali women for everything huh?
     
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  9. Factz

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    Why are you insulting me? I was speaking from all angels. Do you have reading comprehension?

    When did I ever say it's the Somali mother's fault? I'm explaining what's going on with the community including the mothers. I've addressed the deadbeat fathers but I'm also addressing other problems I know that exist in our community. By the way, the older generation mothers don't work, they leech off from the welfare system.

    There are Somali mothers that don't allow their fathers to see their kids so how can he discipline them? I've seen many cases. You're just immature and assuming I'm gender bashing when I'm equally mentioning everything that's going on within the diaspora community. It seems like what you guys want to do is blame it all on the father and paint Somali mothers as innocents. You know that is pure dishonesty, right?

    Fyi, Somali guys don't get raped in prison. They run it.
     
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  10. Factz

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    Plus, no one can really blame these Somali parents. They were escaping from the civil war and came as refugees. They lost all their wealth, property and privilege from back home. You don't know what they've been through. It's hard to fit in a nation you hardly grew up in.

    The new generation of Somali parents are much more better. They fit in the society, they're educated and hard working. Look at the first-generation Asians and first-generation Africans. They were far worse than Somalis but their descendants adapted to their host country and improved their income.
     
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  11. darkarabian56

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    Same.. and my dad isn't somali at all so this doesn't apply to me, but the somali dads i seen always take care of their kids unlike bantu jaquantavious.
     
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    Walaal do you want to know why i dislike your post????
     
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  13. Mad

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    I like your persona on this site @Factz :chrisfreshhah: you don't speak factz but bullshit
     
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  14. Factz

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    No, you're upset everyone qashinning you. Stop being emotional and mentioning my name couple of times. You couldn't even reply properly. You have issues kid, go do something better with your life instead of acting like a total weirdo.
     
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    i am the weirdo and yet you are the guy with 9,000 post, the same guy who takes delight in the fact that you somehow(Incorrectly) considered to be the guy with all the answers on this site. Akhi the reason why i didn't reply to your bullshit post was because it is so stupid and fucking retarded that there is no need. Thirdly that fact you consider metrics such as qashin and likes to some how being of being a measurement of some significance, once again highlighting your stupidity.
     
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  16. Factz

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    No, you're just mad because I qashinned you. That is why you're acting like this and yes, it makes you a weirdo. I don't even understand what's your problem? Right now, you look like the fool, not me.

    Everything you said was baseless. Just emotional rants. You couldn't share your opinions to counter me instead insulted me. If anything, it shows how ignorant you are. You're also intellectually dishonest because my post never directly stated rates proves whether you're right or wrong. I only said that because that is what you're upset about.

    I'm done replying to your dumbass. Go troll somewhere else kid and learn not to get emotional over a qashin.
     
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  17. Toriye

    Toriye Sheekhagu waa kuma?

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    All my friends growing up had a father
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  18. Basra

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    My baby daddy is a truck driver. So yeah, my welfare papers say I am single mother
     
  19. Yasssmin.x

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    Parents are divorced. Dad still there thou.
     
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