The egg doesn’t chase the sperm. It’s this ridiculous Western feminine concept that a man is chased. What’s next? Princess treatment? You being wooed?The trick to being chased by women is having to offer more than most men. A man has to check the money box, the looks box, the confidence box etc... It's rediculous the amount of women who will chase you once they know you are too busy building your empire and not wasting time running after them. Why would any man go after women when he doesn't have a good well paying job, or a business, or hasn't taken them time to hit the gym and look the best he can be? it's a waste of your time. The trick is simple, you do you, they'll come.
But I agree, work on yourself until you’re ready and being women obsessed is never a good look. That’s how people fall into redpill and misogyny.