Dont marry a somali woman. Because somali women are beautiful and holding the quraan. But they are aggressive. If you cant handle it...stay something thats soft. You took that as a compliment to somali women and attack men lool? You really think if a man has a choice between aggressive or soft woman he will take aggressive?What bullshit behaviour was called out?
He said weak spinless men should not marry Somali women.
I don't see how Somali women were insulted. But @Abdullah is trying to get every simp to insult Somali women for no reason.
Dont marry a somali woman. Because somali women are beautiful and holding the quraan. But they are aggressive. If you cant handle it...stay something thats soft. You took that as a compliment to somali women and attack men lool? You really think if a man has a choice between aggressive or soft woman he will take aggressive?
Soft and sweet is positive words men use to describe women. Men dont use the word aggressive in positive light when talking of women
whats a real man and whats a fake man....another statement women like to use when you call them out on their bullsh1t. You are not a real man. I am breathing and I have a penis. Thats the definition of a man.
A real man is one who caters his personality to a women, according to them
If a woman dont put up with a man's bulshit she is a strong independant woman. But if a man don't put up with a womans bulshit he is weak and insecure.
It doesnt make sense. Is there such a thing as a ''Real Woman?''. Why are people quick to define how a man is supposed to behave and act but opposite is not acceptable?
Our mothers were soft and obidient. Not the trash we see now. You can spin it however you want. That man wasnt praising somali women and men dont use the word aggressive as positive trait describing women. Then he adds if you want something soft look elsewhere. You can go to any forum and make a poll. Ask men do you want an aggressive wife or soft wife. Men across the world would saysame thingSomali women are strong. They have always been strong.
The ones back home, especially the older generation have always had a no nonsense attitude and Somali men have always been the same.
Many of our grandmothers and greatmothers would not have been able to survive if they were 'soft'.
Every culture and ethnicities have their own norms. Also, we are not really a culture that appreciates soft or sweet women i've noticed. Women from our grandmothers generation are the first to tell you to get a grip.
Our mothers were soft and obidient. Not the trash we see now. You can spin it however you want. That man wasnt praising somali women and men dont use the word aggressive as positive trait describing women. Then he adds if you want something soft look elsewhere. You can go to any forum and make a poll. Ask men do you want an aggressive wife or soft wife. Men across the world would saysame thing
All women acceptato a degree abuse. No women are tougher than others. Some are more loud and are posers and somalis fall into that. Love somali women...but you are biased as you are one and building them up to be something they are not.This isn't about what the average man would prefer.
Lets be real Somali women by any of the stretch of the imagination are not 'soft'.
You can blame westernation if you want, but if that was the case why are the women back home ' aggressive' as well.
I've been back home. One thing that shocked me was how aggressive the women were.
Asian women in the UK tend to be soft despite being raised in the UK. Thats because their mothers and grandmothers were soft.
Also, it makes me wonder do you want Somali women to be accepting to abuse and disrespect?
All women acceptato a degree abuse. No women are tougher than others. Some are more loud and are posers and somalis fall into that. Love somali women...but you are biased as you are one and building them up to be something they are not.
I don't regard being 'agressive' a good trait, but not particularly bad. I've always thought the ones back home are like this because they have been through a lot.
Furthermore, similarly to the way some men are tougher than others some women are tougher than others.
Somali women tend to be tough because in many cases, especially when abuse occurs we have the support of our fathers and brothers. We are raised not to accept disrespect, whilst the same cannot be said for other cultures.
Economics plays a role as well. When you have money and a family to fall back on, you are less likely to accept abuse.
Learned behaviour as well plays a role. Many Somali women were not raised in households in which the father is demeaning or abusive. I've never seen my father abuse my mother, so what makes you think i'll allow a man to do this??
We do not have a history of disrespecting, belittling or physically abusing women. That's something i'm always going to respect Somali men for.
I think many on this forum are getting carried away because they see confused little Halimos self hating on twitter. Don't let that cloud your judgement.
This is strong to you?Somali women are strong. They have always been strong.
The ones back home, especially the older generation have always had a no nonsense attitude and Somali men have always been the same.
Many of our grandmothers and greatmothers would not have been able to survive if they were 'soft'.
Every culture and ethnicities have their own norms. Also, we are not really a culture that appreciates soft or sweet women i've noticed. Women from our grandmothers generation are the first to tell you to get a grip.
So true...its all about emotional blackmail. Sadly it works as most men fall for it
Very appealing.True.
I want submissive asian wife who cooks and cleanswho gives me massage and obeys me.
One of the reason why I think its better for Somali women to marry Somali men is because men from other cultures tend to be too sensitive to deal with Somali women.
Despite their flaws, Somali men tend to have very good temperaments and are secure in their masculinity.
Nacala kuyaal xalimoids they destroyed our honour and rank amongst men.