Are parents to blame

[SOULSEARCHING]

If their children become non muslim or drug addicts /alcoholics?

 

[Qali]

Yes. To an extent.

 

[Desert Flower]

Depends.
Allah guides whom He wills.
If the parents did their best and the kids still went astray, it isn't their fault.
But if the parents were negligent and didn't do their part, then you can blame them. Parenting is hard and thankless so you gotta have compassion.

 

[NotoriousBIG]

If their children become non muslim or drug addicts /alcoholics?

You need to be held accountable for you actions at a certain point of time. You can't blame your parents for the way they raised you, forgive your parents for poor treatment and move forward. Being a victim is what society wants people to be, don't be a victim and take full responsibility for your actions. Change is possible but it takes time, remember Allah is all forgiving and there is still hope.

 

[Marcus]

No and Yes.

You can't control how your children develop but you have significant influence over it.

 

[Jiron]

I am a big believer in not pushing kids but leading them by example and they will follow

 

[NotoriousBIG]

Yes. To an extent.

Brother there comes a certain point in life, where you can't blame your parents, they did the best with what they had at that moment.

 

[Octavian]

a mix of both
but people are at the end of the day responsible for their own actions

 

[NotoriousBIG]

If their children become non muslim or drug addicts /alcoholics?

I personally know some people who were abused and neglected by their parents. Not all people should have kids, if you let the streets raise your kid expect an early demise.

 

[Octavian]

I personally know some people who were abused and neglected by their parents. Not all people should have kids, if you let the streets raise your kid expect an early demise.

correct

 

[NotoriousBIG]

I hate them VIP niggas they never respond back, they think they are bigdawgs lol.

 

[Octavian]

I hate them VIP niggas they never respond back, they think they are bigdawgs lol.

how does one become vip thoo

 

[NotoriousBIG]

how does one become vip thoo

Sell your soul, get enough likes.

 

[Octavian]

Sell your soul, get enough likes.

whats the amount

 

[NotoriousBIG]

whats the amount

I really don't know, the VIP people are a part of a secret society.

 

[Octavian]

I really don't know, the VIP people are a part of a secret society.

we must take down the bougie niggas

 

[Octavian]

viva revolution

 

[NotoriousBIG]

I'm officially VIPK for all you VIP niggas. You guys are the opposition, wasting my time and not even responding. Anyone want to join my gang?

 

[NotoriousBIG]

viva revolution

them vip niggas act like they are hot shit.

 

[Octavian]

them vip niggas act like they are hot shit.

we should take it from them