@DuchessNinkiiUuriyey where is your wife, I'd like her input in this matter!
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I enjoyed her conversation last time.....
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I enjoyed her conversation last time.....
She needs a real man sxb a somali bantu who can hold and protect her
Anything for my somali womenSomali Bantu against fellow Bantus
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cowards die a thousand deaths.
but what are you doing meeting abdis and going to cinema together? why not bag a man the halal way instead of dating?
@DuchessNinkiiUuriyey where is your wife, I'd like her input in this matter!
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I enjoyed her conversation last time.....
The halal way?
How? Be introduced by family? Tried that once, huge disaster. Plus there's no one else, who is eligible to be introduced too....
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This is the way I see it. If someone is hollering at your girl in your presence then it's not a matter of you protecting your girl, since getting cat called or hollered at is obviously not putting her in danger. It's more a matter of you having your manhood challenged in the sense that the guy flirting with ur girl is basically saying "ur presence means nothing to me, I can holla at ur girl right in front of you, I dare you to do something about it". It's like a direct challenge to your masculinity and ur worthiness to keep the girl. In such a situation u have to step up and mark ur territory and make sure the other man backs down, or at least try your best to make this happen (we don't win every battle). If u can do this with just threatening and menacing words then good, but sometimes it might require violence.
But in a situation where u r totally outnumbered I think it's okay to refrain from acting, and any reasonable women should understand this. If she doesn't then she clearly doesn't care about your well-being at all. But if the situation goes beyond cat calling and they try to get close to your girl, then now it's not only a direct challenge to your manhood but it's also about protecting your woman from harassment/being touched etc. In such a case one has no choice but to start swinging regardless of whether he is outnumbered or not.
You're gonna be fighting all your life, you'll forget to grow up.,This is the way I see it. If someone is hollering at your girl in your presence then it's not a matter of you protecting your girl, since getting cat called or hollered at is obviously not putting her in danger. It's more a matter of you having your manhood challenged in the sense that the guy flirting with ur girl is basically saying "ur presence means nothing to me, I can holla at ur girl right in front of you, I dare you to do something about it". It's like a direct challenge to your masculinity and ur worthiness to keep the girl. In such a situation u have to step up and mark ur territory and make sure the other man backs down, or at least try your best to make this happen (we don't win every battle). If u can do this with just threatening and menacing words then good, but sometimes it might require violence.
But in a situation where u r totally outnumbered I think it's okay to refrain from acting, and any reasonable women should understand this. If she doesn't then she clearly doesn't care about your well-being at all. But if the situation goes beyond cat calling and they try to get close to your girl, then now it's not only a direct challenge to your manhood but it's also about protecting your woman from harassment/being touched etc. In such a case one has no choice but to start swinging regardless of whether he is outnumbered or not.
Thank the Lord for the second amendment.
I'm standing my ground
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@Air and @VixR I would agree with you both if such a situation was as common as you guys are making it out to be. Such a situation is actually quite rare. Most men are civilized enough to only look and not saying anything if they find ur girl attractive. A man who is flirting with ur girl right in front of you is something different all together.
Hayaaay, Cushtic ain't beating around the bush walle, she be challenging Dino to step up.
Waryaa @Dino sxb raganimadaada difaac, hawadaada ayaa lagu jidhaa.
I am willing to perform the Nikaax for y'all.
@Air and @VixR I would agree with you both if such a situation was as common as you guys are making it out to be. Such a situation is actually quite rare. Most men are civilized enough to only look and not saying anything if they find ur girl attractive. A man who is flirting with ur girl right in front of you is something different all together.
Only time a man would most-likely openly flirt with your girl is in a toxic environment like a bar. That's you our fault for thinking it would be drama free. But really if she doesn't get rid of the guy before he even says hi, she is trash so get rid of her.
Go to the caribana event in Toronto with your wife and surely she will be catcalled.
But it'll be your fault for taking her to an open strip club.
If your girl is hot, she will be catcalled all the time. Wouldn't it get tiring getting into an altercation every single time? Let it roll off your shoulder, trust me if you say something cheeky back it can escalate the situation and there's a lot crazy people out there. Also, if your girl feels you're less of a man she's ratchet, low quality woman and not worth it. Wtf that's some immature shit if she leaves you for being rational, has nothing to with masculinity.
I disagree with the others that it only happens in strip/bar environments, although the likelihood is higher in those kinds of environments.@Air and @VixR I would agree with you both if such a situation was as common as you guys are making it out to be. Such a situation is actually quite rare. Most men are civilized enough to only look and not saying anything if they find ur girl attractive. A man who is flirting with ur girl right in front of you is something different all together.