No it’s not UK. But most of the foreigners that live here are either Turkish or Kurdish. Some Somali girls are afraid to date Somali men cause they think that Somali guy might expose them to their family etc so they rather date ajnabis. Some want to get light skin kids cause they think that being dark skin is ugly and some are traumatised from their fathers or had bad experience with a Somali guy and think that the Ajnabi will be a better guy for them. I have a friend that is dark skinned but only dates Ajnabi men. We were once talking about dating etc then I asked her if she ever dated a Somali guy and she said never ever and that she would never date a Somali guy when I asked her why she said that she doesn’t want to have kids that have dark skin.
Ajnabi men are more loyal to their wives than Faraxs - true or false?
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Wooooow that’s crazy! But those girl aren’t getting good guys and are indirectly ruining their reputation! Well in this case Somali women! Where are you from if you don’t mind? Are you from Toronto because that’s where all the salafis I know are from.
Self love is very important. I have daddy issues aswell but that’s made me sooo strict in terms of marriage! Am in school getting a degree and making sure I secure my bag and the lifestyle I want! The guy needs to match that! No way in hell will I go for a jail bird! Like what are they thinking! We need to be accountable for ourselves and not aim low! The guy needs to enrich your life some way! He needs to have values and principals. He needs to be finiancial secure! I guess those rumours are true
I was hoping it was a lie.I’m also dark skin but choosing a man to give you light babies as your main criteria is just wrong and your setting yourself and your kids up. Anyways, chileeeeeeeeeeeee
Ps: don’t follow these girls! If you want an ajanabi make sure he’s the one that is the best of best for you and not settling. Have your non negotiable for both Somali men and ajanabi men. Don’t compromise!
I‘m from Switzerland. I’m studying too and alhamduillah I know my worth I would never marry a looser. I‘m very light skinned and I don’t even look Somali but I wouldn’t mind marrying a dark skinned somali guy and even if I end up marrying an Ajnabi he has to be educated and respect me.Wooooow that’s crazy! But those girl aren’t getting good guys and are indirectly ruining their reputation! Well in this case Somali women! Where are you from if you don’t mind? Are you from Toronto because that’s where all the salafis I know are from.
Self love is very important. I have daddy issues aswell but that’s made me sooo strict in terms of marriage! Am in school getting a degree and making sure I secure my bag and the lifestyle I want! The guy needs to match that! No way in hell will I go for a jail bird! Like what are they thinking! We need to be accountable for ourselves and not aim low! The guy needs to enrich your life some way! He needs to have values and principals. He needs to be finiancial secure! I guess those rumours are true
I’m also dark skin but choosing a man to give you light babies as your main criteria is just wrong and your setting yourself and your kids up. Anyways, chileeeeeeeeeeeee
Ps: don’t follow these girls! If you want an ajanabi make sure he’s the one that is the best of best for you and not settling. Have your non negotiable for both Somali men and ajanabi men.
Wooow that’s the most random diaspora for Somalis and the reputation for Somali women there is down the drain! Woow am just shocked! Salafism has some Somali people on a chokehold! Yes, have your preferences but always move from a place of respect, value, and self love ( like you have already mentioned).
Are most Somali women like that or did the loud minority just ruined it for you guys? Sorry lool am curious
Yeah most of the Somali women that were born here in Switzerland and Germany marry most of the time non Somalis. I hardly hear now any Somali girl marrying a Somali guy.Wooow that’s the most random diaspora for Somalis and the reputation for Somali women there is down the drain! Woow am just shocked! Salafism has some Somali people on a chokehold! Yes, have your preferences but always move from a place of respect, value, and self love ( like you have already mentioned).
Are most Somali women like that or did the loud minority just ruined it for you guys? Sorry lool am curious
It’s not about whether they are marrying Somali men or not but the reputation they have made for themselves with the men there is disgusting. There’s a lot of Habesha in the west and they are the highest expats but they don’t have these types of stereotypes and most are out there. But I wonder why? But Khair inshAllah
Yeah that’s what I mean. If they would marry Ajnabi men that are educated and that respect them and their family everything would be fine but nooo most of them go for low lifes qasaro men loool just for the skin colour and the looks. I hardly see any Habeshas marrying outside their ethnicity and even if they do they marry respectable educated Ajnabis and I never seen or heard anyone talking bad about Habesha women.
Exactly!!!!! Some Somali girls have low self esteem! But people need to take accountability for themselves and their actions. We can’t be victims all of TIME! Choose better because we as women always suffer the consequences more than men!
Yeah their self low esteem makes them marry just an guy for his looks etc. Insha Allah I pray it will be better.
Outside Salafi and Abdi-incel circles, which are super small to begin with (in the west), Somali women are absolutely not known for being cheap or promiscuous. You guys seem to live in a bubble
Here in Europe where I live Somali women are seen as cheap. It hurts me to say this but that’s how it is.Outside Salafi and Abdi-incel circles, which are super small to begin with (in the west), Somali women are absolutely not known for being cheap or promiscuous. You guys seem to live in a bubble
Lol u definitely have a vendetta against Somali women. Implying we’re cheap and easy, compared to …..habeshas
…..of all people. I see you, nacasyahow langaab b1tch.
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I honestly only have seen 1 Somali girl marry an abusive white salafi men. I always get shocked when I hear this because I have never seen or heard of men going around in my city looking for Somali women because they’re cheap. That’s why I was shocked when the sister was saying it’s prevalent in her country. I really hope it’s just exaggerated.Outside Salafi and Abdi-incel circles, which are super small to begin with (in the west), Somali women are absolutely not known for being cheap or promiscuous. You guys seem to live in a bubble
Why would I have a vendetta? I‘m a Somali woman myself and I’m just telling what I seen and heard maybe it’s different in your countryLol u definitely have a vendetta against Somali women. Implying we’re cheap and easy, compared to …..habeshas
Habesha in Canada are known to be s tbh soo am quite surprised when I hear Somali women are not having standards.Lol u definitely have a vendetta against Somali women. Implying we’re cheap and easy, compared to …..habeshas
You’re talking shit, as soon as you dared to compare us to habeshas in terms of cheapness, fucking nacas h0e. Don’t ever call my sisters cheap, fucking langaab
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But that’s how it is. Habeshas and Sudanese women etc most of the time marry their own people. And only a few Habeshas live here most of the east africans that live here are Somali. That’s why they can’t be compared. Stop calling me a hoe. You don’t need to insult me.
You’re talking shit, as soon as you dared to compre us to habeshas in terms of cheapness, fucking nacas h0e. Don’t ever call my sisters cheap, fucking langaabcheap n clean, that reputation doesnt come from nowhere.
Where did I call them those words? That’s how ajnabis see us!!!!
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I compared us to them cause the sister that commented mentioned Habesha people.
