Are there actually a lot of Somali households without fathers?

[P4$t0]

I picked no on the poll on accident, I thought the thread title was the question.

Same.

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[Glizzo da Goat]

Same.

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Sadly, yes bro that means we’re reer you know what

 

[Desert Flower]

Anyone who qashins my post is doing it because it hits close to home. The majority of Somali households are not single parent households no matter how hard you try to paint that false narrative. ‘A lot’ and most are completely different. Somali girls hate their fathers because they don’t let them run wild. You can’t deny *most* Somali fathers are in their kid’s lives and raising them correctly.

You are an extremely emotional poster if a qashin has you in your feelings. It’s not a false narrative but one based in reality. You are being willfully ignorant and you know it.

Once again, who said that Somali girls hate their fathers? I, nor anyone else did not say that. You are projecting. Either come with facts, or stfu because you sound stupid.

 

[Glizzo da Goat]

You are an extremely emotional poster if a qashin has you in your feelings. It’s not a false narrative but one based in reality. You are being willfully ignorant and you know it.

Once again, who said that Somali girls hate their fathers? I, nor anyone else did not say that. You are projecting. Either come with facts, or stfu because you sound stupid.

How am I emotional? It’s true that most Somali fathers are great men with morals who also raise their kids to be good muslims and productive members of society, If you deny that then your extremely delusional.

I’m not projecting shit, have you ever seen a Somali boy complaining about his parents online for sympathy points from ajnabis? We all know who does shit like that. Everything I said was factual, stop tarnishing Somali fathers because of a few, like I said we don’t have the ‘Tyrone Syndrome’

 

[Saredo]

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[Desert Flower]

How am I emotional? It’s true that most Somali fathers are great men with morals who also raise their kids to be good muslims and productive members of society, If you deny that then your extremely delusional.

I’m not projecting shit, have you ever seen a Somali boy complaining about his parents online for sympathy points from ajnabis? We all know who does shit like that. Everything I said was factual, stop tarnishing Somali fathers because of a few, like I said we don’t have the ‘Tyrone Syndrome’

We can agree to disagree. You’re basing things on anecdotal evidence while mine is based on facts. Fact is most dads are not in the home. And if they are, they are emotionally absent, or are additional burdens to the household. The Somali community is messed up because people like you choose to ignore the realities of what’s wrong, and sweep things under the rug.

But it’s okay, I’ll let you have a go at your fantasy.

 

[Glizzo da Goat]

We can agree to disagree. You’re basing things on anecdotal evidence while mine is based on facts. Fact is most dads are not in the home. And if they are, they are emotionally absent, or are additional burdens to the household. The Somali community is messed up because people like you choose to ignore the realities of what’s wrong, and sweep things under the rug.

But it’s okay, I’ll let you have a go at your fantasy.

Abaayo you saying ‘most Somali fathers aren’t in the home and if they are, they’re emotionally absent or are additional burdens on the household”- takes all legitimacy from your argument. Look at the poll mind you me and @P4$t0 voted no on accident as well, literally proves your claim to be false.

The simple truth is that most Somali fathers are doing their job, your using a minority to judge a majority, that’s flawed from a logical stand point.

 

[Dibleyy]

Somalis are not suffering the same issues as the black community. Their father is always present at home but the underlining problem is some of the diaspora community suffer from deadbeat fathers who are emotionally absent and have secret second and third wives in other households. I said, "some" meaning there are many good Somali fathers in the west that exist like mine who was always there for me.

However, there are also bad Somali mothers that leech of the welfare system and don't know what their kids up to leaving their kids to do anything they want. The sons become gang bangers and their daughters become dh*los and party at night clubs.

It’s a fathers job to discipline his children you jackass, Somali moms can’t control young boys, and if they decide to join gangs and get raped in prison that’s not Somali women’s fault. Somali moms are out here working jobs and taking care of the house while the older fathers (not this generation alhamdulilah) is inside the house chewing khat. Y’all really try and blame Somali women for everything huh?

 

[Factz]

It’s a fathers job to discipline his children you jackass, Somali moms can’t control young boys, and if they decide to join gangs and get raped in prison that’s not Somali women’s fault. Somali moms are out here working jobs and taking care of the house while the older fathers (not this generation alhamdulilah) is inside the house chewing khat. Y’all really try and blame Somali women for everything huh?

Why are you insulting me? I was speaking from all angels. Do you have reading comprehension?

When did I ever say it's the Somali mother's fault? I'm explaining what's going on with the community including the mothers. I've addressed the deadbeat fathers but I'm also addressing other problems I know that exist in our community. By the way, the older generation mothers don't work, they leech off from the welfare system.

There are Somali mothers that don't allow their fathers to see their kids so how can he discipline them? I've seen many cases. You're just immature and assuming I'm gender bashing when I'm equally mentioning everything that's going on within the diaspora community. It seems like what you guys want to do is blame it all on the father and paint Somali mothers as innocents. You know that is pure dishonesty, right?

Fyi, Somali guys don't get raped in prison. They run it.

 

[Factz]

Plus, no one can really blame these Somali parents. They were escaping from the civil war and came as refugees. They lost all their wealth, property and privilege from back home. You don't know what they've been through. It's hard to fit in a nation you hardly grew up in.

The new generation of Somali parents are much more better. They fit in the society, they're educated and hard working. Look at the first-generation Asians and first-generation Africans. They were far worse than Somalis but their descendants adapted to their host country and improved their income.

 

[darkarabian56]

I picked no on the poll on accident, I thought the thread title was the question.

Same.. and my dad isn't somali at all so this doesn't apply to me, but the somali dads i seen always take care of their kids unlike bantu jaquantavious.

 

[Madd]

Somalis are not suffering the same issues as the black community. Their father is always present at home but the underlining problem is some of the diaspora community suffer from deadbeat fathers who are emotionally absent and have secret second and third wives in other households. I said, "some" meaning there are many good Somali fathers in the west that exist like mine who was always there for me.

However, there are also bad Somali mothers that leech of the welfare system and don't know what their kids up to leaving their kids to do anything they want. The sons become gang bangers and their daughters become dh*los and party at night clubs.

Walaal do you want to know why i dislike your post????

 

[Madd]

I like your persona on this site @Factz you don't speak factz but bullshit

 

[Factz]

I like your persona on this site @Factz you don't speak factz but bullshit

No, you're upset everyone qashinning you. Stop being emotional and mentioning my name couple of times. You couldn't even reply properly. You have issues kid, go do something better with your life instead of acting like a total weirdo.

 

[Madd]

No, you're upset everyone qashinning you. Stop being emotional and mentioning my name couple of times. You couldn't even reply properly. You have issues kid, go do something better with your life instead of acting like a weirdo.

i am the weirdo and yet you are the guy with 9,000 post, the same guy who takes delight in the fact that you somehow(Incorrectly) considered to be the guy with all the answers on this site. Akhi the reason why i didn't reply to your bullshit post was because it is so stupid and fucking retarded that there is no need. Thirdly that fact you consider metrics such as qashin and likes to some how being of being a measurement of some significance, once again highlighting your stupidity.

 

[Factz]

i am the weirdo and yet you are the guy with 9,000 post, the same guy who takes delight in the fact that you somehow(Incorrectly) considered to be the guy with all the answers on this site. Akhi the reason why i didn't reply to your bullshit post was because it is so stupid and fucking retarded that there is no need. Thirdly that fact you consider metrics such as qashin and likes to some how being of being a measurement of some significance, once again highlighting your stupidity.

No, you're just mad because I qashinned you. That is why you're acting like this and yes, it makes you a weirdo. I don't even understand what's your problem? Right now, you look like the fool, not me.

Everything you said was baseless. Just emotional rants. You couldn't share your opinions to counter me instead insulted me. If anything, it shows how ignorant you are. You're also intellectually dishonest because my post never directly stated rates proves whether you're right or wrong. I only said that because that is what you're upset about.

I'm done replying to your dumbass. Go troll somewhere else kid and learn not to get emotional over a qashin.

 

[Toriye]

All my friends growing up had a father

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[Basra]

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My baby daddy is a truck driver. So yeah, my welfare papers say I am single mother

 

[Yasssmin.x]

Parents are divorced. Dad still there thou.