People from backward countries need to be explicitly instrucuted on how to behave in developed countries. We who were born or raised in the West were socialized from a young age on normative behavior in the West---using deodorant, not speaking loudly, concealing politically incorrect views, not bathing in public---but these FOBs never went through that socialization, and where they grew up something like this would not be so shocking. Unfortunately for them, the FOBs arrived in the West during an era of radical political correctness and cultural relativism, so nobody provides them the explicit cultural instruction that they need. In earlier eras, immigrants recieved this. German Jews, for example, use to explicitly teach their poorer Eastern European kin on how to use soap and water, and with what frequency. Yet we Somali diaspora are too PC to help these FOBs, we'd rather laugh at them behind their back while being afraid to educate them, because we do not want to come off as patronizing or insensatitive. But when it comes to integrating a backward people, sensatitivty and fear of hurting feelings needs to take a backseat to reality. The barbaric behavior of FOBs tarnishes us all.