Are parents to blame

Depends.
Allah guides whom He wills.
If the parents did their best and the kids still went astray, it isn't their fault.
But if the parents were negligent and didn't do their part, then you can blame them. Parenting is hard and thankless so you gotta have compassion.
 
If their children become non muslim or drug addicts /alcoholics?
You need to be held accountable for you actions at a certain point of time. You can't blame your parents for the way they raised you, forgive your parents for poor treatment and move forward. Being a victim is what society wants people to be, don't be a victim and take full responsibility for your actions. Change is possible but it takes time, remember Allah is all forgiving and there is still hope.
 

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I am a big believer in not pushing kids but leading them by example and they will follow :)
 
I'm officially VIPK for all you VIP niggas. You guys are the opposition, wasting my time and not even responding. Anyone want to join my gang?
 

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