You will come back, I was thinking the same before now I'm back to being a secessionist.
The world is not ready for a new African shithole. They saw what happened with Eritrea and South Sudan. Somaliland has not been able to gain recognition because the US, EU, UN and AU don’t want it to gain recognition, nothing to do with Somalia. Ethiopia and Kenya have the most influence on US policy in the Horn, and neither wants Somalia to break up because it would give people within their borders similar ideas. Somaliland’s best bet is to get involved in the federalization of Somalia and influence the direction it takes.