After marrying and divorcing Xalimos, revert sheikh says do not marry Somali women

[HalimaJ]

One of the reason why I think its better for Somali women to marry Somali men is because men from other cultures tend to be too sensitive to deal with Somali women.

Despite their flaws, Somali men tend to have very good temperaments and are secure in their masculinity.

 

[Gooney112]

What bullshit behaviour was called out?
He said weak spinless men should not marry Somali women.

I don't see how Somali women were insulted. But @Abdullah is trying to get every simp to insult Somali women for no reason.

Dont marry a somali woman. Because somali women are beautiful and holding the quraan. But they are aggressive. If you cant handle it...stay something thats soft. You took that as a compliment to somali women and attack men lool? You really think if a man has a choice between aggressive or soft woman he will take aggressive?

Soft and sweet is positive words men use to describe women. Men dont use the word aggressive in positive light when talking of women

 

[HalimaJ]

Dont marry a somali woman. Because somali women are beautiful and holding the quraan. But they are aggressive. If you cant handle it...stay something thats soft. You took that as a compliment to somali women and attack men lool? You really think if a man has a choice between aggressive or soft woman he will take aggressive?

Soft and sweet is positive words men use to describe women. Men dont use the word aggressive in positive light when talking of women

Somali women are strong. They have always been strong.

The ones back home, especially the older generation have always had a no nonsense attitude and Somali men have always been the same.

Many of our grandmothers and greatmothers would not have been able to survive if they were 'soft'.

Every culture and ethnicities have their own norms. Also, we are not really a culture that appreciates soft or sweet women i've noticed. Women from our grandmothers generation are the first to tell you to get a grip.

 

[TheChauvinist]

whats a real man and whats a fake man....another statement women like to use when you call them out on their bullsh1t. You are not a real man. I am breathing and I have a penis. Thats the definition of a man.

A real man is one who caters his personality to a women, according to them

If a woman dont put up with a man's bulshit she is a strong independant woman. But if a man don't put up with a womans bulshit he is weak and insecure.

It doesnt make sense. Is there such a thing as a ''Real Woman?''. Why are people quick to define how a man is supposed to behave and act but opposite is not acceptable?

 

[SomaliWadaniSoldier]

True.
I want submissive asian wife who cooks and cleanswho gives me massage and obeys me.

 

[Gooney112]

A real man is one who caters his personality to a women, according to them

If a woman dont put up with a man's bulshit she is a strong independant woman. But if a man don't put up with a womans bulshit he is weak and insecure.

It doesnt make sense. Is there such a thing as a ''Real Woman?''. Why are people quick to define how a man is supposed to behave and act but opposite is not acceptable?

So true...its all about emotional blackmail. Sadly it works as most men fall for it

 

[Gooney112]

Somali women are strong. They have always been strong.

The ones back home, especially the older generation have always had a no nonsense attitude and Somali men have always been the same.

Many of our grandmothers and greatmothers would not have been able to survive if they were 'soft'.

Every culture and ethnicities have their own norms. Also, we are not really a culture that appreciates soft or sweet women i've noticed. Women from our grandmothers generation are the first to tell you to get a grip.

Our mothers were soft and obidient. Not the trash we see now. You can spin it however you want. That man wasnt praising somali women and men dont use the word aggressive as positive trait describing women. Then he adds if you want something soft look elsewhere. You can go to any forum and make a poll. Ask men do you want an aggressive wife or soft wife. Men across the world would saysame thing

 

[HalimaJ]

Our mothers were soft and obidient. Not the trash we see now. You can spin it however you want. That man wasnt praising somali women and men dont use the word aggressive as positive trait describing women. Then he adds if you want something soft look elsewhere. You can go to any forum and make a poll. Ask men do you want an aggressive wife or soft wife. Men across the world would saysame thing

This isn't about what the average man would prefer.

Lets be real Somali women by any of the stretch of the imagination are not 'soft'.

You can blame westernation if you want, but if that was the case why are the women back home ' aggressive' as well.

I've been back home. One thing that shocked me was how aggressive the women were.

Asian women in the UK tend to be soft despite being raised in the UK. Thats because their mothers and grandmothers were soft.

Also, it makes me wonder do you want Somali women to be accepting to abuse and disrespect?

 

[Gooney112]

This isn't about what the average man would prefer.

Lets be real Somali women by any of the stretch of the imagination are not 'soft'.

You can blame westernation if you want, but if that was the case why are the women back home ' aggressive' as well.

I've been back home. One thing that shocked me was how aggressive the women were.

Asian women in the UK tend to be soft despite being raised in the UK. Thats because their mothers and grandmothers were soft.

Also, it makes me wonder do you want Somali women to be accepting to abuse and disrespect?

All women acceptato a degree abuse. No women are tougher than others. Some are more loud and are posers and somalis fall into that. Love somali women...but you are biased as you are one and building them up to be something they are not.

 

[HalimaJ]

All women acceptato a degree abuse. No women are tougher than others. Some are more loud and are posers and somalis fall into that. Love somali women...but you are biased as you are one and building them up to be something they are not.

I don't regard being 'agressive' a good trait, but not particularly bad. I've always thought the ones back home are like this because they have been through a lot.

Furthermore, similarly to the way some men are tougher than others some women are tougher than others.

Somali women tend to be tough because in many cases, especially when abuse occurs we have the support of our fathers and brothers. We are raised not to accept disrespect, whilst the same cannot be said for other cultures.

Economics plays a role as well. When you have money and a family to fall back on, you are less likely to accept abuse.

Learned behaviour as well plays a role. Many Somali women were not raised in households in which the father is demeaning or abusive. I've never seen my father abuse my mother, so what makes you think i'll allow a man to do this??

We do not have a history of disrespecting, belittling or physically abusing women. That's something i'm always going to respect Somali men for.

I think many on this forum are getting carried away because they see confused little Halimos self hating on twitter. Don't let that cloud your judgement.

 

[Gooney112]

I don't regard being 'agressive' a good trait, but not particularly bad. I've always thought the ones back home are like this because they have been through a lot.

Furthermore, similarly to the way some men are tougher than others some women are tougher than others.

Somali women tend to be tough because in many cases, especially when abuse occurs we have the support of our fathers and brothers. We are raised not to accept disrespect, whilst the same cannot be said for other cultures.

Economics plays a role as well. When you have money and a family to fall back on, you are less likely to accept abuse.

Learned behaviour as well plays a role. Many Somali women were not raised in households in which the father is demeaning or abusive. I've never seen my father abuse my mother, so what makes you think i'll allow a man to do this??

We do not have a history of disrespecting, belittling or physically abusing women. That's something i'm always going to respect Somali men for.

I think many on this forum are getting carried away because they see confused little Halimos self hating on twitter. Don't let that cloud your judgement.

I agree with a lot of what you say. Im just saying that guy wasnt praising somali women, he was insulting them. I know im repeating myself btw

 

[TheChauvinist]

Somali women are strong. They have always been strong.

The ones back home, especially the older generation have always had a no nonsense attitude and Somali men have always been the same.

Many of our grandmothers and greatmothers would not have been able to survive if they were 'soft'.

Every culture and ethnicities have their own norms. Also, we are not really a culture that appreciates soft or sweet women i've noticed. Women from our grandmothers generation are the first to tell you to get a grip.

This is strong to you?


All i see is ratchet agressive behavior.

 

[TheChauvinist]

So true...its all about emotional blackmail. Sadly it works as most men fall for it

Thats what it is. It's same with their dumb shaming tactics of labelling men incels.I laugh at that. It is mostly done to shut men up. The true simps fall for it, because all they care about is seeking female validation.

 

[VixR]

Somali women have nothing to do with your “honor and rank among men”, that’s definitionally a male issue.

Somali women are not the same temperament, and wallahi neither are the men.

He said he married two wives and he’s complaining about double the relationship issues. That’s some illiterate math.

 

[Lostbox]

Why we got such difficult women?

 

[Abdisamad]

True.
I want submissive asian wife who cooks and cleanswho gives me massage and obeys me.

Very appealing.

 

[Abdalla]

One of the reason why I think its better for Somali women to marry Somali men is because men from other cultures tend to be too sensitive to deal with Somali women.

Despite their flaws, Somali men tend to have very good temperaments and are secure in their masculinity.

@Reiko Is this the chick you tagged for reinforcement? Shes already crawling back and beg for mercy

Naaya HalimaJamaican go hard or go home

Ask yourself why didnt this so called sheikh talk like that about any other muslim born women? I never seen 'sheikhs' talk about Turkish or Sudani women.

 

[Farjano-Walad]

Nacala kuyaal xalimoids they destroyed our honour and rank amongst men.

this somali on the video no way has two wives, no way,

 

[Shaolin23]

Only Somali men can endure the wrath and madness that come with Somali women Ajanabis can’t handle that type fire we are a match made in heaven we know what we’re signing up for its like enlisting in the army vs being drafted into the army

 

[A_A]

All this threads about interracial marriages. smh
Nice try though.