You’re applying your own reality as a Western passport carrier to come up with an argument that goes against human courtship that has been happening for thousands of years. You’re also not looking at the dynamic between local girls and local boys in those poor countries.This isn't about culture this is purely about the economic reality of different parts of the world. I'm not applying this to everywhere,
Example, the same father that went up to you wouldn’t do that to 99% of the men around him. You’re a special case. Your passport is what sets you apart, but for the majority the old rules still apply. Normal local Somali men back home don’t have the privileges you have. They are treated the exact same way, you’re treated in the West by Western girls. Get it?
No, in developing countries women are still the prize. All the men around them are also poor. It’s when men from developed countries like the West does the rules fly out the window. You really think normal local men are getting the same treatment? Literally watch videos of Somali men back home angry that men like you from the West are being treated that way. Open your eyes. I saw a street interview and they were lamenting how all the girls wanted a man from abroad.I already said that in developed countries women are the prize. I was making a point thought that in many parts of the world (specifically 3rd world) men, especially the ones who can afford to provide a good life are the ones who are sought after instead of vice versa.
Again, they’re a small minority and those ugly dudes aren’t the prize. They had to use their money and promises to convince the woman. They put in work. The pursuer is never the prize. If anything, the fact they travelled all the way to a different nation, paid for the girls, probably said they’d change their lives ect shows those younger women are even more of a prize than a regular courtship of two youngsters of equal looks.It's not a controversial idea its the truth. How many old ugly dudes have you seen get married to younger foreign women completely out of their league? Not saying its right, but that's just how it is.
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