Ajnabi men are more loyal to their wives than Faraxs - true or false?

[Bundasliga]

Come on, We can’t act like these guys don’t do the same towards Xalimos

Constantly, i might add. I see so many threads generalising us in very nasty ways (eg.cheap and clean, loud, ugly, obese, etc.) but almost never the other way ‘round. If anyone has an axe to grind up in here, its most certainly the males

Yes it goes both ways 100%.

both doing it to get them mad & reacting lol

 

[Sophisticate]

Come on, We can’t act like these guys don’t do the same towards Xalimos

Constantly, i might add. I see so many threads generalising us in very nasty ways (eg.cheap and clean, loud, ugly, obese, etc.) but almost never the other way ‘round. If anyone has an axe to grind up in here, its most certainly the males

There are some scorned Abdis too. There was a maternal figure that diminished him. And having a fragile ego he took it to heart. He collectively punishes most Somali girls often mistaking them for mommy dearest and indiscriminately lashes out. A compliment is his weakness provided it comes from a non-Somali/non-madow woman. He likes to mask this as preference but it has more to do with being emotionally damaged. You know he's not quite caadi by the collage he keeps consisting of photos of unkempt and overweight middle aged Somali women that were recently arrested. The spectre of hooyo follows him everywhere.

 

[Abdisamad]

Am GUILTY! Looool that’s one step of healing right? InshAllah khair but I can’t help but see dysfunction when I see a Somali men.

It’s officially I will no longer add fuel to the gender feuds because am jaded( even though it’s sooo tempting ).

It's always easiest to put each other down and much harder to uplift each other.. Anyway as a starter I'm sending you cyber hugs.

 

[Abdisamad]

There are some scorned Abdis too. There was a maternal figure that diminished him. And having a fragile ego he took it to heart. He collectively punishes most Somali girls often mistaking them for mommy dearest and indiscriminately lashes out. A compliment is his weakness provided it comes from a non-Somali/non-madow woman. He likes to mask this as preference but it has more to do with being emotionally damaged. You know he's not quite caadi by the collage he keeps consisting of photos of unkempt and overweight middle aged Somali women that were recently arrested. The spectre of hooyo follows him everywhere.

May I add when they are attacking the sisters and some of us disagree and show the sisters respect and love they'll instantly attack you using words like simp

 

[Juliet]

Yes it goes both ways 100%.

both doing it to get them mad & reacting lol

Nah, its disproportionately the men attacking SW all the time, once i think there was even three simultaneously trending threads talking shite about us lool, your brothers need jobs.....and a life

 

[Jotaro Kujo]

Nah, its disproportionately the men attacking SW all the time, once i think there was even three simultaneously trending threads talking shite about us lool, your brothers need jobs.....and a life

It's faraxs doing the most on sspot & xalimos on Twitter & tiktok

 

[reer]

There are some scorned Abdis too. There was a maternal figure that diminished him. And having a fragile ego he took it to heart. He collectively punishes most Somali girls often mistaking them for mommy dearest and indiscriminately lashes out. A compliment is his weakness provided it comes from a non-Somali/non-madow woman. He likes to mask this as preference but it has more to do with being emotionally damaged. You know he's not quite caadi by the collage he keeps consisting of photos of unkempt and overweight middle aged Somali women that were recently arrested. The spectre of hooyo follows him everywhere.

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[Juliet]

It's faraxs doing the most on sspot & xalimos on Twitter & tiktok

I don't see xalimos making weird ass profiles called "Dhill0 exterminator" with nomadic men DPs and shit. Don't even get me started on clubhouse....

 

[Man with a garuun]

There are some scorned Abdis too. There was a maternal figure that diminished him. And having a fragile ego he took it to heart. He collectively punishes most Somali girls often mistaking them for mommy dearest and indiscriminately lashes out. A compliment is his weakness provided it comes from a non-Somali/non-madow woman. He likes to mask this as preference but it has more to do with being emotionally damaged. You know he's not quite caadi by the collage he keeps consisting of photos of unkempt and overweight middle aged Somali women that were recently arrested. The spectre of hooyo follows him everywhere.

This is some overly simplistic assertion.

Often times people with adverse experiences with a paternal figure be it emotional or physical absence tend to have a negative view of Somali men. These are often the ones who uplift nimaan ajnabi vs Somali. Notice how they accord nuance to foreigners whilst not paying the same level of consideration to men from their community. All Abdis are deemed a monolith and grouped while Ajnabis are different and a function of their upbringing, values and temperament. This is a sign they are most definitely jilted with an axe to grind.

This was a classic take-down I've seen so far, leveling with each group.

 

[Man with a garuun]

Yes it goes both ways 100%.

both doing it to get them mad & reacting lol

I haven't seen the other Africans doing it, especially the other horners (Ethiopians, Eritreans, etc). They're more disciplined than us. So perhaps we don't care our internal laundry being aired.

 

[Jotaro Kujo]

I don't see xalimos making weird ass profiles called "Dhill0 exterminator" with nomadic men DPs and shit. Don't even get me started on clubhouse....

I've seen "Farax Humbler" before

 

[Dima&Damo]

False
My Grandfather From My Mother Side Only Was Wed One Time And They Was With Each Other For 70 Years

 

[Reekha]

Somali women who marry ajanbis don’t make their husbands pay mehr. They compromise. I have even heard a story where a halimo married an ex convict for 25 cents and after their divorce she married a fob and told the sheikh her mehr was 20k

That’s not true.

 

[Reekha]

this is false, there is a reason western culture is tied with infidelity.

Kafir westerners commit infidelity like almost no other group on the planet. Before they even get married they have a really high body count.

these people have been misguided by shaytaan and divorce is extremely high in the west.

Somalis, especially the ones from somalia, generally don't cheat much and stay together for a long time if not until one of them dies.

the somalis that cheat learned it in the west most of the time.

In somalia the majority of men are okay with one wife and the ones who need more just openly marry a second.

the problem of infidelity is already stopped before it happens. Men and women don't mix too much and the men who need another woman marry another.

I find it the other way around.. Usually the somali men that were born in western countries don’t cheat and marry a second xalimo.

 

[Reekha]

I have been hearing a lot that ajnabi men are more loyal than Faraxs when it comes to marriage, some Xalimos believe if they marry an ajnabi man he'll never look after another woman and they'll die ever happily after once they tie the knot, this made me to think and wonder how much truth is there into this notion? Do we have valid statics or data of any type to confirm....Xalimos gut feelings as an input to this is also welcome as well as the Faraxs counter claim/arguments..

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I know a few somali girls that got married to ajnabi muslim men most of them are happily married. I also know one somali girl that is 3 times divorced. She first got married to a lebanese guy and got divorced after she got pregnant. Then she married a russian revert who has 2 other wives. She got divorced from him too cause his moroccan wife started fighting with her etc then she got married to a polish revert she also got divorced from him cause he stole and sold her Daxab. Now she is divorced with 2 kids and looking for a new husband. But I can understand why she doesn’t want to marry a somali guy. Her father was a really bad guy tbh.

 

[Aboow]

I know a few somali girls that got married to ajnabi muslim men most of them are happily married. I also know one somali girl that is 3 times divorced. She first got married to a lebanese guy and got divorced after she got pregnant. Then she married a russian revert who has 2 other wives. She got divorced from him too cause his moroccan wife started fighting with her etc then she got married to a polish revert she also got divorced from him cause he stole and sold her Daxab. Now she is divorced with 2 kids and looking for a new husband. But I can understand why she doesn’t want to marry a somali guy. Her father was a really bad guy tbh.

Damn…. Why did she agree to be a second wife to the Russian guy? Is she a salafi? The polish guy is a straight loser! Why did he steal her dahab? Urgh that’s sooo bumish

InshAllah she finds a good Husband but I would say focus on her kids because brining men to the house when you have kids can go left. InshAllah she focus on herself and her kids and when they get older maybe look for another husband?

 

[Reekha]

Damn…. Why did she agree to be a second wife to the Russian guy? Is she a salafi? The polish guy is a straight loser! Why did he steal her dahab? Urgh that’s sooo bumish

InshAllah she finds a good Husband but I would say focus on her kids because brining men to the house when you have kids can go left. InshAllah she focus on herself and her kids and when they get older maybe look for another husband?

Yeah he is a salafi and he is obsessed with somali women. He went to Kenya and he married a somali woman. He came back to Europe and got married to this somali girl that I know. He posts stuff online saying that he is looking for a somali woman looool.

 

[Aboow]

Yeah he is a salafi and he is obsessed with somali women. He went to Kenya and he married a somali woman. He came back to Europe and got married to this somali girl that I know. He posts stuff online saying that he is looking for a somali woman looool.

Ufffffff I knew it!!!!!! Urghhhhh I hate men like that! What’s sad is that he will find vulnerable women and take advantage of them! I noticed salafism is big in Europe! I tend to avoid men and women that are salafi. They are too extreme and marry and divorce like it’s nothing! I heard they marry Somali women a lot of and divorce them. Idk if that’s exaggerated but damn I hope nothing but the best for her and her kids. I pray that Russian guy gets what he deserves in the world and the hereafter!

Also, we have to have to vet these men! I don’t care if he has a 10 m beard and wearing a khamis always check for the red flags.

 

[Reekha]

Ufffffff I knew it!!!!!! Urghhhhh I hate men like that! What’s sad is that he will find vulnerable women and take advantage of them! I noticed salafism is big in Europe! I tend to avoid men and women that are salafi. They are too extreme and marry and divorce like it’s nothing! I heard they marry Somali women a lot of and divorce them. Idk if that’s exaggerated but damn I hope nothing but the best for her and her kids. I pray that Russian guy gets what he deserves in the world and the hereafter!

Also, we have to have to vet these men! I don’t care if he has a 10 m beard and wearing a khamis always check for the red flags.

Me too I would never engage with a salafi person. Most of them here where I live see somali women as cheap women to have intercourse with. They stay married to them for a short time and after they satisfy their disgusting needs they will divorce the woman. Yeah most of them see divorce as nothing. Insha Allah he will. A 21 year old Turkish/Kurdish Salafi guy that approached me and my cousin in a restaurant once said that he wanted to marry a single mother somali woman. He didn’t know that I’m Somali. When I asked him why he wanted to marry her he said that he recently got out of prison for beating a guy up and that he is broke and wants a woman that he can have fun with for a few months and that can give him money until he finds a job where he doesn’t need a criminal record paper. When I asked why specially a somali woman? He said that most of them are very cheap and have a good looking body. Seriously this disgusts and hurts me till today.

 

[Aboow]

Me too I would never engage with a salafi person. Most of them here where I live see somali women as cheap women to have intercourse with. They stay married to them for a short time and after they satisfy their disgusting needs they will divorce the woman. Yeah most of them see divorce as nothing. Insha Allah he will. A 21 year old Turkish/Kurdish Salafi guy that approached me and my cousin in a restaurant once said that he wanted to marry a single mother somali woman. He didn’t know that I’m Somali. When I asked him why he wanted to marry her he said that he recently got out of prison for beating a guy up and that he is broke and wants a woman that he can have fun with for a few months and that can give him money until he finds a job where he doesn’t need a criminal record paper. When I asked why specially a somali woman? He said that most of them are very cheap and have a good looking body. Seriously this disgusts and hurts me till today.

OMG OMG OMG is that the reputation of Somali women am assuming in the UK. Am from Canada so there isn’t that much of Turkish people it kinda not as diverse where am from particularly but damn he has audacity! Who started this trend of cheap!?! I wonder! Do Somali women actually marry out like that for them to think that they are cheap? I have soo much question because I thought Somali men were lying on our names and causing ajanabis to think like that! OMG inmates wthhhhhhhhh