Are Mind Games Necessary during Courtship/Dating?

[Hodan from HR]

I get it. You shouldn't be dumb and open your heart to everyone. It is okay to have standards but games???!

Replying back to all my texts at intervals of 55 minutes Yes, I counted


Fuad, we both know you are lonely and have no woman to talk to!

 

[Saredo]

I get it. You shouldn't be dumb and open your heart to everyone. It is okay to have standards but games???!
Replying back to all my texts in intervals of 55 minutes. Yes, I counted


Fuad, we both know you are lonely and have no woman to talk to!

Lol you counted ? You really like him

 

[Joliemademoiselle]

wallahi, some people like to waste other people time... if you are not ready don't talk to people.

... but recently we have too much soy latte men

 

[Hodan from HR]

Lol you counted ? You really like him

I was starting to..
Now, I am mad. Replying to his texts after an hour and 45 mins (double).


Two can play that game

 

[Desert Flower]

Naag nool @Hodan from HR

 

[AishaBarri]

When you’re out here counting how long they take to reply that’s when you know you’re in trouble

 

[Hodan from HR]

When you’re out here counting how long they take to reply that’s when you know you’re in trouble

Ngl, it is annoying.

But I am losing interest. His behaviour screams insecure.

 

[Nafiso Qalanjo]

Ngl, it is annoying.

But I am losing interest. His behaviour screams insecure.

be straight forward and tell him that this behavior of his bothers you. This way you wont waste your time.

 

[Mercury]

I get it. You shouldn't be dumb and open your heart to everyone. It is okay to have standards but games???!

Replying back to all my texts at intervals of 55 minutes Yes, I counted


Fuad, we both know you are lonely and have no woman to talk to!

The best mind game is to ghost someone who uses mind games on you

Why waste time on a person whose dishonest and pretend to be something they are not

 

[Desert Flower]

Ngl, it is annoying.

But I am losing interest. His behaviour screams insecure.

He sounds childish. I’d say to drop him because he’s wasting your time and wants to be chased.

 

[Octavian]

mindgames is part of the fun

 

[Mercury]

mindgames is part of the fun

Nah, its immature and waste of time ignore calls or messages just to appear busy? the only thing you gonna accomplish with mind games is find women who are desperate for your attention and will lower their standards to get it

Be real, upfront and honest is much better than to play stupid mind game

 

[Shmurda]

Mind games is annoying asf

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

Looooooool

 

[Guardafui]

Just block him and find someone else quickly I usually forget the guy’s name by then

 

[Alluring]

Mindgames are stupid. If we like each other we would text each other and hold conversations normally without the mindless waiting.

 

[Bronco]

You don't know what he is doing, give the nigga the benefit of the doubt. Maybe he doesn't want to talk rn and doesn't want to respond immediately and turn it into a convo

 

[Ferrari]

If he was texting hella fast, you'd be here complaining about him being too clingy and desperate. There's no pleasing the dwellers of hell aka naago.

 

[Bronco]

Sounds like he's watching Game of Thrones or breaking bad and he's not allowing you to interrupt.

 

[Hodan from HR]

If he was texting hella fast, you'd be here complaining about him being too clingy and desperate. There's no pleasing the dwellers of hell aka naago.

First of all, women are not a monolith.

Also the issue here is not whether he blows up my phone or not but the fact that he is being calculative on something simple like texting!

I like upfront men who are dhaacad