Ajnabi husband does black magic on his Somali wife. This is her story.

[Halimak]

Walal, you can marry whoever want. However at least go for established Muslim with dignity.

What can you describe as marrying a ex convict with no job, education or Dhaqan other than low self esteem

If you watched the video. That clearly isn't what happened.

A. Her parents were on board.
B. The man was thought of as a catch. This is to such an extent that people kept on coming up to her to tell her how lucky she is.

The fact that her father was on board and that people thought she was a lucky when she first married him, is a good indicator that the man was not jobless or an ex con of any sort. He was also known to be very religious in her community.

Honestly, there isn't much to fault her for, apart from maybe her hopping on Youtube and doing a tell all.

 

[Abdisamad]

you're so problematic
you literally pulled that out of your fuuto
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Even sambuusi is getting all worked up

 

[Samaalic Era]

If you watched the video. That clearly isn't what happened.

A. Her parents were on board.
B. The man was thought of as a catch. This is to such an extent that people kept on coming up to her to tell her how lucky she is.

The fact that her father was on board and that people thought she was a lucky when she first married him, is a good indicator that the man was not jobless or an ex con of any sort. He was also known to be very religious in her community.

Honestly, there isn't much to fault her for, apart from maybe her hopping on Youtube and doing a tell all.

Religion and Sixir don't mix. A Saaxir has no nuur or emaan. Also she blamed sixir is trying to deflect.

The video shows what kind of person she is and doesn't want to own up that she messed up

 

[Abdisamad]

Religion and Sixir don't mix. A Saaxir has no nuur or emaan. Also she blamed sixir is trying to deflect.

The video shows what kind of person she is and doesn't want to own up that she messed up

I didn't watch the video

 

[Halimak]

Religion and Sixir don't mix. A Saaxir has no nuur or emaan. Also she blamed sixir is trying to deflect.

The video shows what kind of person she is and doesn't want to own up that she messed up

If you watched the ending, she only believed it was sixir after seeing proof. She saw emails. She never thought her problems had anything to do with sixir prior.

So what are you getting at?

There have been cases of imaans engaging in sixir and Ruqya experts engaging with jinns so your point is void.

Many people in this world are hypocrites with dark hearts, yet are able to conn people into thinking they are people of knowledge.

Also, what can you say she did wrong? Lets be real, you only have vitoral for her because she married a non-Somali.
Like there is nothing you can say about this girl.

 

[Mozart]

If you watched the video. That clearly isn't what happened.

A. Her parents were on board.
B. The man was thought of as a catch. This is to such an extent that people kept on coming up to her to tell her how lucky she is.

The fact that her father was on board and that people thought she was a lucky when she first married him, is a good indicator that the man was not jobless or an ex con of any sort. He was also known to be very religious in her community.

Honestly, there isn't much to fault her for, apart from maybe her hopping on Youtube and doing a tell all.

Getting a co-sign from her dad means nothing especially when he comes across as a loser. She said after 3 and something years of marriage she was going into her last year of uni so she started seeing this guy at 17/18 and the dude was ‘accomplished’ with a house/career so most likely 27 and above. Her dad failed her

 

[sambuusi]

Even sambuusi is getting all worked up

what do you mean adeer? i'm just dropping by with my 23/25th comment of the day
but i said what i said

 

[Halimak]

I didn't watch the video

Clearly @Samaalic Era didn't watch the video as well.

He is tugging at straws and is dying to find an excuse to bash her.

 

[Abdisamad]

If you watched the ending, she only believed it was sixir after seeing proof. She saw emails. She never thought her problems had anything to do with sixir prior.

So what are you getting at?

There have been cases of imaans engaging in sixir and Ruqya experts engaging with jinns so your point is void.

Many people in this world are hypocrites with dark hearts, yet are able to conn people into thinking they are people of knowledge.

Also, what can you say she did wrong? Lets be real, you only have vitoral for her because she married a non-Somali.
Like there is nothing you can say about this girl.

Abayo sixir is very widely spread in madow communities its ingrained in their culture.. They even took this practice with them in the slave ships.. That's why you see voodo and other sixir related stuff being practiced by madow from latin America to Caribbeans..

 

[Abdisamad]

what do you mean adeer? i'm just dropping by with my 23/25th comment of the day
but i said what i said

Stop calling me adeer, you are making me feel old

 

[sambuusi]

Stop calling me adeer, you are making me feel old

what am i supposed to call you then?

 

[Halimak]

Getting a co-sign from her dad means nothing especially when he comes across as a loser. She said after 3 and something years of marriage she was going into her last year of uni so she started seeing this guy at 17/18 and the dude was ‘accomplished’ with a house/career so most likely 27 and above. Her dad failed her

What is wrong with a girl being with an 'accomplished guy'? Also no, many people have their shit together at 23/24. I know I did and many others so what are you talking about?

Also, i don't know what country you are in, people start university at 18, with some starting at 19, because of gap-years or being repeats.

Also, its funny how all of a sudden age gaps becomes a concern when the man is non Somali, but when women talk about men marrying girls they can actually father, which is all too common in our community, us women are referred to as 'feminists' or we are troublemakers.

I don't know the Ins and outs, i'm just going by the info that I have watched, whilst many are trying to find any excuse, even using speculation and fantasy.

Just admit the truth.

He was a loser, because he engaged in sixir. But many of those evil people know how to hide that aspect of themselves.

 

[firefox]

Naag feroweyn ma fakarto.

 

[Samaalic Era]

I didn't watch the video

I didn't either lmao, just read the thread

 

[Halimak]

Abayo sixir is very widely spread in madow communities its ingrained in their culture.. They even took this practice with them in the slave ships.. That's why you see voodo and other sixir related stuff being practiced by madow from latin America to Caribbeans..

Walaalo, sixir is found in every community.
I even know of personal cases of Somalis engaging in it/accused of it. It is also very common in the Asian community.

Whilst its very common amongst madows, we are not going to pretend that sixir doesn't happen in our community.

 

[Abdisamad]

what am i supposed to call you then?

Abowe, quruxlow, wilka sanadka etc.. There are many nice things you can call me

 

[Samaalic Era]

If you watched the ending, she only believed it was sixir after seeing proof. She saw emails. She never thought her problems had anything to do with sixir prior.

So what are you getting at?

There have been cases of imaans engaging in sixir and Ruqya experts engaging with jinns so your point is void.

Many people in this world are hypocrites with dark hearts, yet are able to conn people into thinking they are people of knowledge.

Also, what can you say she did wrong? Lets be real, you only have vitoral for her because she married a non-Somali.
Like there is nothing you can say about this girl.

Naagaaha Soomaaliyeed kaligood ba la sixraa

Walal, this is narcissistic as it gets

 

[Abdisamad]

Walaalo, sixir is found in every community.
I even know of personal cases of Somalis engaging in it/accused of it. It is also very common in the Asian community.

Whilst its very common amongst madows, we are not going to pretend that sixir doesn't happen in our community.

Yes sixir can be found in many communities but in comparison to madow culture its not as widely accept or ingrained in the culture.. Juju/sixir is almost a religion of its own in madow culture. I'm not here to attack anyone just highlighting some facta.. And you should know before marriage what kind of culture the person is brought up in and you should make sure it's compatible with your own background otherwise your marriage is bound for failure..

 

[Halimak]

Naagaaha Soomaaliyeed kaligood ba la sixraa

Walal, this is narcissistic as it gets

Bro,

There are many cases of women having sixir on them from other communities. I don't think they are willing to jump on Youtube and do storytime the way our Xalimos do.

Yes, I admit. Running to Youtube to tell the world about your previous issues isn't a good look AT all.

 

[Samaalic Era]

Yes sixir is in many communities but in comparison to madow culture its not as widely accept or ingrained in the culture.. Juju/sixir is almost a religion of its own in madow culture. I'm not here to attack anyone just highlighting some facta.. And you should know before marriage what kind of culture the person is brought up in and you should make sure it's compatible with your own background otherwise your marriage is bound for failure..

Sixir in the west is non existant. For those who have actually studied Islamic texts on the nature of sixir, those who perform them and its requirements know that these women are lying