A young couple who got married 3 years ago are divorcing over what happened @ their vacation N Miami

Status
Not open for further replies.

OmarLittle

Not your typical Farah
There is no way in hell I'm standing up to 4 madows with savage mentality if I'm unarmed if they're just looking at my girl. Let me ask something: Will the pussy be worth it after you're plagiarized and can't even get out of bed? :comeon:

First of all if you're dating someone, you should have a car and not reading the bus/train. Also, go to nicer areas. Madows are usually on buses or at the shitty area malls. If you can't do both, arm yourself if you can.

By the way, I support feminism again, es defend yourselves. #FreeTheNipple #PussyHat #Hilary2020
 
She needs a real man sxb a somali bantu who can hold and protect her

Somali Bantu against fellow Bantus
IMG_6543.jpg
 
This is the way I see it. If someone is hollering at your girl in your presence then it's not a matter of you protecting your girl, since getting cat called or hollered at is obviously not putting her in danger. It's more a matter of you having your manhood challenged in the sense that the guy flirting with ur girl is basically saying "ur presence means nothing to me, I can holla at ur girl right in front of you, I dare you to do something about it". It's like a direct challenge to your masculinity and ur worthiness to keep the girl. In such a situation u have to step up and mark ur territory and make sure the other man backs down, or at least try your best to make this happen (we don't win every battle). If u can do this with just threatening and menacing words then good, but sometimes it might require violence.

But in a situation where u r totally outnumbered I think it's okay to refrain from acting, and any reasonable women should understand this. If she doesn't then she clearly doesn't care about your well-being at all. But if the situation goes beyond cat calling and they try to get close to your girl, then now it's not only a direct challenge to your manhood but it's also about protecting your woman from harassment/being touched etc. In such a case one has no choice but to start swinging regardless of whether he is outnumbered or not.
 
cowards die a thousand deaths.

but what are you doing meeting abdis and going to cinema together? why not bag a man the halal way instead of dating?

The halal way?

How? Be introduced by family? Tried that once, huge disaster. Plus there's no one else, who is eligible to be introduced too....:ohlord:

So what do you suggest? :wow:
 

mrlog

VIP
The halal way?

How? Be introduced by family? Tried that once, huge disaster. Plus there's no one else, who is eligible to be introduced too....:ohlord:

So what do you suggest? :wow:

Hayaaay, Cushtic ain't beating around the bush walle, she be challenging Dino to step up.

Waryaa @Dino sxb raganimadaada difaac, hawadaada ayaa lagu jidhaa.
I am willing to perform the Nikaax for y'all.
 

Zeus

STYLIN
This is the way I see it. If someone is hollering at your girl in your presence then it's not a matter of you protecting your girl, since getting cat called or hollered at is obviously not putting her in danger. It's more a matter of you having your manhood challenged in the sense that the guy flirting with ur girl is basically saying "ur presence means nothing to me, I can holla at ur girl right in front of you, I dare you to do something about it". It's like a direct challenge to your masculinity and ur worthiness to keep the girl. In such a situation u have to step up and mark ur territory and make sure the other man backs down, or at least try your best to make this happen (we don't win every battle). If u can do this with just threatening and menacing words then good, but sometimes it might require violence.

But in a situation where u r totally outnumbered I think it's okay to refrain from acting, and any reasonable women should understand this. If she doesn't then she clearly doesn't care about your well-being at all. But if the situation goes beyond cat calling and they try to get close to your girl, then now it's not only a direct challenge to your manhood but it's also about protecting your woman from harassment/being touched etc. In such a case one has no choice but to start swinging regardless of whether he is outnumbered or not.

If your girl is hot, she will be catcalled all the time. Wouldn't it get tiring getting into an altercation every single time? Let it roll off your shoulder, trust me if you say something cheeky back it can escalate the situation and there's a lot crazy people out there. Also, if your girl feels you're less of a man she's ratchet, low quality woman and not worth it. Wtf that's some immature shit if she leaves you for being rational, has nothing to with masculinity.
 

VixR

Veritas
This is the way I see it. If someone is hollering at your girl in your presence then it's not a matter of you protecting your girl, since getting cat called or hollered at is obviously not putting her in danger. It's more a matter of you having your manhood challenged in the sense that the guy flirting with ur girl is basically saying "ur presence means nothing to me, I can holla at ur girl right in front of you, I dare you to do something about it". It's like a direct challenge to your masculinity and ur worthiness to keep the girl. In such a situation u have to step up and mark ur territory and make sure the other man backs down, or at least try your best to make this happen (we don't win every battle). If u can do this with just threatening and menacing words then good, but sometimes it might require violence.

But in a situation where u r totally outnumbered I think it's okay to refrain from acting, and any reasonable women should understand this. If she doesn't then she clearly doesn't care about your well-being at all. But if the situation goes beyond cat calling and they try to get close to your girl, then now it's not only a direct challenge to your manhood but it's also about protecting your woman from harassment/being touched etc. In such a case one has no choice but to start swinging regardless of whether he is outnumbered or not.
You're gonna be fighting all your life, you'll forget to grow up.,
 
@Air and @VixR I would agree with you both if such a situation was as common as you guys are making it out to be. Such a situation is actually quite rare. Most men are civilized enough to only look and not saying anything if they find ur girl attractive. A man who is flirting with ur girl right in front of you is something different all together.
 

Grigori Rasputin

Former Somali Minister of Mismanagement & Misinfo.
Staff Member
Wariyaha SomaliSpot
@Air and @VixR I would agree with you both if such a situation was as common as you guys are making it out to be. Such a situation is actually quite rare. Most men are civilized enough to only look and not saying anything if they find ur girl attractive. A man who is flirting with ur girl right in front of you is something different all together.

Go to the caribana event in Toronto with your wife and surely she will be catcalled.

But it'll be your fault for taking her to an open strip club.
 

Zeus

STYLIN
@Air and @VixR I would agree with you both if such a situation was as common as you guys are making it out to be. Such a situation is actually quite rare. Most men are civilized enough to only look and not saying anything if they find ur girl attractive. A man who is flirting with ur girl right in front of you is something different all together.

Only time a man would most-likely openly flirt with your girl in front of you, is in a toxic environment like a bar. That's you our fault for thinking it would be drama free. But if she doesn't get rid of the guy before he even says hi, she is trash so get rid of her.
 
Only time a man would most-likely openly flirt with your girl is in a toxic environment like a bar. That's you our fault for thinking it would be drama free. But really if she doesn't get rid of the guy before he even says hi, she is trash so get rid of her.

I agree, and most of us would never be in a bar with our wife anyway. So again such a scenario would be very rare, making it that much more disrespectful when it does occur in day to day respectful society and not in a club or bar.
 

black

live and let die.
If your girl is hot, she will be catcalled all the time. Wouldn't it get tiring getting into an altercation every single time? Let it roll off your shoulder, trust me if you say something cheeky back it can escalate the situation and there's a lot crazy people out there. Also, if your girl feels you're less of a man she's ratchet, low quality woman and not worth it. Wtf that's some immature shit if she leaves you for being rational, has nothing to with masculinity.

This strikes me as an American problem. In actual first world countries nikkas know how to behave unless you're parading her around in a short skirt in front of a free-entry nightclub. And she kinda thickity thicc :browtf:
 

VixR

Veritas
@Air and @VixR I would agree with you both if such a situation was as common as you guys are making it out to be. Such a situation is actually quite rare. Most men are civilized enough to only look and not saying anything if they find ur girl attractive. A man who is flirting with ur girl right in front of you is something different all together.
I disagree with the others that it only happens in strip/bar environments, although the likelihood is higher in those kinds of environments.

You can't become violent bc someone spoke to your date. At the end of the day, they spoke not to you but to her, and yet you're throwing the first punch? That's getting into an altercation and potentially being hit with an assault charge. For what? The girl should know how to deescalate the situation. What you should be watching out for is how she responds vs. dubiously 'handling' it on your own due to some perceived threat to your manhood. It's not always a jerk. Guys may not even know that you're her date half the time, and even if they do, the endgame to their catcall or flirting is always ultimately dependant upon the girl's response, not on your own actions. Her response is what affirms your position, not a random stranger on the streets' attempts to flirt with her. The kind of standoff u described is highschool. Hothead.
 
Status
Not open for further replies.
Top